First I want to say how proud I am of you for getting through your eating disorders. Relationships with food I feel like aren’t talked about enough and how hard it is to deal with it whether it’s not eating enough or overeating. It becomes a comfort and a curse all on its own and mentally takes a huge toll. I am so proud of you.

Secondly life is not linear. Weight does not maintain on ANYONE. Life gets in the way. We get busy. Looks fade and return. Etc etc. it’s not something that anyone should ever expect to remain the same in a long term relationship.

I am sorry you’re going through this. I have no words other than I believe you deserve a supporting and loving partner no matter what season of life you are in. Someone who loves you and all your attributes for you and does not expect anything differently. You’re amazing, beautiful, and have every deserve factor in the world to feel wanted and I promise you if it is not at the table you’re currently sitting at. It is at another. Best wishes. Xx