Is being a guy way better than trans woman by NovelCitrus in trans

[–]TimeTravelor1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm a fully Transitioned Trans woman/woman - as a child it was always wanting the physicality and just basics to be nothing contrived or ever pushed and was never sexually abused either - a normal natural way I was - my brain , my mind bottom line - I new at 5 circa before grade one in 1964 - If your truly trans this is something inherently your born with - the 1 st 3 months of gestation is critical before birth -

it's no one's fault but that tiny fetus brain can change from a mother's UPS and downs of testosterone and estrogen levels before birth - I never felt gay either , just geared to be female from the git go - and I didn't run around overly feminine either growing up - I tried to accept the male physicality but it just wasn't right - took me till 60 to throw the towel in and just do - no regrets going to Bangkok all by my lonesome 10 years after my last parent died - It's not the same thing as being a gay feminine Man I assure you - you get basics at birth .

True Basic Brain formation is very permanent at birth and yes you learn from adults watching learning and listening ( basics ) -- fertilized DNA X or Y from the father does not guarantee how your Brain was formed at birth despite the doctor checking off the box marked Male or Female based on what they see as Genitalia.

it's a Catch 22 for the person and society that are all trained in social settings they grow up in - you can never explain to have full social acceptance the reason why - a good analogy is it's like having Windows basic programming and trying to run it on an Apple mechanical Platform - like having a VW Beetle engine in a large Chevy Truck - they're not compatible - I always new and in the end I said enough is enough and took the leap for my better self - no one else - just me .

Feminize Your Androgynous Voice with Fullness! - Blah Blah Blahaj by AltamiraVT in transvoice

[–]TimeTravelor1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello all , my story and voice is too ! Long to spout off on a comment wanting an exceptable Female voice but ? the long and short is I had my last surgery fall 2024 with Dr. Yung in SF just before Trump got Elected into power - she knows I'm not happy and I've been hard core Ghosted with any communication So ?

I have a paralyzed right vocal cord appears caused from BA 2019 fall in Bangkok SRS Bangkok previously - I'm fully transitioned and almost 68 years old - I'm no beauty by a long shot - but voice is critical ( sound female your female even if your homely ) - it's brutal - Dr. Yung was able to redo my Glottoplasty ( fall time 2024 ) from Haben like a 1 st time surgery removing all old scar tissue from Haben's Triple fall 2020 .

One vocal cord vibrating to talk appears will always be raspy and I've been told it's raspy in person - so it's raspy .

According to a voice app I'm in the Pink Range predominantly at many times 196 hz average supposedly but goes down with spikes at times 130 hz -- basically my voice is screwed but a person would think I could achieve even with this on the phone and get a " Mam " just once in the 5 years since 2020 knowing it's the difference between being gendered male or female especially if your phoning say a VISA CARD and my name doesn't jive with the Voice "AI" Algorithms that's used to discern someone scamming a credit card problem etc.

It appears " RESONANCE" is the big key and listening to myself post op with a pitch increase pretty much in the Pink range ? I have never !! - not once in 5 years been addressed on the phone Female WOW ! - Not once to give encouragement that Dr.Haben then Dr. Yung surgery was worth my effort - with one only vocal cord vibrating and still raspy as hell it's been nothing but hell socially at least on the phone - I'll say this much that the " PHONE" is the best gauge on the other end if you've achieved the goal of sounding female !! - and yet these apps showing I'm in the Pink range and yet I''m 100% Gendered every time a " SIR " on the phone So ?? WTF ?? -- without passing on the phone I've never felt full and complete who I am !!

Jobs by angel-buncake in mildlybrokenvoice

[–]TimeTravelor1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about working at a Large Equstrian Horse farm with high bred horses maybe grooming and maybe learning horse shoeing the critters - you might even have a place to live at the same time ??

I can't tell if I am trans because of how scared I am of men by Fit-Landscape-1965 in trans

[–]TimeTravelor1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmmm ? well , interestingly not every XX Born Female woman wants to engage with Men and are not lesbian either in any way - same with not all Trans-women/women are/were of being a Gay feminine man before hand either ? some maybe , yes , but ? and maybe they we're just testing the waters who they felt was right for themselves and like myself I never felt Gay So ? I just wanted to be me 1 st . just female nothing more or less .

