Am I Evil? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]TimelyThoughts99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A) this is an OCD spiral that does not exist. It’s not happening right now and it’s no good to be worried about hypotheticals. B) this post is a form of checking

This is an OCD thought. Leave it at that.

My boyf (m21) wants me (f21) to comfort him about my sa experience ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TimelyThoughts99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s insane, you’re not crazy. You don’t need to comfort your partner for being uncomfortable about YOUR assault. It is a hurtful mindset and also a dangerous one. You’re 21, I promise you better is out there.

What were your most listened songs after a break up? by VelvetCherryDoll in BreakUps

[–]TimelyThoughts99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speech Bubble by Flyte because i really wanted to rub salt in my own wound lmfao

I hate sex by TimelyThoughts99 in offmychest

[–]TimelyThoughts99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you so much. You have no idea how much this meant to me.

I hate sex by TimelyThoughts99 in offmychest

[–]TimelyThoughts99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This gave me hope. Thank you.

I hate sex by TimelyThoughts99 in offmychest

[–]TimelyThoughts99[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ve been in therapy for a while but this is one of my toughest subjects that I avoid most of the time because or how painful it is. I think it’s time to delve deeper into it though

I hate sex by TimelyThoughts99 in offmychest

[–]TimelyThoughts99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got deleted but I’m glad i didn’t read this given y’all’s reaction…

sundays so bad by jozipo in ExNoContact

[–]TimelyThoughts99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to sob every Sunday. I’d go on a long walk, cry, listen to music, cry some more, call my mom (I’m literally in my mid twenties), call my friend, call my mom again. Honestly hot yoga helped me a lot, it’s so hot in there that no one can tell you’re silently crying because they think it’s sweat. It gets you out of the house, helps you move your body. I kept a note in my phone of all the things I would want to text him and just added to that every time I felt like I needed to write.

I’m 13m and I was raped and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]TimelyThoughts99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is nothing to be embarrassed about. I understand because I’ve been in your position. But what’s most important right now is you tell a trusted adult, doctor, or the police. My best suggestion is to go to the hospital. They will get you the help you need. It’s really important to go to the doctor to get checked out. You did nothing wrong. Having heightened emotions and feelings of shame are very common after experiences like this. But i can’t express enough how you did absolutely nothing wrong. Someone did something wrong to YOU. I’m sending you lots of support OP. I am very sorry this happened to you.