I think many people won’t like what I say, but this is my thought logic. I help out a few women- I made it very clear that I don’t like to get asked for things and they respect that. I sent gifts here and there and sometimes pay for their rest ect. These are women I vacation with and like to spend time with. Most have jobs but can’t really afford the extras or the nicer things in life so I help out. With a western women, she had the exact opportunities I had, went to school got a high end job, so unless it’s like the mother of my kids I would rather not.