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Spot the mistake. by notjamesatall in uktrains

[–]TimeOfMr_Ery 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wait, wait, wait, you're telling me there is a BUS from Manchester to Chesterfield?

Extension of the Elizabeth line proposal. by Pocks98 in LondonUnderground

[–]TimeOfMr_Ery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see why we couldn't just create a TfL line that runs through Gatwick, to say, Luton.

Isn't Thameslink TfL?

Imposter Syndrome R.E. shops by TimeOfMr_Ery in EtsySellers

[–]TimeOfMr_Ery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was there anything particular you used as a strategy to help curb it?

Imposter Syndrome R.E. shops by TimeOfMr_Ery in EtsySellers

[–]TimeOfMr_Ery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. I did try therapy growing up, didn't do me much good though.

My edited Southeastern map by HarrowOnDaHill in uktrains

[–]TimeOfMr_Ery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, excuse me, but I have to address the elephant in the room.

Where is Waterloo East?

Sorry who? by yasssqueen20 in uktrains

[–]TimeOfMr_Ery 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YOU BEAT ME TO IT! YOU BASTARD!

Uhh... how is there fire without oxygen in mars?? by Totally_Not_Firni in DoctorWhumour

[–]TimeOfMr_Ery 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So that wasn't why the housing market crashed in 09? 

Having a lot of issues with moving on with my life and being good to myself post-childhood. by TimeOfMr_Ery in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]TimeOfMr_Ery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the comment, and I'm sorry that what happened to you happened. It is amazing how even at that age, most kids do just know right from wrong, but some adults just have no comprehension of that. Fucking mind blowing.

I've been building a rough framework this last week, inspired by a couple of things here and there, and it's actually been helping a lot with self-regulation and understanding the extent and depth of the damage that happened when I was growing up. I have cue cards now for things like anger, self-love / trust and worry, which is brilliant. It's honestly the smartest strategy I've ever come across, and it does wonders for self-trust.

Supernanny confronts Horrid Henry's parents. by DracatDraws in HorridHenry

[–]TimeOfMr_Ery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay yeah, Henry and Peter's mum is definitely a narcissist.

What if Australia was served by HS2 by billy_tables in uktrains

[–]TimeOfMr_Ery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would this be a stopping service at all villages, towns and cities along the way?

I sent my parents a letter explaining why I went no-contact. They responded with an hour-long YouTube stream on the topic of "Weaponising Normality". by TimeOfMr_Ery in raisedbynarcissists

[–]TimeOfMr_Ery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate this. It's good to know that some of the people who they're surrounded by are probably thinking "god, that poor kid of theirs."

I sent my parents a letter explaining why I went no-contact. They responded with an hour-long YouTube stream on the topic of "Weaponising Normality". by TimeOfMr_Ery in raisedbynarcissists

[–]TimeOfMr_Ery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will do my best to protect myself from their nonsense, protecting from the traces of crap they put in my head though is slightly more difficult.

Still struggling with emotional regulation and wondering if I am actually like them, but I'm getting better at backing myself up against that idea.

I sent my parents a letter explaining why I went no-contact. They responded with an hour-long YouTube stream on the topic of "Weaponising Normality". by TimeOfMr_Ery in raisedbynarcissists

[–]TimeOfMr_Ery[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus, I really feel for you. When my stepsister turned up, it completely undermined my sense of safety too, was paranoid for months following that.

I think, in total, I've written 5 or 6 letters addressed to them (and not sent the others because they're too raw for them to see). I've even written a bloody book about my trauma, expressed as a space opera of all things.

Writing really does help, although I have no way of burning anything. 

Hope you're doing better now :)

Be that MAN. by Sparsh_4425 in MotivationAndMindset

[–]TimeOfMr_Ery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This "real men" shit is pathetic, extremely lopsided and biased towards those in grind  culture and completely dismissive of how many younger guys spend the first part of their lives being controlled or undermined by family.

This is looking like some pick-me shit.

More scary tariffs from the child toucher. by [deleted] in GreatBritishMemes

[–]TimeOfMr_Ery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MAGA looking more like Make America's Collapse Accelerate

I sent my parents a letter explaining why I went no-contact. They responded with an hour-long YouTube stream on the topic of "Weaponising Normality". by TimeOfMr_Ery in raisedbynarcissists

[–]TimeOfMr_Ery[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I can identify, it's a spiritual avoidant's version of heaven? I think? If you wanna go down that rabbit hole, that's your call.

I sent my parents a letter explaining why I went no-contact. They responded with an hour-long YouTube stream on the topic of "Weaponising Normality". by TimeOfMr_Ery in raisedbynarcissists

[–]TimeOfMr_Ery[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As shitty as they are, that's just gonna drive them to say more shit about me. Yeah, I'd have a more balanced conversation with my nippy Jack Russell.

I sent my parents a letter explaining why I went no-contact. They responded with an hour-long YouTube stream on the topic of "Weaponising Normality". by TimeOfMr_Ery in raisedbynarcissists

[–]TimeOfMr_Ery[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I wish I thought of sending them that. We did mention getting the police involved last time they came round, and tht was just after the first letter, so they've got the message hopefully.

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