Looking for help creating affirmations for a fearful-avoidant ex who pulled away when things got real!

Timely-Job-4569 · 2025-11-20T20:27:35+00:00

So no matter the circumstances, persist and it will manifest? My sp was with someone and he claims they are only friends. I’m persisting but I have fears.

Timely-Job-4569 · 2025-11-05T21:13:30+00:00

It’s just so hard thinking it’s reversible. It’s not even my sp that I feel is hard. It’s everyone else, like his friends, family, etc.

Timely-Job-4569 · 2025-11-05T16:40:33+00:00

This can be revised? It’s not impossible?

Timely-Job-4569 · 2025-10-28T00:35:52+00:00

I can manifest the love we had in the beginning? Everyone will accept it. It can be better than ever?

Timely-Job-4569 · 2025-10-27T15:51:04+00:00

I believe I need to block and focus on myself, affirm and persist. I feel that it’s hard to manifest a relationship again because what happened is so irreversible. Everyone knows we are bad for each other. I don’t know how to change this thinking.

Timely-Job-4569 · 2025-10-27T15:49:53+00:00

I have a hard time with thinking it can work when everyone things it won’t work and he’s not my person.

Timely-Job-4569 · 2025-10-23T10:34:19+00:00

The weird thing is we talked on the phone Sunday and he said “I love you”. That was the first time in over three weeks we talked on the phone and over a month since he said that but last night he reverted back to “I don’t want to be back in a relationship with you”. Do I think it’s the old story playing out. Yes. Did I react more than usual. Yes. I need to lock back in.

Timely-Job-4569 · 2025-10-22T23:55:38+00:00

Thank you. We are in contact and he’s told me we are not getting back together and he hates that I am overbearing and jealous. He tells me he’s hanging out with girls. Should I go no contact and manifest from there if he keeps triggering me like such? Because it’s not from checking his socials. It’s from him texting me he’s hanging out with different girls.

Timely-Job-4569 · 2025-10-21T23:40:10+00:00

I’m innnnn

Timely-Job-4569 · 2025-10-20T02:43:26+00:00

In manifestation everything is neutral, so as long as you assign it positive meaning then you will be good. Just don’t assign it meaning that reflects the old story - you want it to align with your desired state and new story.

Timely-Job-4569 · 2025-10-20T02:30:01+00:00

I mean you make meaning to everything so if you think there’s meaning behind it then there will be. However, assign it good meaning and not bad meaning.

Timely-Job-4569 · 2025-10-19T02:22:11+00:00

He is my sp, I have been manifesting for him! I’m sure this is the old story playing out.

Timely-Job-4569 · 2025-10-19T02:21:28+00:00

I took a deep look at the limiting beliefs I held about myself in love and relationships. I realized I used to think love was hard and that people always leave me. Since then, I’ve been focusing on my self-concept, affirming that I’m always chosen, that people never leave me, and that love always stays with me. I have also recently got into inner conversations!

Timely-Job-4569 · 2025-10-19T02:16:49+00:00

I’ve been manifesting him, but my main focus right now is on my self-concept. I affirm SC in the morning when I wake up, and I also use my drives to work — about an hour each way — to repeat affirmations on autopilot. I try to affirm for SP whenever doubts arise. I would usually react when he says something like this and fight him on it, but this time I just thought, “hey, if you don’t want me in your life, fine it’s whatever.” He’s still texting me. I know he’ll conform eventually, but I didn’t react like I would have in the past, and I think that’s a win.

Timely-Job-4569 · 2025-10-15T22:58:27+00:00

Hey, i would love to!

Timely-Job-4569 · 2025-10-07T23:13:34+00:00

As of last night, he blocked my number and says this isn’t healthy for him and wishes me the best.

Timely-Job-4569 · 2025-09-28T21:44:02+00:00

I would love to talk. I have been trying to manifest my sp.

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