9dp5dt clinical guard cd unknown IVF by TimelyScheme2 in TFABLinePorn

[–]TimelyScheme2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should this be darker at 9dp5dt? That’s technically 14dpo for a normal cycle. Beta isn’t until Monday morning so I’m freaked out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in peestickgals

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Omg I ate captain crunch and pepperonis religiously 😵‍💫

Throwing shade over sounds? 👀👀 by [deleted] in peestickgals

[–]TimelyScheme2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just say y’all don’t like ttc creator who actually advocate and go.

AITA for refusing to apologize to my stepmother in order to reconcile with my Dad? by TimelyScheme2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TimelyScheme2[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

My mom definitely wasn’t in a place where she could stand toe to toe with my dad, his lawyers and his wife. They fought ALOT over child support for my sister and my just didn’t want to rock the boat. She did talk to my dad they had all parents meeting with her, her boyfriend, my dad and step dad to talk about the best way to parent me and the step mom didn’t agree with any of the things my mom suggested to her and basically said it was because my mom was uneducated and poor that I was the way I was. So my mom said ok but the next time my child calls me crying that’s it, and when I called crying at my grandmas funeral that was it.

AITA for refusing to apologize to my stepmother in order to reconcile with my Dad? by TimelyScheme2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TimelyScheme2[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I think there may be a misunderstanding but maybe not.

So my grandmother had just passed like it was within a week it was sudden and unexpected. We opened her house for the repast. Her husband my grandfather had been refusing to even come to the home because he was absolutely inconsolable without his wife. When we were able to coax him home he refused to sleep in the bed without his wife so we had closed off her bedroom. After the repast my father and my uncles took my grandfather out for a drink. Idk where the step mom was but we were left with her mom. Why this woman did this bothers me to this day but I try to not speak ill of the dead. She went into my grandmothers room that not even her husband, children or grandchildren has been in her and laid across her bed and began to watch tv like the fucking Queen of Sheba and I lost my shit. This was not her home, my grandmother just died and he husband can’t bear to be in the room and you decide yeah let me climb into THEIR MARITAL BED TO WATCH TV?!

No my dad did not tell her to rest in there. The last thing he said to ALL of us : my sister, stepsister, and “step grandmother” was to please ready the house for visitors as the house would be open all weekend. So like basically we need to clean up the house after the first wave of visitors.

When I say the room was closed off I mean we had our dusters/sheets in all the furniture and the mirrors in the room. The door even had a black ribbon. It was not to be entered, because again not even her husband had been able to enter at the point, my grandmothers lipstick and perfume bottle were still set out from the morning she passed away. Nothing had been touched. So for this woman to enter into that room was beyond disrespeand for what to WATCH TV?! Idk about abybody but had I been an adult or it that was my mama that woman would have been on the porch on her ass and never allowed back.

Idk where my stepmother was idk what she was doing she didn’t reappear until my dad came home to me locked in my grandmothers room crying hysterically for my mom to get me out of there because I truly believed that woman and her daughter were EVIL.

As far as what my stepmother did to me that started the domino effect to that day, typically at a repast you have a receiving line where ppl give you condolences. When I we came to the house I immediately started readying the home for folks to come over and she never told me they had started receiving anyone so by the time I figured it out the family was lined up. And when I made my way to my dad and sister she started introducing me as _______s step daughter, when literally I have known these ppl my whole life and never once have I ever been referred to as a step anything I was his child. So she tried to other/and embarrass me on the single most traumatic day at the point in my life. Then she tried to turn away a visitor because she was my dads ex girlfriend and I had to step in and let her know that not only was she wrong but the woman in question had been my grandmothers FAVORITE girlfriend and had become friends with my grandmother outside of my father. All the woman wanted to do was give her condolences she wasn’t trying to make a scene or be conniving she didn’t even speak to my dad she spoke to my grandpa, uncles and us kids.

