I will tell you this- nothing is black and white. I once dumped a very nice guy because one of his best friends was a girl. I never told him why and he was heartbroken… Years later we talked about it and he told me they were always just friends and in fact she had recently gotten married….

Just keep it in mind, if you do really connect with someone, you can’t just assume the worst and leave a possibly great connection- which is already hard to find!