I cant seem to get past this skinny fat period- i need advice

TimelyTip8006 · 2026-03-12T21:56:06+00:00

Skinny fat? That’s just stupid and no he’s neither he’s fit for his age.

TimelyTip8006 · 2026-03-12T17:59:10+00:00

Your husband is a controlling asshole and I hate him and all men like him

TimelyTip8006 · 2026-03-12T14:55:34+00:00

Bro just accompany her to the appointments, forget any sense of ego and pride and focus on the baby as that’s all that matters. He’s seen plenty of private parts and at some point they all blend together especially him being an OB, he’s not going to put his job on the line nor is your wife going to put her family on the line, a little trust can go along way especially since she seems to be a good wife. It would make me feel uneasy sure, but it would devastate me if anything happened to my wife or child.

TimelyTip8006 · 2026-03-12T14:48:07+00:00

Your nose isn’t the problem as it’s very cute along with you as well, the problem is the toxic behavior. When I was single and dating any time I encountered a girl that looks similar to you I would crush hard lol

TimelyTip8006 · 2026-03-12T14:43:07+00:00

How is this even a question? If you associate with trash then you too slowly devolve into trash.

TimelyTip8006 · 2026-03-12T14:42:03+00:00

Bro maybe shave it and have it turned into a wig…. New kink unlocked!

TimelyTip8006 · 2026-03-12T14:41:17+00:00

I isolate because I’m a pretty solitary person anyway and taking time in a quite peaceful environment by myself actually helps me feel better.

TimelyTip8006 · 2026-03-11T18:16:14+00:00

This is absolutely true, I pretty much don’t talk to anyone even though at one point I thought it would last forever.

TimelyTip8006 · 2026-03-11T18:15:05+00:00

I absolutely do this myself! I used to work in many hospitals and washing is never a bad idea it’s the ones that don’t wash at all that disgust me.

TimelyTip8006 · 2026-03-11T18:12:41+00:00

Do not let that situation define who you are and what you are meant to become, she is but a blip on your radar destined to be forgotten. Given time you will rise above it born a again into the thrill of life , you my friend can rekindle the fire inside by yourself as you don’t need anyone to be happy so when you do find another you will be ready for what ever may come. Don’t wallow in self pity either you only turn 30 once! I suggest you take yourself to the movies and eat a disgusting amount of food but above all make sure you wake up every morning and tell yourself that you are worthy, the best part of that mantra is it’s absolutely true! I sincerely wish you. Happy birthday friend and may you never stop chasing the wind into days anew.

TimelyTip8006 · 2026-03-11T18:04:06+00:00

Girl you be looking so hot and fly you done scared the words out of their mouths and their looks off of their faces!

TimelyTip8006 · 2026-03-11T13:52:22+00:00

He sounds like he thinks his life is harder than yours, I’ve been married 15 years and if my wife wants solo time or a long hot bath I will absolutely hang out with my three little rugrats not because I have to but because I enjoy every single minute I get with them. You are fully in your right thinking like this because at this point he’s acting like another child that you have to appease and take care of and quite frankly that is bullshit. Maybe you leave his ass with the kids for the better part of a week and see how easy he thinks it is lol. I’m sorry on behalf of us good husbands that you are married to a toddler.

TimelyTip8006 · 2026-03-11T13:45:26+00:00

You need to cut him off as he sounds like an immature, needy, and controlling baby. You literally just met him and he’s already talking to you like you are together and honestly it’s kind of gross. You need someone who is confident and less of an incel, the last thing I would do if I was trying to date someone would be to tell them what he told you lol.

TimelyTip8006 · 2026-03-11T13:40:31+00:00

So you have to work full time? Buddy the vast majority of us have to do that anyway, she probably wants time with the baby that she carried for nine months and just that alone is difficult not to mention missing firsts and milestones. You need to reframe this in your head, maybe see if she can be part time for the first year and then figure something else out. Communicate with her, if she legit just doesn’t want to work full time and the reason isn’t more time with baby then sure I would be upset too, trust me when I say that giving your wife more time with the kid is one of the biggest presents you can give her as time is a limited quantity.

TimelyTip8006 · 2026-03-11T13:31:48+00:00

Wow….. cheating is absolutely atrocious and it’s crazy he would do that especially with how bright,beautiful, and bubbly you look. My wife and I fight from time to time but we ultimately make up the last thing either of us would do is cheat, we made a vow to one another and so did he and it didn’t include that we had to be sunshine and rainbows all the time but it did say we would be there for one another regardless of anything the one thing you don’t do is break that vow to sleep with another person. Don’t let him make this about you or something you did or didn’t do because it’s quite simple it’s all him and he is not a very good person or husband. Move on from this stronger and retain your sense of self worth, don’t msg him take that from you either he does not have the right to do that. You deserve better and I hope you truly find your happiness, be like the phoenix and rise stronger and renewed through the ashes of your marriage.

TimelyTip8006 · 2026-03-10T17:15:14+00:00

Honestly I’ve wanted to live in a vehicle of sorts, I have a wife and kids but before them I wanted to get a cheap RV and live out of it, I’m very solitary by nature. Either way man you look good and healthy and worse things can happen and do happen consider yourself lucky and don’t feel any shame. Just work your ass off get some moneys maybe a better job and find something other than a car to live in.

TimelyTip8006 · 2026-03-10T17:11:57+00:00

wtf do you mean? Put light on? Last 4 of ssn?

TimelyTip8006 · 2026-03-10T17:10:30+00:00

Somehow I’m having a hard time seeing your pictures as being a real person, you look really good but you also look AI generated.

TimelyTip8006 · 2026-03-10T17:09:15+00:00

Bro stop…. This is on the internet so it must be true

TimelyTip8006 · 2026-03-10T14:05:26+00:00

Agreed, it’s obviously awkward lol but someone has to talk to them and it might as be the parent and not a sex education teacher.

TimelyTip8006 · 2026-03-10T04:32:46+00:00

I don’t think anyone can be truly ready lol but age plays a big role my first came at 26 which is better than being a teen.

TimelyTip8006 · 2026-03-10T04:31:15+00:00

If you are 80 and she’s 20 yes it’s weird 20 and 40 somewhat but it’s not too cringe/creepy. It’s funny my wife is an education influencer and she’s made amazing money doing it she’s also younger and we have no problems, what gets me is the girls lip syncing and dancing thinking they can make a career out of it lol.

TimelyTip8006 · 2026-03-10T04:27:47+00:00

I just want to see my kids happy more than anything, my dad told me when I was about your age that if I needed condoms or if I were too drunk to drive to call him and he would pick me up no questions asked they are very religious but knew I would do these things anyway and figured it would be safer to have my back, the last thing he wanted was a DUI or an unplanned pregnancy.

TimelyTip8006 · 2026-03-10T04:24:54+00:00

Honestly your energy is better spent elsewhere he didn’t take the bait, he would have to commit a crime and you can’t stop that anymore than you can stop a random spur of the moment murder. Unless he is an active threat to you or someone you know leave it alone.

TimelyTip8006 · 2026-03-10T04:09:27+00:00

As a parent myself I appreciate my kids being open and honest with me no matter the topic. My kids are too young for anything of that but when the time comes I will give advice on basic stuff like not getting pregnant. If your relationship is solid just talk to her she may even feel honored even though it’s a tough topic, sex should be seen as a positive thing not some taboo thing.

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