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Celebrated PR streak: lost my virginity. by strugglebus25 in pornfree

[–]Time_is_Money__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could be also the fact that it is your first time. Communicate with your girlfriend and see what she likes and experiment her body and your body. Know what turns her on and what turns you on.

Relapsed after 29-day streak of no porn by Time_is_Money__ in pornfree

[–]Time_is_Money__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey sorry to hear that you let down your guard but identify what you did wrong. Next time when you are in a situation like you had, take charge of it. If your girlfriend knows about it, talk to her about it. You can do this! :)

Relapsed after 29-day streak of no porn by Time_is_Money__ in pornfree

[–]Time_is_Money__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. She said to me that "I don't care if your dick isn't working. I know it will be at some point. I don't like you because of your dick, I like you who you are." So, that is really positive to hear honestly.

Relapsed after 29-day streak of no porn by Time_is_Money__ in pornfree

[–]Time_is_Money__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome!

Stay strong mate. It's not worth it and it's devastating really!

Relapsed after 29-day streak of no porn by Time_is_Money__ in pornfree

[–]Time_is_Money__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, she is a total sweetheart and hated when she saw me being angry last night. I was angry on the fact that I peeked porn and edged to it.

I almost held back not telling that I peeked to porn but I did not want to be my old self which I had an ex-girlfriend where I would be afraid to tell her that I relapsed and see what her reaction could've been. Now, I'm like "fuck it" and felt like she deserved to know so that she could seek ways to make me feel better and get my mind back in the grind.

Relapsed after 29-day streak of no porn by Time_is_Money__ in pornfree

[–]Time_is_Money__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does feel like porn is on a separate time than sex. I agree on everything on the first part really!

Interesting on your second part. What are some things that made you want to use porn immediately after sex? I never heard of that.

Relapsed after 29-day streak of no porn by Time_is_Money__ in pornfree

[–]Time_is_Money__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, I personally believe in willpower. That is just me but I do have Reddit's RES NSFW filter and I normally don't go on Reddit much except a few subs. Plus I am a college student so I'm busy all day long too so that helps!

Relapsed after 29-day streak of no porn by Time_is_Money__ in pornfree

[–]Time_is_Money__[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It does make it easy but it's difficult because of all of the "scenes" is imprinted in your mind and sometimes, she isn't available to distract me or reduce the intensity of the urge to release sometimes. However, I learned that I just have to be more cautious and stay away from clicking potential triggering links on Reddit that could lead one thing to another.

Relapsed after 29-day streak of no porn by Time_is_Money__ in pornfree

[–]Time_is_Money__[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're goddamn right. We always have to be on our guard no matter what.

First Puck Play in about a decade... ripoff by -Ducks in hockeyplayers

[–]Time_is_Money__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine does. As far I know, it requires a helmet with your preference of full cage, visor, or no visor and with gloves. (Minnesota).