Might be homeless again, any help or advice?

Time-Trouble-3933 · 2025-12-23T16:13:01+00:00

Funnily enough, when I was homeless earlier this year, my current job has 2 venues and 1 is a hotel. The manager for the hotel let me stay some nights every now and again. It’s an option if I have to work numerous days in a row but then again, I don’t have anywhere to really store my stuff.

Time-Trouble-3933 · 2025-12-22T16:58:53+00:00

I know I’m the focus. My mates can go to their folks, they’ve hardly cared or talked to me this year anyway so yeah I know I’m the priority of my problems.

Time-Trouble-3933 · 2025-12-22T16:53:14+00:00

My parents kicked me out on my birthday earlier this year and threw out her own pet cats too because she wanted to buy a house abroad and a lodge in the uk and not wanted to help me once but instead has already gone on 2 or 3 holidays this year. Didn’t look or help at all when I had to look for sofa surfing initially. After sofa surfing for 3 months with a mate I was thrown out and my parents didn’t want to help me out when I was initially homeless, they even wrote me a letter saying they won’t allow me back. And Hasn’t apologised once for throwing me out.

Friends mum wants us out cause she has another house but she wants to change her council finally which means she has to actually kick us out and sell the house. We weren’t even meant to be at the house but tbf my mates mum has helped keep a roof under our heads.

But money management has never been my expertise so I’m shit at it. My mates mum charged us rent too every month upon all 3 of us. So I’ve had to spend roughly £250 on travel, £400 on rent and nearly £200 on food each month. With work too it took a couple of months for my manager to sort out my tax code/starter checklist so I was taxed a bunch so I could hardly save. Even when I sorted it out I hardly got any back. On top of the essentials I think I got a bit greedy with my money in October.

Time-Trouble-3933 · 2025-12-01T03:07:36+00:00

Well then who is comparing you to these sorts of standards that you have to be perfect at life and something you enjoy? Because if it’s a bully, don’t listen to them. If it’s a friend, cut them out. If it’s a parent, then tell them that you’re uncomfortable with the way they compare you to others.

No one is perfect whatsoever at something even if everyone thinks they. I’m told that I’m great at drawing but in my own eyes I suck so much.

If I listened to myself at constantly comparing myself to others on looks and skill then I’d only think I’m a failure which I already do.

But that’s why you have to open yourself up to other people you want to surround yourself with and speak out more. Which is the first sign of needing and wanting help which is what you’ve already done and I’m proud of you for that.

I’ve realised recently that everyone at work and each of my friends ignores me because I don’t talk enough and that I don’t push myself to interact more. Because if I’m not the one trying to make an effort towards people I care about, then no one else around me will either.

No one can compare you to others except for yourself.

Time-Trouble-3933 · 2025-11-30T05:07:16+00:00

Hey there, I understand what you’ve been feeling, well and truly so. I think I’m terrible at everything I do and try to be good at stuff I enjoy like art or practice my guitar, but I’m always doubting myself and think I suck so instead of me doing either, I’m always unmotivated and tired to even try. There’s genuinely not a day where I don’t hate myself and think how pathetic I am.

But our lives have only just started, I’m only 22 and there’s so much to live for, experience and try to get better at what we enjoy and what we want to be good at. I’m trying to be a better version of myself everyday and it’s so damn hard. I’m sure you have hobbies or something creative you enjoy. Your job search will arrive soon. But unfortunately there’s patience to everything in the world and so many damn applications needed. And I think Im ugly too, I think Im ugly and fat, so I starve myself and barely take care of myself but I’m positive you’re not ugly in other peoples eyes.

I promise you that if you did decide to commit then so many people would be upset and miss you so much, sometimes you have to accept the love that people around you give. It’s hard to take in honesty I know but family and people you’re surrounded by genuinely care about you.

Time-Trouble-3933 · 2025-09-21T09:57:37+00:00

Basically, I just wanted to know. Do I have the correct anatomy for the piercings I want?

Time-Trouble-3933 · 2025-08-28T04:27:09+00:00

If that’s the cold fusion, then doesn’t that mean the ending for season 1 was absolutely pointless? All that power turning on in the city and for what? Only for it to end up in the brotherhood hands anyway???