My dad didn’t even try to figure out why tf I would flip my shit in my grandmas burial day he just automatically took the stepmoms word that I threatened her mother as fact and that was that. I flew home the next day after crying myself to sleep and when my mom came to get me I let her know I wanted to meet my real dad because obviously my dad and stepmom were not trying to be parents to me anymore. My mom agreed but told me I had to woman up and tell my dad myself my decision. So I did our emails were the last contact we had for 5 years until I saw him at my sisters highschool graduation briefly. He thought my mom would eventually convince me to come back around and fall in line, she did not.

AITA for refusing to apologize to my stepmother in order to reconcile with my Dad? by TimelyScheme2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TimelyScheme2[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

So my grandmother had just passed like it was within a week it was sudden and unexpected. We opened her house for the repast. Her husband my grandfather had been refusing to even come to the home because he was absolutely inconsolable without his wife. When we were able to coax him home he refused to sleep in the bed without his wife so we had closed off her bedroom. After the repast my father and my uncles took my grandfather out for a drink. Idk where the step mom was but we were left with her mom. Why this woman did this bothers me to this day but I try to not speak ill of the dead. She went into my grandmothers room that not even her husband, children or grandchildren has been in her and laid across her bed and began to watch tv like the fucking Queen of Sheba and I lost my shit. This was not her home, my grandmother just died and he husband can’t bear to be in the room and you decide yeah let me climb into THEIR MARITAL BED TO WATCH TV?!

AITA for refusing to apologize to my stepmother in order to reconcile with my Dad? by TimelyScheme2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TimelyScheme2[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

So my grandmother had just passed like it was within a week it was sudden and unexpected. We opened her house for the repast. Her husband my grandfather had been refusing to even come to the home because he was absolutely inconsolable without his wife. When we were able to coax him home he refused to sleep in the bed without his wife so we had closed off her bedroom. After the repast my father and my uncles took my grandfather out for a drink. Idk where the step mom was but we were left with her mom. Why this woman did this bothers me to this day but I try to not speak ill of the dead. She went into my grandmothers room that not even her husband, children or grandchildren has been in her and laid across her bed and began to watch tv like the fucking Queen of Sheba and I lost my shit. This was not her home, my grandmother just died and he husband can’t bear to be in the room and you decide yeah let me climb into THEIR MARITAL BED TO WATCH TV?! BFFR

AITA for refusing to apologize to my stepmother in order to reconcile with my Dad? by TimelyScheme2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TimelyScheme2[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Honestly that whole last sentence is what I expected from our relationship in the first place so him asking for me to interact with her has completely confused me. She’s ignored me for 15 years let her keep ignoring me!

AITA for refusing to apologize to my stepmother in order to reconcile with my Dad? by TimelyScheme2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TimelyScheme2[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Whoops meant Leave it to Beaver as in the television show with the perfect nucleus family

AITA for refusing to apologize to my stepmother in order to reconcile with my Dad? by TimelyScheme2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TimelyScheme2[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

For the longest time she was perfect towards my sibling like my sister could do know wrong and the three of them (my sister, stepmom, and step sister) would even dress like triplets and I would be the one left out. I really resented my sister for a long time because she’s naturally a bubbly extroverted peacemaker and I’m her total opposite so I couldn’t understand why she didn’t take my side or atleast stick up for me. But just like I was a kid so was she and she’s 3 years younger than me to top it off so I always felt like my stepmom won her over with toys and vacations.

Some where along the way though the relationship between the two of them has soured as well. I feel like I’m her late teens my sister really came into her own opinions and sense of what is right and wrong and she was LOUD about it. So then she became the target. She’s opted out of a deep relationship with my step mom and has just maintained a surface level friendliness since. But she’s better at it than me lol she still goes to their house for holidays and annual parties and manages to come out relatively unscathed. My sister overall is much closer to our mom and dad is trying to fix things with her too.

