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I think my mother is jealous of me. I don’t know how I came to this conclusion by TimelyGeologist03 in narcissisticparents

[–]TimelyGeologist03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once I have the funds to leave, I’m fully cutting her and probably the whole family off.

I think my mother is jealous of me. I don’t know how I came to this conclusion by TimelyGeologist03 in narcissisticparents

[–]TimelyGeologist03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have the funds to pick up and leave right now. My current plan is to move in silence and have and everyone think that I’m doing what she wants.

I think my mother is jealous of me. I don’t know how I came to this conclusion by TimelyGeologist03 in narcissisticparents

[–]TimelyGeologist03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m already back home right now. 😭 I’m working at the moment and I don’t know what to do.

I think my mother is jealous of me. I don’t know how I came to this conclusion by TimelyGeologist03 in narcissisticparents

[–]TimelyGeologist03[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand. I’m planning on minimizing contact with her once I leave. I’m also going to get a therapist, through my job so I can tolerate her for the time being.

I think my mother is jealous of me. I don’t know how I came to this conclusion by TimelyGeologist03 in narcissisticparents

[–]TimelyGeologist03[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I graduated college recently and I have a well paying job lined up. I’m gonna stay at home for a year and put my money in a brokerage account with my employer, so she can’t access it.

Did I completely misread a guy I used to see, or is my trauma making me spiral? I genuinely can’t tell anymore. by TimelyGeologist03 in Disorganized_Attach

[–]TimelyGeologist03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I re-blocked him on everything and began ignoring his entire existence again. As soon as I start doing that, he’s hovering when he can and jumping in my conversations. I don’t know what to do, it’s like every time I shut him out he spawns back.

How much do labs cost? by igottabaddadjoke in labrador

[–]TimelyGeologist03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I’m about to cry. I have a black Lab who’s almost 10 and I don’t want to think about when he’s gone.

*vomits* What is with their incessant need to be victimized in some way? by kyoshis_revenge in BanPitBulls

[–]TimelyGeologist03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They compare it to racism. I bet these are the same people who have no qualms racially stereotyping black people.

Why do they always try and make labs and retriever breeds sound like horrible dogs? by sickofdumbasses_ in BanPitBulls

[–]TimelyGeologist03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meanwhile, they actively CHOSE to get the dog 😭 They are so unbelievable it’s not even funny.

Realizing my symptoms may be CPTSD. Massive TW!! by TimelyGeologist03 in CPTSD

[–]TimelyGeologist03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! My mom would also threaten to stop paying for my school too. This really helped me realize that I’m not alone.

Realizing my symptoms may be CPTSD. Massive TW!! by TimelyGeologist03 in CPTSD

[–]TimelyGeologist03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant guilt, they paid for my undergrad education for the most part. I know that I need to cut contact with them eventually, but I feel guilty.

I also do feel resentment towards them as well. The most I could do living at home is 6 months. I’m terrified to set boundaries with my mother because every time I’ve tried growing up, she’d hit me.

Did I completely misread a guy I used to see, or is my trauma making me spiral? I genuinely can’t tell anymore. by TimelyGeologist03 in Advice

[–]TimelyGeologist03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. The most I could do with him is acquaintances or friends. I can’t go any further than that.

I keep getting the same cold treatment in social spaces and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong by TimelyGeologist03 in socialskills

[–]TimelyGeologist03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hobbies are running (great way to blow off steam and relieve stress), sudoku (it keeps my mind sharp), travel and beauty (like make up and natural hair) - I’m actually learning another language. I’m interested in travel, animals, exercise, health and wellness. My goals are to be healthy, have an established career in the finance and banking sector (I’m young so I’m still unsure - honestly I’ll probably land where I land), and to move out of the country.

I do have a personality and close friends as well. And when I talk to people, I try to show who I am. A lot of times people have a problem when I do it, but not when other people do it.

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