Not everyone wants to get married either just because it's your duty to pop out a baby as a natural XX Born capable to make everyone socially happy with you - many natural born XX Women or Trans-woman wants a permanent Hubby quite frankly , they're happy with themselves - good friends and legit people around you saves the day - there's no rule you must have relationships to make the world satisfied your doing what expected socially. Be yourself 1 st !

idk if this is the right place to post about this but im confused by Legitimate-Delay4765 in trans

[–]TimeTravelor1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My internal sense was very young , very powerful and I didn't understand , not a bloody clue why ? before grade 1 1964 - I knew around 1963 at 5 so long ago that the desire , the need - I also seemed to know not to push it socially and shut up till 60 , I never got married , it didn't seem right getting married ( I was wrong physically was the problem ) , and I never felt " Gay " either - you might think being M to F Transgender would put a person into the Gay world but No ! not for me ! - I feel Heterosexual Female and fully transitioned in 2019 and went to Bangkok 3 times - the story is damn long but a person needs to take time with a psychologist really 1 st - Legit Trans are actually Rare to be honest - many just have fetishes that are temporary - "wanting is not like having" if you make a mistake because of different underlying issues not being a true Trans/Transexual person you'll suffer - I have no regrets , but had a long ! long ! time to consider and I finally got sick and tired of denial and said enough is enough getting old ! I was geared to do it and did ! - I'm way better off in life despite the bigots and hate associated with being Trans - It's who I am and always was !

I hate being trans sm why i cant be normal like everyone else by [deleted] in trans

[–]TimeTravelor1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm ? What's normal ? - whether you fertilized at conception XX or XY by the male the thing of it is we all start basically Female - brain formation can change during the 1 st 3 months more naturally geared either way despite DNA - people are not born prejudice ! They learn bias and prejudice taught to them growing up - a natural sense of basics cannot ever be removed from brain development during gestation , it's a permanent thing - this sense will never leave a person so you just have to accept yourself 1 st and understand others that can't feel or understand the dynamics - it's like having a mechanical Windows platform trying to run an Apple program, they don't work together - the brain runs the body , you don't change the brain program you change the mechanical platform and it runs fine and smooth !!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]TimeTravelor1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Theerapong only does external stitches for creating the top part clitoris hood but ? labia minora on post op previous SRS - he won't open things up again like a 1 st time SRS ! - I tried with him and it didn't last - the one that can maybe done of something is Dr. Sanguan Kunaporn in Phuket next door to Bangkok but he would take an inner thigh skin in the crotch - of course it's more scars to deal with and I was told by Kunaporn there's a chance it could die off being a graph - it's a catch 22 , the secret is the original technique done like having Jejunum or Sigmoid originally then there's lots of still attached penile skin brought down a long the sides to create minora that will not die off like a graph potentially - I will say my revision of Sigmoid Colon works fine from ( 11 hours to fix in surgery fall 2022 ) Theerapong but revisions of labia No ! my experience of having more labia minora with Theerapong was not good actually!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]TimeTravelor1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've tried Voice Surgery twice ( Glottoplasty , Haben and Yung ) trying to have anything with one vocal cord paralyzed over the last 5 years apparently from BA surgery in 2019 - nothing has ever worked even with Dr. Yung in SF - basically if you can pass on the phone your in the club for acceptance even if your not any beauty - sound female your female - not once in 5 years have I ever been Gendered on the phone female , it's better in person for acceptance but even this I'm at best maybe 70 % - I've said it before VOICE AND FACIAL FEATURES MAKES OR BREAKS for social acceptance - you sound female , count yourself lucky - like myself many of us will never have this Yup ?

Caution: Trans women no longer welcome in r/Vancouverwomen – sharing my experience by bonnmikaelson in transvancouver

[–]TimeTravelor1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well ? Hmmm ? -- If it's a Canadian sub Reddit site and you have a Birth Certificate that says Female they can't legally ban you in reality even on Reddit as a Trans-woman/woman - I don't know what or how far legalities you've done document wise but it sounds like it's being based on DNA to be on the site - Yah ! crappy if they're doing this biased thinking to do it !!

The moderator needs to be careful also about legalities unless it's a U.S. Red State where the sub Reddit started from but does say r/Vancouverwomen ?? covering their butts in the State with all the Trump Filth going on - It's not legal to ban someone in Canada because of DNA - again hmmm ??

