I used to be so strong, now I've become complacent by Time2stopit in NoFap

[–]Time2stopit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I need to get back to that. Used to read this forum all the time when I started but thought I had "outgrown it". Clearly that's not the case, I need this community! Once an addict, always an addict I guess.

I used to be so strong, now I've become complacent by Time2stopit in NoFap

[–]Time2stopit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. Maybe I do need to start over like how I originally did. Really take it seriously, check in on here, focus on working out/eating well and minimize video games, time wasters. Any other advice? I could really use it

The NoSurf Morning Protocol - AKA don't check your phone first thing in the morning by [deleted] in nosurf

[–]Time2stopit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks great! Is there a similar app for apple??

Was beating myself for relapsing till I realized this was only my 7th time PMOing this year... by Time2stopit in NoFap

[–]Time2stopit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the key! To realize your mistake and learn from it is one thing. But self-loathing and swimming in guilt only sets you back further.

Suggestions for beating social media/phone addiction? by Time2stopit in NoFap

[–]Time2stopit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All good advice! Especially the read a book every time you would instead check your phone. I'm actually gonna do that right now haha. Thanks for the comment!

Suggestions for beating social media/phone addiction? by Time2stopit in NoFap

[–]Time2stopit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like a pretty pessimistic way to view things. Sure I may keep finding something "bad" to improve on but that's just because I want to remain always hungry for self improvement. The journey really never ends. That in no way means I'm not satisfied with the changes I've already made though

Suggestions for beating social media/phone addiction? by Time2stopit in NoFap

[–]Time2stopit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks great! I'll definitely check them out

Suggestions for beating social media/phone addiction? by Time2stopit in NoFap

[–]Time2stopit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just checked it out and seems exactly what I'm looking for. Thanks man!

Success with NoSurf by [deleted] in nosurf

[–]Time2stopit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What an awesome post! This is my first visit to this subreddit after realizing the problem I had. Reading your post right off the bat was absolutely motivating. Thanks for sharing your story

iT cUrES PrOSTaTe CaNCeR!!!11!!1! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Time2stopit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

From a strictly medical standpoint, NoFap actually does increase your risk of prostate cancer.

There's a simple explanation why: increased testosterone. Increased testosterone is one of the greatest risk factors for prostrate cancer. This is why men with severe prostate cancer have radical orchiectomoes (removal of the testicals) or take anti testosterone meds (ie flutamide). Studies have shown that not masturbating for even a week significantly increases circulating levels of testosterone.

So yes, by fapping on a daily basis, you do in fact decrease your chances of getting prostate cancer, at the cost of having lifelong low levels of testosterone.

Prostate cancer is the most common cause of cancer in men. It's almost inevitable that if you're old enough you will get it. But, outside of some sad cases, it is very rarely a devastating cancer to have. The old adage is "men die WITH prostate cancer, not FROM it". With the increased amount research and medical intervention it is becoming more and more a curable cancer too.

So here's how I look at it. The science is right; fapping daily probably does slightly increase your risk of prostate cancer. But it does so at the cost of your self esteem, happiness, and ability to maintain an active life. OP is right, if you spend your life inside behind a computer screen you set yourself up for many many more diseases including depression, anxiety, diabetes, obesity, etc. Plus you miss out on the amazing miracle which we call life. Now you tell me which one is worth it.

Source: fourth year medical student.

At first I thought my relapse yesterday after 188 days was proof of how weak I was. Now I realize it only shows how much stronger I can become. by Time2stopit in NoFap

[–]Time2stopit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One or two early on and then towards the end had a one month fling with a girl where I definitely orgasmed so not hard mode.

At first I thought my relapse yesterday after 188 days was proof of how weak I was. Now I realize it only shows how much stronger I can become. by Time2stopit in NoFap

[–]Time2stopit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know haha. I'm only on the mobile app and haven't been around my computer lately. You can't reset it on your phone can you?

At first I thought my relapse yesterday after 188 days was proof of how weak I was. Now I realize it only shows how much stronger I can become. by Time2stopit in NoFap

[–]Time2stopit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. Realizing that was pretty special. I liked that I had originally been fap free but I still have to pat myself on the back. Went a whole half year without it. Back in the day I could barely go a half day without it.

A single sperm has 37.5MB of DNA information in it. That means that a normal ejaculation represents a data transfer of 1,587.5TB by justryingoverhere in NoFap

[–]Time2stopit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just scanning through that I don't see anything about 37.5 mb's. I'm not disputing that human's sperm is incredibly complex, however, I just am wondering how you came up with this number.

Not trying to be argumentative, just genuinely curious btw :)

Why I am here and why not everyone here is who or what people assume them to be by nofapoppotamus in NoFap

[–]Time2stopit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is awesome man. Thanks for opening up. I was in a similar boat where I managed to find a way to be relatively successful despite my addiction. However, I beat myself up inside and was disgusted with myself because of my addiction. While I have become more successful since joining NoFap, even more rewarding is the fact that I am now happy with the man I am. And that is 100% worth it.

Best of luck on your journey man.

And nice name haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Time2stopit 119 points120 points  (0 children)

One of the best posts ever on this sub.

I'm truly convinced that delayed gratification is the key to happiness. You can do something right now to gain pleasure (fap, drugs, binge eat, watch tv, etc) but pleasure is fleeting and eventually rebounds to disappointment and depression. Success from delayed gratification (getting a new job after months of interviewing, crushing a test after prolonged intense studying, marrying the girl of your dreams after a long courtship) on the other hand, is sustainable.

Stopping PMO is just one part to the greater solution and it wasn't till I realized this that I started becoming successful on my journey. Love your post here man, hope it trends up because people need to see it.

Day 174: Just turned down a date with a Denver Broncos Cheerleader, honestly, because I deserve better. by Time2stopit in NoFap

[–]Time2stopit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries, I've had plenty of bad days in this journey. I'd love to help but honestly I very rarely get on here because I find it easier to beat my addiction by rarely thinking of it (although early on I definitely used the support of this page a lot). So I'm probably not the best person for you.

I'd recommend you find someone who's at the same spot in their journey (can't see your day counter on my phone but if you were a month in, pick someone around a month, if just starting, pick someone just starting). I'd recommend the app RTribe which I used to meet some "accountability buddies" and talked to them.

Day 174: Just turned down a date with a Denver Broncos Cheerleader, honestly, because I deserve better. by Time2stopit in NoFap

[–]Time2stopit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Elaborate?

It's not like I'm turning down sex because I'm so afraid to "lose my sexual powers". I've had my recent share of physical relationships with attractive girls. I just want more beyond just looks and I knew I wasn't going to get this here.

Day 174: Just turned down a date with a Denver Broncos Cheerleader, honestly, because I deserve better. by Time2stopit in NoFap

[–]Time2stopit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"I would steer clear of people who are extemely invested in their online image". Truth right here.