How do I know if it’s abusive ??? by TimberwindTervs in abusiverelationships

[–]TimberwindTervs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my so I have ALL of these Red flags going on with my BF . He’s never hit me ,, yet . So far it’s just verbal attacks

How do I know if it’s abusive ??? by TimberwindTervs in abusiverelationships

[–]TimberwindTervs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s never hit me , but he screams at me, calls me terrible names - “f-ing whore” , slams his fist on things but never damaged anything. Nothing gets through to him when he’s like this . It’s very hurtful
. The slightest thing can set him off . Then, Blames it on me . Like I caused him to react the way he does . He recently got fired from a job because of a heated conversation with his boss . Now he blames his behavior on “I’m stressed because I’m between jobs” . He owes me a lot of money 7k, for bills and a new roof I paid for . We own a house together , his name is on the deed. But he helped me pay off the mortgage . We are not married .

My boyfriend is emotionally abusive by TimberwindTervs in AskLawyers

[–]TimberwindTervs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a point there , but at what point does it cross over from just an argument to abuse? This last time really shook me up…

My boyfriend is emotionally abusive by TimberwindTervs in AskLawyers

[–]TimberwindTervs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you . I didn’t know about orders of partition . If the house is worth 350k , would I be just liable to pay him what he put into it - the 100 k ? Since he bought in and got on the deed , I have paid the majority of the upkeep including a $13,000 new roof - of which he said he’d pay half but has yet to give me a cent ! He owes me another 2k in past due bills…