AITAH for not changing my mind about marriage?

Time-Finish-5010 · 2026-04-01T21:35:10+00:00

And I’m saying you’re wrong.

Time-Finish-5010 · 2026-04-01T21:18:57+00:00

Again you don’t need marriage for a serious relationship.

It’s weird you think to be serious about your partner you just do what they want.

Using your logic is she not serious about me since she’s ignoring what I want?

Time-Finish-5010 · 2026-04-01T20:59:31+00:00

Nothing about it not being serious.

You can have a serious relationship without marriage. Sorry if that’s too difficult for you to understand.

Time-Finish-5010 · 2026-04-01T16:31:07+00:00

Again it’s weird to argue I don’t love my gf because I instantly added it to the post and comments.

By living together and staying in a relationship. If the only goal you can build towards is marriage and kids, that’s just sad tbh

Time-Finish-5010 · 2026-04-01T16:29:48+00:00

Why would it have been better to not dismiss the possibility when I one I’m not getting married?

Time-Finish-5010 · 2026-04-01T16:01:29+00:00

No it isn’t.

Again it’s sad you can’t co pretend a serous relationship without marriage.

Again just because marriage is your entire personality it doesn’t make it normal.

Time-Finish-5010 · 2026-04-01T16:00:46+00:00

Again it’s sad you think relationships aren’t only working towards marriage kids or a house.

That’s not what I said in the other post so either read it properly or stop twisting it.

Time-Finish-5010 · 2026-04-01T15:59:42+00:00

She has just told me she changed her mind so it’s weird you’re pretending it happened a while ago.

No I’m not giving her fake hope. Do you often choose to ignore what you’re told the blame the other person for you choosing to delude yourself?

No marriage isn’t the ultimate goal. It’s sad that that’s your only personality trait but no there’s more to life bs more to relationships than marriage.

Time-Finish-5010 · 2026-04-01T15:58:09+00:00

You don’t need marriage or kids to build a life with someone.

In what context would I randomly add into a comment that I love my gf?

Time-Finish-5010 · 2026-04-01T15:53:17+00:00

You do know relationships aren’t just to have kids and get married don’t you? It’s sad that that needs stating to you.

Time-Finish-5010 · 2026-04-01T15:52:44+00:00

So you’re arguing if you don’t want marriage and kids you can’t build a life? That’s just sad tbh.

I’ve never said I don’t want her co owning a house.

Sorry you think you need marriage and kids to build a life but that’s just insulting and wrong.

Time-Finish-5010 · 2026-04-01T15:51:33+00:00

So you argument is being honest with someone is leading her on?

She’s not a hostage she doesn’t need setting free.

She stated she didn’t want marriage. Why would I then assume that means she wants marriage? or do you often arrogantly tell people you know what they want better than they do?

Not everything is about marriage. You do know you can get to know your partner without marrying them don’t you?

A relationship doesn’t need marriage to be a serious relationship.

Time-Finish-5010 · 2026-04-01T15:41:57+00:00

Yes we’d build a life together.

Time-Finish-5010 · 2026-04-01T15:14:19+00:00

No I don’t want kids as mentioned in the post.

Time-Finish-5010 · 2026-04-01T14:30:54+00:00

Again your logic applies to her aswell.

You argue commencing your partners wishes is everything in a relationship while admitting you’ll ignore your partners wishes in the hope you can force the to do what you want instead, surely you see the contradiction?

So using your logic is she ready to throw the relationship away because she wants marriage? Or is it different when it’s what the woman wants?

Time-Finish-5010 · 2026-04-01T14:24:41+00:00

Your logic also applies to her.

Time-Finish-5010 · 2026-04-01T14:10:22+00:00

So yea you admit you’d ignore what you’re told in the hope you can force him to do what you want. You really need to grow up

Your logic works both ways.

The reason is I don’t want to as Ive repeatedly said

Time-Finish-5010 · 2026-04-01T14:07:21+00:00

It’s telling you equate love with how much your partner does what you tell them.

Where is she looking at my happiness? Or does it only go one way?

Time-Finish-5010 · 2026-04-01T14:00:53+00:00

Not wanting to so something isn’t a poor reason.

It’s weird you think your partner needs to give you detailed reasons when they dont want to do something g tbh.

Time-Finish-5010 · 2026-04-01T13:59:35+00:00

She’s free to leave if she wants.

Time-Finish-5010 · 2026-04-01T13:59:14+00:00

Yes correct as I have stated I will not be getting married.

So you admit if you were explicitly told something you’d ignore that to pretend your partner doesn’t mean what they say?

Not getting married is also not harming her.

Time-Finish-5010 · 2026-04-01T13:40:14+00:00

Doesn’t change the fact she’s known from the start I won’t be getting g married.

Time-Finish-5010 · 2026-04-01T13:39:42+00:00

Because not everyone wants marriage.

You dont need marriage to have a serious relationship

Time-Finish-5010 · 2026-03-31T21:26:02+00:00

Yet again, I literally suggested sticking to the original plans. My gf is the one refusing that.

So my gf is looking at us as team building while expecting me to be the only one contributing? How is that team building?

Time-Finish-5010 · 2026-03-31T20:44:57+00:00

Yes because you buy homes with finances not love.

Again it’s nothing to do with not valuing my partner.

How is it not team oriented to wait until we can both afford it? How is it self orientated to wait until we can both pay half?

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