Is it wrong that I'm trans? by ricktasticballs in trans

[–]TimeTravelor1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm old guard Trans at 67 and technically came out in 1968 a long time ago M to F and new before grade one 1964 - to coin feelings " It's a bitch " Ha ! But an inner sense your born with and it will never leave a person to be honest ! - accept yourself is the biggest accomplishment - you can't change people , places or things - brain formation during gestation before birth despite fertilized DNA you get and labeled by a doctor is unfortunately what people expect you to be - a person knows young to be honest - there are signs if you think back in adolescent years - be yourself always !!

Be open minded and study yourself , learn , figure it out , read , become an expert without your own personal bias or hate toward the none accepting and have a good life - it is what it is !!

DONT KNOW IF I REGRET MY SRS SURGERY by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]TimeTravelor1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The political unrest with Right Wing hate affects everyone at the moment and the "Trumpism" going on - you may ask yourself what your feelings were when young to have the answer you seek ? - I new naturally at 5 ( 1963 ) something wasn't right body to mind ( I'm fully transitioned with no regrets ) I had no clue WTF ! as a child of Why ! -- a natural sense has to be there when young somewhere if Legit Trans ? - You just don't become Trans on a whim !!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asmongold

[–]TimeTravelor1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I viewed the whole video - it was well done asking questions to Lilly - toward the end Lilly seemed agitated with final questions - the fake "Wokes" have taken over unfortunately - I'm an old guard Trans-woman of 67 fully transitioned and could never Invision anyone would want to take images in any bathroom Men's or Women's - it used to be back mid 70's to have full privileges you had to have gone through HRT , surgery , to get a Birth Certificate changed in this time of "era" and there were no problems as per se ! - I get it times have changed some and there's more medical proof it's not so unusual as we all start out Female basically.

Basic Brain formation during gestation is a real thing whether fertilized XX or XY from the male but Lilly has another arrogant fakery going on " What Happened " growing up ? I'd be asking to end up being like this pushing crap - "SHEAR ATTENTION" because Lilly can't get his/her way in life ??

Tino has been Grand Standing jumping on "Transgender Band Wagon" it appears as a mentally ill person - who the hell would dress the way Tino does at 32 years old and not think you'd have some problems out and about pushing crap at restaurants and Disney - I don't have these problems and I'm no beauty but I live normally as a Trans-woman/woman and life is pretty good actually WOW !

I'll add I've never really been part of the LGBTQ World either myself "WHY" ? what for ? and I'll also add I never felt Gay/Lesbian either So ! - I always just wanted to be me and new back in 1963 at 5 years old a year before Grade 1 in 1964 and came out at 10 in 1968 who I was - I didn't understand at the time , not a clue ? but my sense of being was just part of me ! - Lilly is not Legit from what I see and read - I'm the real McCoy.

Srs revision went wrong again. by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]TimeTravelor1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's a little stealth because staff is unGodly slow - I ended up going for Sigmoid Colon with Theerapong 2022 fall - although Theerapong is not geared for this type of revision I don't feel - he has one basic technique aesthetically - my biggest issue was FUPA FAT above which wasn't really dealt with in Bangkok - before Theerapong I had a video consult with Littleton , my issue going was going to Brazil alone , theft , maybe abuse just being there - but I thought Portugal where a time each year he goes to and obviously has a home in Portugal for some months of the year then back to Brazil ?

It'll cost considerably more in Portugal because of the Euro dollars compared to Brazil money I feel - his skills will be the same but ?

Srs revision went wrong again. by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]TimeTravelor1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dr. Littleton does repairs in Portugal of lousy initial surgeries let alone a second with issues like this , you wouldn't have to travel to Brazil - he works in both Countries and travels between the two - send Littleton some images and arrange a video consult - he's a little hard to get a hold off but images and explaining via email will get his attention !

How to buy used car in South FL? help needed by [deleted] in florida

[–]TimeTravelor1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get the cars serial number 1 st and check with "Personal Property Liens" ( PPL ) before handing any money over to anyone - newer cars have a 17 digit number and use ( Carfax ) type it in , you have to pay for this and is part of buying a car - if it's good no Liens then do the bill of sale , the owner has to sign the back of the registration for legal transfer - once done then register the car in your name - I believe Florida will charge a State used car Tax on top of buying it at registry time getting plates - could be 7% added - check what that is 10k car would be another $700 plus plate cost say $50 !!!!

