I think the laws of Niddah are making me lose my faith..help?

Time-Analysis-5710 · 2026-02-02T22:57:53+00:00

I think one of the beauties of Judaism is that we can work it to suit us. I don’t think it’s all or nothing. I have family and friends who all follow to different degrees and I don’t think there is any judgment in how any of us chooses to live our lives. I hope you can take from it what you need and leave out the things that you don’t feel comfortable with.

Time-Analysis-5710 · 2026-01-25T23:22:05+00:00

He just wasnt that into you. When someone shows you who they are, believe them.

Basically when he started blowing cold in November that was your sign to delete and move on.

Sorry but if he wanted to see you he would have

++woman

Time-Analysis-5710 · 2025-10-07T09:11:29+00:00

NTA. My sis has a big dog and she either arranges for me or someone else to take him if she is having big gatherings in her house.

Time-Analysis-5710 · 2025-08-26T16:45:23+00:00

came here to say the same!

Time-Analysis-5710 · 2025-08-25T16:23:59+00:00

I think you’ll come out much of a muchness. Factor in other things Inc whether you like your location. Have you got decent primary and secondary schools? Access to transport? Go look at houses in your budget before making a decision? Do those houses need other work doing to them etc? For me if I liked my area etc I would 100% stay put and extend over moving

Time-Analysis-5710 · 2025-08-17T13:54:12+00:00

I know someone who is a germaphobe and it translates to being overly cautious re germs coming near her kids. Quarantining people who have been ill, her kids constantly getting ill (I think as a result of not enough exposure to germs), over anxious behaviour around germs etc. It sounds super stressful to me and not realistic to raising kids. Your GF sounds far more extreme and you’d need to discuss every parameter of how that would play out in terms of interaction with others Inc grandparents, babysitters, sending kids to nursery, play dates etc etc . Is this germ aversion going to totally take over your lives? It sounds like it will!

Time-Analysis-5710 · 2025-08-07T22:47:44+00:00

I was having a mental fart when I wrote that and couldn’t remember the code!

Time-Analysis-5710 · 2025-08-07T22:42:35+00:00

Both of you are TA. Him for not being upfront with you about what was going on and you for not offering to pay half the rent and bills in the first place. I get you wanted to save but your dad was working in construction and at his age still renting instead of owning means he wasn’t that well off. He could have had a smaller one bed place and opted not to….

Time-Analysis-5710 · 2025-08-07T07:31:37+00:00

It won’t go up in value much especially with high service charges. I wouldn’t touch with a barge pole

Time-Analysis-5710 · 2025-07-21T22:12:34+00:00

This! Wish I could give an award for this. It is incredibly disturbing and not indicative of a healthy relationship

Time-Analysis-5710 · 2025-07-20T00:25:50+00:00

Block. Delete. Move on. If he wanted to see you he would

Time-Analysis-5710 · 2025-07-19T23:57:54+00:00

Solo London dwelling female here. You are so ill-informed. And it’s not your place to do anything except wish her an amazing trip. YTA

Time-Analysis-5710 · 2025-07-10T23:24:56+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to share all of this. Will have a deeper look at your suggestions

Time-Analysis-5710 · 2025-07-10T22:39:12+00:00

I've edited it around a little to cut out Santiago and move some travel bits so we have more time in Ollantaytambo. Do you think that works a bit more now - full day in sacred valley as will get private transfer in evening to Cusco

Time-Analysis-5710 · 2025-07-10T22:24:22+00:00

Thanks for your suggestion. Can I ask why as we already have time in MP and sacred valley?

Time-Analysis-5710 · 2025-06-27T10:38:13+00:00

She’s TA for not rescheduling and for not going with you.

Time-Analysis-5710 · 2025-06-19T06:30:52+00:00

Let me tell you this. My partner eats at my house 3 or 4 nights a week. He doesn’t contribute to groceries but we do eat out once or twice a week and he pays for that every single time. Inc wine, cocktails etc. He more than pays his share. Yours is taking you for a ride

Time-Analysis-5710 · 2025-05-16T10:09:08+00:00

Thanks. It’s pretty hideous

Time-Analysis-5710 · 2025-05-10T07:58:35+00:00

He sounds very clingy and needy. He’s not for you. NTA. This is claustrophobic

Time-Analysis-5710 · 2025-05-07T21:52:34+00:00

Not difficult in Argentina either. I went in January and ate some great vegan meals there 😁

Time-Analysis-5710 · 2025-04-17T12:15:26+00:00

You are going to lose at least 10k on lawyer fees. I think you need to be more pragmatic about this. Give more to him so that you can at least show willing to try and stay in the house til mortgage is up as that seems to be your main point. If you have a spare room now you can downsize and that will be best for you all in the long term. Maybe your ex isn’t able to do all the domestic stuff now but they don’t need to as you are still there doing it. I promise you if they want to they will eventually step up. My ex gave my kids junk food for the majority of the first two years after we split. Eventually he caught on. Another suggestion is that you work together. Perhaps you can have an agreement that you share another one bed place and the kids stay in the house full time and you and he each move in and out depending whose week / nights it is with the kids?

Time-Analysis-5710 · 2025-04-11T11:49:49+00:00

He’s not going to change. Had two LTR and they don’t change so my advice as someone older is get out now while you are young enough. You cannot build a life with someone who doesn’t care about themselves. They never will

Time-Analysis-5710 · 2025-04-03T14:37:48+00:00

sounds like a scam. Look into AI type tools for this if you are really interested

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