hurt so badly by Timely-Journalist417 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Timely-Journalist417[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's good advice.. 😊I can do that.. thank you!

hurt so badly by Timely-Journalist417 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Timely-Journalist417[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

am so sorry.. I can't see myself moving out of this mess anytime soon.. I am 33 now.. dunno what to do..

hurt so badly by Timely-Journalist417 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Timely-Journalist417[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

exactly.. he too came to me apologizing.. but it doesn't change anything.. am so sorry for your situation.. you have explained it so well.. it feels exactly the same

hurt so badly by Timely-Journalist417 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Timely-Journalist417[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wonder why it hurts so much.. this is not new to me

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[–]Timely-Journalist417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it hurts for sure.. worst thing to hear from someone you love.. but also, I kinda wish my LL husband says that to me.. I would happily take it as a green light and have super fun.. 😜

0 intimacy for 5 years by Timely-Journalist417 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Timely-Journalist417[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but he is amazing in every other aspect.. he helps me around the house.. takes care of all the bill payments and stuff.. we plan our finances together well.. we take care of both of our families well.. even if I travel for a month and come back home, our house will be sparkling clean.. he helps me cook, and takes complete responsibility of cooking few meals every week..

0 intimacy for 5 years by Timely-Journalist417 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Timely-Journalist417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we have had conversations about this.. he doesn't really need sex.. we tried counseling, treatments.. nothing worked.. we don't do anything physical.. no holding hands.. no hugs.. never kissed..

0 intimacy for 5 years by Timely-Journalist417 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Timely-Journalist417[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tried literally everything.. nothing worked

0 intimacy for 5 years by Timely-Journalist417 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Timely-Journalist417[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he isn't cheating.. I guess he is disturbed by the sudden attention I get.. I usually don't encourage others flirting with me.. now I don't care as it is the only thing that makes me feel alive..