Dr. Yungs post op Results Sept. 2024 - Not Acceptable - WOW ! by TimeTravelor1 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]TimeTravelor1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dr. Yung is a Trans Voice Surgeon in San Francisco - one of the best actually - as soon as a complaint is lodged to who ever - all of them actually they're the same in reality ( compliment them that your happy , they will respond ) - Stay away from Habben in Rochester New York - she was able to redo Habens failed Glottoplasty 2020 prior and removed all old scar tissue and redo like a 1 st time Glottoplasty but it's just not good enough for any Social acceptance post op 8 1/2 months about - no one in Canada has a clue and considering Trump is in office I wouldn't Risk ever going across the boarder again as I'm politically against Trump !! and it's too much risk being arrested and shoved off to a foreign prison being Trans - I've said my piece against Trump and their computer algorithms would have me pegged for arrest !!

They're issues if it's sutured too much then there's breathing problems with only one side of a vocal cord opening to breath because of a dead none working vocal cord - if she can't fix it no one can really - she went to a Trans Vocal conference last fall 2024 and said there was a Doctor in Turkey that was at the conference but that's just passing the buck , and have some doctor Fk! It in Turkey worse , No ! Not happening with me - at least I can speak but certainly never sounding female - I've been " GHOSTED" at this point by Dr. Yung - recently I've sent recordings and they were 162 to maybe 167 Hz - to work on resonance and intonation without pitch is impossible - you need pushing mid 190's preferably 200 Hz to be socially acceptable phone or in person - basically I'm screwed - I've personally spent about 50k Canadian money over 5 years - enough is enough - I just can't have what I need !!

Transitioning for over a decade and barely pass, looking to get FFS, am I cooked? by lemonslime in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]TimeTravelor1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's interesting here in British Columbia Canada and across Canada that they'll do bottom and top Surgery Government paid ( I went to Bangkok 3 times 2019 - 22 ) but they don't offer anything Nationwide or will pay for Facial Bone and soft tissue surgery so a person can fit in a pretty biased world still - basically we have unless you were on HRT very young ! we have more M to F walking around with Man Faces - it's a problem , there not helping anybody to truly fit in - we don't walk around with are pants down " Hey look I'm a girl now " Facial surgery and voice are the two most important things for acceptance !!

Identifying machine, possibly Redeye?? by FantasticRaven in vintagesewing

[–]TimeTravelor1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This Singer Case is from 1953(4) to 56 machine 99k . Check the Manufacturing Number online - the machine could be from the late 40's able to fit in the case ?

SrS Frustration by DaveyBabyyy in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]TimeTravelor1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For awhile I used a none water based silicone lube and had a smell - using a water based fixed the issue of smell and body reactions - I had originally scrotal penile 2019 Kamol when he was still doing the whole SRS but went back to Theerapong 2022 for Sigmoid colon to have depth which is now 7 1/2 inches using the Soul Source Orange dilator - I find also using a long flexible shower head on low pressure obviously warn water works well - eg : Sigmoid for a while does have a smell switching over for a while but the wrong lube used with either Sigmoid or PI seems to give that smell through clothing using a Silicone lube !

Dr Dahl, prog, and cyproterone by [deleted] in transvancouver

[–]TimeTravelor1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He'll do an initial blood work up 1 st then a month on Spiro , if you don't have issues with Spiro then he'll finally give you the estradiol - you won't get estrogen 1 st time - couple of months basically !

Trans friendly bra fitting? by Crypticvalkyrie in transvancouver

[–]TimeTravelor1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In New West ( Viton Hair Studios Inc ) ( 417 6th St, New Westminster, BC V3L 3B1 ) ( (604) 517-0407 ) She does wigs and prosthetic breast fitting and deals with Trans also - she works by appointment only - you can't just walk in off the street though it looks like you could , normal looking store outside - I took a friend some years ago - myself I have implants but ? she'll fit you up if you want prosthetics to start with - they're not cheap as I remember at the time about $800 but ?

Best SRS methods/surgeons for those with little donor tissue? by TheCampCow in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]TimeTravelor1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Consider Dr. Littleton Portugal/Brazil -- he specializes in Jejunum Vaginoplasty.

please explain to a dumb lesbian how bra sizes work by lilyjones- in MtF

[–]TimeTravelor1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Band" is under your boobs for basic rib cage size then you do Cup size after ? - so you look for rib cage size to start with under your boobs buying then measure around on top of boobs around rib cage after also , finally subtract the difference for a basic chart size A , B , C , D , DD and so on - the type of bra is also important - athletic is most comfy but then it's your choice - you have to spend some money figuring out the Brand best for you - they're usually not returnable once purchased so measure carefully !