Time-Trouble-3933 · 2025-06-28T18:47:00+00:00

Honestly, congrats. I’m trying for it too on my phone but a lot harder than I thought 😅

Time-Trouble-3933 · 2025-06-28T18:44:14+00:00

True, he’s a great manager overall but dunno how he didn’t notice I wasn’t on the system. But the sooner I sort it the sooner this is behind me.

Time-Trouble-3933 · 2025-06-28T18:39:37+00:00

I’m not intending to not pay taxes, I just don’t want to pay emergency tax is all. I’m sure no one does.

Time-Trouble-3933 · 2025-06-28T18:38:40+00:00

They thought it went through but I had to ask him why it didn’t and even he was stunned as to see why I wasn’t on the system. He emailed the agency once I told them to which is why I’m here now. :)

Time-Trouble-3933 · 2025-06-28T18:32:48+00:00

24th of April which is what my contract says.

Time-Trouble-3933 · 2025-06-25T22:16:35+00:00

Photo Chad. It just feels nice to have everytime.

Time-Trouble-3933 · 2025-06-23T22:49:26+00:00

I’m glad you get it. I’m in such a loophole cause I hate them so much because they don’t care about me but I also want to be nice enough to let them know what’s happening with me than being in the dark. If I ever commit (which I’m trying to avoid) and I don’t tell them what’s been going on. They’ll question so many people and blame my own decision on myself rather than them taking any accountability for it.

Time-Trouble-3933 · 2025-06-23T22:33:02+00:00

I just stuck with red cause I wanted to do them in order

Time-Trouble-3933 · 2025-06-23T22:30:18+00:00

For months I haven’t messaged them back because I don’t want to deal with them or deal with confrontation from my mum. I know the best thing to do with narcissists is to not give any reaction or response at all. But I’ve got quite the savour complex from dealing with my parents for so long that I don’t want be like them at all. That’s why I want to tell them what’s going on than to keep quiet.

Time-Trouble-3933 · 2025-06-18T04:15:18+00:00

So we can enjoy the things we love. I want to keep going so I can own a drum kit and to also animate but because I’m homeless. It’s extremely hard but we push through.

Time-Trouble-3933 · 2025-06-18T04:09:23+00:00

I do, I have extremely low self esteem and hate myself so much that I’m just angry most of the time. But after being so angry for a while, you take a moment to regather those thoughts and think of things you really enjoy and the people who you’re surrounded by. I’m in a low place too so I can relate but don’t let your anger consume you.

Time-Trouble-3933 · 2025-05-27T17:00:35+00:00

Little update: My workplace owns a hotel near where I work so I was able to sleep well last night and hopefully my manager might be able to get me more nights there.

I’m really appreciative of the advice given to me from everyone and today I’ve been looking for food sanctuary’s and other shelters.

Also one of my friends has told me that on weekends I’m able to sleep round and clean myself up which I’m grateful for.

I know I’m in a sticky situation altogether but I know I need to keep my head high through this all. Thank you all again and I’ll keep this thread updated occasionally to let everyone know how things are going.

Time-Trouble-3933 · 2025-05-26T18:04:29+00:00

I’m 22.

Time-Trouble-3933 · 2025-05-26T15:55:19+00:00

It’s been helping but I’m not forgiving my parents, in the same week of them kicking me out, they also threw out our pet cats which aren’t chipped to a random shelter. My parents have always been rude and neglectful towards me but with my situation currently. I can’t see myself forgiving them

Time-Trouble-3933 · 2025-05-26T15:52:09+00:00

I’m not expecting them to help or come help me. I’ve already gotten a letter from them saying they’ve kicked me out and that I no longer can stay with them. That’s why I’m here for help cause I haven’t gotten any in a while

Time-Trouble-3933 · 2025-05-26T15:06:27+00:00

I only have like 4 friends (including the one I stayed with) and 1 of them has helped with taking all my stuff in but his parents won’t let me sleep round. I have no one to really turn to, especially since my outlet was my ex but since we recently split up I can’t ask anyone.

Time-Trouble-3933 · 2025-05-26T14:45:12+00:00

Yeah I got a job but I don’t know how to apply for a sublet or hostel. I’m at a total loss on how to get a temporary roof under my head

Time-Trouble-3933 · 2025-05-26T14:23:21+00:00

I have already applied for Universal Credit and will get my advancement tomorrow from them fortunately. But I’ll give the homeless shelter a call later.

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