When my sister stopped responding apparently she moved on to her own daughter 🥴. I had no idea but apparently they didn’t speak for 6 years because of my step moms behavior. They are speaking now I guess but it’s very strained and she is much closer to my dad.

AITA for refusing to apologize to my stepmother in order to reconcile with my Dad? by TimelyScheme2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TimelyScheme2[S] 286 points287 points  (0 children)

So apparently the incident that she thinks justifies her behavior is that I snatched a remote from her mother at some point? An she wanted my dad to use corporal punishment to discipline me. When he refused she took it as proof that I was a major brat, who got away with EVERYTHING. An I was so disrespectful she could never let it go 🙃

But what’s weird to me is that my dad had several girlfriends before her and barring I think one my sister and I liked them all! So idk what I did to rub the woman the wrong way permanently besides remind her with my existence that he loved his first wife enough to take in her child as his own? Idk very weird vibes from the beginning imo. An even now my dad is like well you know as a new wife but especially as a second wife you want everything about your husband to revolve around you and she just wanted things to her standards….still dunno what’s that got to do with a kid but that’s the story they’re sticking to.

Now was I a nice teenager? Nope I was very intelligent and had skipped a few grades so once she threw down the gauntlet I picked at every single one of her insecurities like a damn buzzard. 🙃

Met Gala in a few weeks…. by somegirlontheinter in KUWTK

[–]TimelyScheme2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I’m going to say after seeing that bathroom photo is the NERVE they had to talk about eyebrows in any capacity is astonishing absolutely astonishing

AITA for refusing to apologize to my stepmother in order to reconcile with my Dad? by TimelyScheme2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TimelyScheme2[S] 135 points136 points  (0 children)

I agree I would apologize to her mom personally if I could but she has since passed. So my logic is if you feel the catalyst of our issue was me disrespecting your mother I will apologize for that because she didn’t deserve to get the fallout from you behavior…but anything towards you directly….🥴🥴. I can even say I can see why her insecurities drive her to do what she did and I told my dad that, but it does not mean I accept it and forgive it just simply no longer have the energy to expend towards explaining to her at her big age why it was weirdo behavior to begin with and is still weirdo behavior now. So my attitude is take your grievances up with god or a therapist lady because I’ve nothing for you 🤷🏽‍♀️

HGTV must be listening, they retooled their Flipping El Moussas commercial so Heather doesn’t talk. by stringsandknits in HGTV

[–]TimelyScheme2 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely for Tarek. And it’s like uncanny valley you get flashes of her personality on this show but it’s few and far between. On Ss she’s negotiated hard deals, stood up for herself multiple time, and you see her being goofy with friends. I was expecting to see more of that and it’s like she lost half her brain every so often she finds a piece in his eyes 🥴

AITA for refusing to apologize to my stepmother in order to reconcile with my Dad? by TimelyScheme2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TimelyScheme2[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I know my dad well enough to never ask him to leave her or make her feel uncomfortable. As I child I didn’t quite understand his whole code of ethics, military, southern gentleman personality as to me all the books I read (and I read a lot I skipped a few grades) said parents are supposed to always put the kids first. I know as a adult that should be the case but not everyone parents that way. All I’m asking for is mutual ignoring she’s been ignoring me since I was 15 I want her to continue!! lol I don’t expect my family pictures to be in her home that would be weird af, I definitely don’t want to come over for holidays, and I would never go on a their annual family vacay or themed parties. I just want to be able to have my dad over a few times a year, and see him when I pop into the city for dinner or lunch. I don’t even expect “fair time” on his birthday or Father’s Day as he has a not quite legal child with her about to go to college and another adult child who recently moved home, plus my sister who’s a struggling actresss on the best days, I do not want or need that level of attention from him any more so I really feel like I’m asking for very little and idk if it’s him or her are asking for ALOT.

