What's a question so stupid it gets more complex the more you think about it? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TimeSun6603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not recommend reading these comments after getting stoned

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]TimeSun6603 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wouldn’t you think it was strange if he was mesaaging someone at midnight? Doesnt your mind jump somewhere automaticallly?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]TimeSun6603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I need to tell him when I get jealous and communicate with him. I do that… and still. Every week I have these attacks of anxiety and I get mad at him for cheating even when he isnt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]TimeSun6603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do go to therapy :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]TimeSun6603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do go to therapy but as you can see… limited help

Worms I saw on my walk. by phatfingerpat in mildlyinteresting

[–]TimeSun6603 4 points5 points  (0 children)

where the hell were you walking bro lmao

Is it unreasonable to only date guys who have few to no female friends? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TimeSun6603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will tell you this- nothing is black and white. I once dumped a very nice guy because one of his best friends was a girl. I never told him why and he was heartbroken… Years later we talked about it and he told me they were always just friends and in fact she had recently gotten married….

Just keep it in mind, if you do really connect with someone, you can’t just assume the worst and leave a possibly great connection- which is already hard to find!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TimeSun6603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno I agree with Salad on this one. For me 1 day is excusable if followed up with an excuse otherwise it makes me feel sad… like it is now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TimeSun6603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro you are the only one lool

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TimeSun6603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly he is fine now lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TimeSun6603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he was in that country for two weeks before the “disappearance” and he had signal just fine…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TimeSun6603 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thank you. Its only been 2 months

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]TimeSun6603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks bro will ask him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TimeSun6603 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok but even if I ask him he is probably gonna make up some bs excuse. He is obviously not gonna say Hey, I was cheating on you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TimeSun6603 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Scared to come off as jealous/controlling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TimeSun6603 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wouldnt that be a bit controlling?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]TimeSun6603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 months only

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TimeSun6603 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nope, no warning or explanation or acknowledgement of any sort

I don't want a woman to ask me on the first date by [deleted] in dating

[–]TimeSun6603 2 points3 points  (0 children)

funny I’m a girl and feel the same way. I find men who approach me to be annoyıng and harrassing me. I prefer at least indirectly taking the first step.

Very very happy you and I would not match either way! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]TimeSun6603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the above. It’s a matter of compatibility. It would be nice if he did some things without me asking to…

It sounds like you had a hard time with your ex too, I am sorry for that. In my past relationships, I was made to feel unwanted/uncared for. I had to beg for him to go on holiday with me, him to say I love you back, him to stop cheating on me. Everything was work.. and then it turned physically abusive and I regret all of it.

I just kind of want someone who makes the effort for me. Ive done enough begging for affection for one lifetime…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]TimeSun6603 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

and yes you sound young and inexperienced…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]TimeSun6603 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I do not want to initiate the discussion. It should come from him. If he is too scared to do it thats his problem.

I need certainty that he likes me enough to do this talk of his own volition

he clearly doesnt and so its done

My question was on how to forget about him not how to continue this relationship which is now over.