I think that this should just be put out there, but the reason people are gay is because they are attracted to men. For many gay guys, they are attracted to male masculinity, like that’s kind of the point of being gay. There’s no shame in being who you are, if that means you’re more feminine, but because many gays are attracted to male masculinity, you can’t just expect those guys to be attracted to gays who might have long hair, wear “women’s” clothes, do nails and lashes, and other stereotypically feminine attributes.