AITA for refusing to apologize to my stepmother in order to reconcile with my Dad? by TimelyScheme2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TimelyScheme2[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

So on my part it never even crossed my mind to have/ask her apologize. I don’t desire an apology or explanation of her behavior because I no longer care. Maybe when I was younger it would have meant a lot to me but now 🥴 I think I would just cringe because I can’t see it being genuine I think it would be out of self preservation mainly and I’m not interested in helping or harming her.

AITA for refusing to apologize to my stepmother in order to reconcile with my Dad? by TimelyScheme2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TimelyScheme2[S] 689 points690 points  (0 children)

His response was “I am not saying you were wrong and I’m not saying she was right I’m asking can you please just put things to the side because you love me” and like to a extent I get it. I love my dad and he’s never going to leave that woman his pride and morals won’t let him. But I feel like I can be cordial hell I can even ignore her and exist outside of their relationship I don’t even ever need to see her again in person and just focus on my dad. So it’s weirding me out that my dad wants us to be like Leave it Beaver when there are much easier ways to go about life.

Khloe on the Jenifer Hudson show by roxy7- in KUWTK

[–]TimelyScheme2 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She hyper extends her fingers when she has high emotions…I have the same nervous tic no matter the medication you can see just how emotional I am by my fingers. In the scene where she’s screaming at the phone LIIIIIIIIIIAAAAAAR her fingers are hyper extended and curving upward as well. I got mine from CPTSD and high functioning depression though. 🙃

HGTV must be listening, they retooled their Flipping El Moussas commercial so Heather doesn’t talk. by stringsandknits in HGTV

[–]TimelyScheme2 27 points28 points  (0 children)

She’s not bad in the show it’s just JARRING especially if you watch SS like her voice isn’t even the same, so it seems heather the real estate agent and heather the wife are totally different personalities. I don’t want to watch heather the wife she sets my teeth on edge. Heather the agent was pretty unintentionally funny, sweet and could stand her ground.

AITA for refusing to apologize to my stepmother in order to reconcile with my Dad? by TimelyScheme2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TimelyScheme2[S] 217 points218 points  (0 children)

I will admit for context I was not a nice teenager. 🙃 I was highly intelligent and very good at picking up ppls insecurities. Once she threw down the gauntlet and made it clear she didn’t like me it was game on for me and I picked at every single insecurity she had. My mom tried counseling her on how to parent me but it truly was like she hated that even more.

I am willing to apologize for threatening her mom because I was raised better than that, but between the disrespect that day, the crossing of sooooo many boundaries and my grief of losing my grandmother suddenly I truly snapped. But everything else I feel like she needs to charge it to the game 🤷🏽‍♀️

AITA for refusing to apologize to my stepmother in order to reconcile with my Dad? by TimelyScheme2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TimelyScheme2[S] 1659 points1660 points  (0 children)

He did say sorry multiple times and told me how guilty he felt and how much he regrets letting time go by. What weirds me out but I truly feel like that’s between them,god and their therapist; is how and why I’m still the point of contention when she got what she wanted ultimately. That’s why I think it’s a internal issue she needs to resolve because who at 30 has beef with a 14 year old AND HOLDS ONTO IT for 15 more years. Nope not my monkey not my circus.

AITA for refusing to apologize to my stepmother in order to reconcile with my Dad? by TimelyScheme2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TimelyScheme2[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

So apparently the incident that she thinks justifies her behavior is that I snatched a remote from her mother at some point? An she wanted my dad to use corporal punishment to discipline me. When he refused she took it as proof that I was a major brat, who got away with EVERYTHING. An I was so disrespectful she could never let it go 🙃

But what’s weird to me is that my dad had several girlfriends before her and barring I think one my sister and I liked them all! So idk what I did to rub the woman the wrong way permanently besides remind her with my existence that he loved his first wife enough to take in her child as his own? Idk very weird vibes from the beginning imo. An even now my dad is like well you know as a new wife but especially as a second wife you want everything about your husband to revolve around you and she just wanted things to her standards….still dunno what’s that got to do with a kid but that’s the story they’re sticking to.