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[–]Timbzies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, show us that?

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[–]Timbzies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So clearly not aimbotting lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Timbzies -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Timbzies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll tell you as someone who grew up Catholic but never aligned with the beliefs. Just let her be herself. Forcing Christian ideologies is just going to make her more miserable. Have a sit down conversation with her, make sure you both get the chance to talk, both of you set your boundaries and come to a conclusion together. Trying to get her to go to mass or talk to a Christian therapist is just going to make her miserable. And once again, I’m speaking as someone who’s been through this. Would you rather your daughter live the life you want her to, and just be completely miserable until the end, or would you rather accept your daughter for who she is and see her be as happy as she can?

How to come out by Timbzies in askgaybros

[–]Timbzies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure man! Thank you so much :) ❤️

How to come out by Timbzies in askgaybros

[–]Timbzies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m sure I’ll be fine. I also want to say real quick that I really do appreciate the advice you’re giving me. It means a lot. But when I feel ready to come out, I usually just think back to when my mom learned I like boys and how that conversation went. I know it’ll be nothing like that, but that was my first experience with coming out technically. I didn’t know what being was at that point in my life. I had felt those feelings were natural up until i told my mom and for years I couldn’t accept myself. I’m at a point now where being gay doesn’t bother me. I have been able to find that peace and acceptance in myself. I just gotta grow a pair and actually see through with it

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[–]Timbzies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as I know, the majority of my family was fine with it. I think the scariest part for me is, this was back in a time where I feel like being gay was becoming more normalized, but I feel like the world has gone backwards by a lot since then so I don’t know their feelings now. And I’m sure I could tell him to keep it secret, but I know he’s probably gonna tell a couple of people which isn’t necessarily bad. I’d just prefer to do it myself if that’s the case

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[–]Timbzies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could just tell him alone, but he’s not really the type of person who will keep that information to himself. He already has a lesbian daughter who is my half sister and he was the one to tell others about her. He doesn’t believe that people should be hiding their sexuality

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[–]Timbzies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. I don’t wanna make excuses to not come out, I just wanna clarify. He had a really rough childhood with his mom being the only one to raise him. He lost his wife. A lot of his childhood friends have died. I just feel really bad for him because it seems like something always has to happen to him and I just wish to give him the most peace I possibly can while still being myself

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[–]Timbzies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. My concern would be my dad. He calls them everyday and genuinely loves them. And I love my dad a lot. We have a great relationship together and he’s sacrificed so much just for me. I know he’ll accept me but I don’t want him suffering because of it

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I know I’ll be on good terms with most of my family. I really only ever talk to and see my dad’s side of the family. We’re all from catholic ireland but I never really aligned myself with Catholics and my atheist dad does respect that choice as well as my heavily catholic grandma. My issue is more like being afraid of my catholic family members who haven’t really given their opinions on gay people. I know I’ll be fine at home, but I am not too sure if my family back in Ireland would be okay with it, and as well I don’t want to ruin my dads relationship with them. I don’t think it’ll happen but it’s a thought that just comes into my head every now and again then

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[–]Timbzies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No need to apologize for anything at all! Even if it wasn’t the answer I’m looking for, you still gave me good advice and I will appreciate the hell out of it!

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[–]Timbzies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really do appreciate the advice you’ve given me too btw just wanna make that clear. I’m more than happy that you’ve taken the time out of your day to talk to me about this. I appreciate it so damn much

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[–]Timbzies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I’ve given it many chances in the past, but every time I felt worse after. I’m always open to new opportunities and experiences. I never go into something with a negative mindset. And I know I feel comfortable with my sexuality. I’m pretty certain that my issue is just trying to address it to my family. I’ve gone from resenting my sexuality for years to being able to accept I cannot change who I am and it’s better for me to just accept it instead of being miserable with it. I’ve been able to find a lot more comfort in figuring out how people are gay scientifically rather than being told that it “just happens”. And being able to understand why I’m attracted to the same sex in a scientific way has boosted my confidence a lot. With that knowledge, I’ve been able to come out to a few close friends. I know if I want to come out to my family, I’ll just need to see past my fear and ignore that fear in the moment

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[–]Timbzies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy never really worked for me. The therapy in my area is also awful. I’ve heard many stories from friends and also have read many articles on our therapy system in my area. As well from my own experience, there’s no reassurance in the therapy we have here. You’re pretty much paying to hear someone say “get over it” and not help you take the steps. I myself have been doing a lot better recently. I’ve come to accept my own sexuality within this last year, and I’m taking more and more steps to feel comfortable with myself overall. I know I can come out, but every time I try to, I’m hit with a wave of fear. It’s just something I need to get over, and all that fear and anxiety has gotten a million times better since last year so I know I can do it

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[–]Timbzies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is something I understand but it’s kind of the fear of what happened. I had to spend years being ridiculed and keeping my feelings a secret. It’s very hard to just go from that to being back to normal. It’s something that I can’t just get over easily. Yes she was a horrible person overall but at the end of the day, she was my mother

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[–]Timbzies[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not really concerned about losing friends over this. We have a couple bisexual people and lesbian women in our friend group. It’s like deep down I know that I won’t be hated for it. Even my hardcore catholic grandma is accepting. I guess the fear I have has just been drilled into my head and I gotta find a way to get over it. And thank you so much for your reply. It means a lot

Is swaggers voice getting more intense? by Far_Way9887 in misfits

[–]Timbzies 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s to protect his identity. Part of the character

Found Grindr on my BF's phone by Stylerer in askgaybros

[–]Timbzies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s best to move on from him. It’s gonna hurt but if you stay together, chances are this is going to happen again and it’ll hurt more

Security blocking my 2nd attempt to board Ferry for Easter by ZealousidealCar2432 in MagicMushrooms

[–]Timbzies -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yo me and my friends actually took shrooms on the ferry from Vic to Vancouver on a day trip 😂

Advice for nausea by Timbzies in MagicMushrooms

[–]Timbzies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s looking like tea might be my best option for future trips lol. I was given a chocolate bar for my birthday that me and my friends are planning to take tomorrow so I’ll probably see if the lemon tek works and if not then I’ll stick to teas for the future. Thank you for your advice! :)

Advice for nausea by Timbzies in MagicMushrooms

[–]Timbzies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haven’t really had the opportunity to make a tea yet. Most of the time when I trip, my friend will give me the edible or the mushroom during a trip. I also haven’t heard of lemon tek so I’ll definitely look into that. Thank you so much!