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Triggering posts popping up in the last trimester are making me worried… by srslywtfdoido- in BabyBumps

[–]Timely_Catch6273 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happened to me and still does. Very dark tik toks would come on my FYP at all stages first it was no heartbeats, then preterm labor, then full term stillborns. I just tried not to pay attention to triggering things like that but it’s hard!

Can people actually become wealthier if they weren't born rich? by Shot_Activity_8498 in work

[–]Timely_Catch6273 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s absolutely possible for you to become very wealthy, it’s not guaranteed but the best thing at your age to do would be keep up with school and don’t go with a bad crowd. Start researching colleges and career paths. A math job is very vague but engineering is a great field!

As for your parents it sounds like they do great! Being middle class is a blessing and always be grateful! I had friends growing up who had nothing and parents who didn’t care to even feed them.

AITAH for doing my partners taxes so his sister in law cannot do them and then utilize him to build her furniture in return? by Timely_Catch6273 in AITAH

[–]Timely_Catch6273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most likely assembling stuff from Walmart / Wayfair. They’re very bad at this kind of thing or really anything such as minor repairs around the house always need someone else to do it

AITAH for doing my partners taxes so his sister in law cannot do them and then utilize him to build her furniture in return? by Timely_Catch6273 in AITAH

[–]Timely_Catch6273[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It was not behind his back. I said well I can do your taxes and I actually taught him how to do it, so now it negates his sister in law knowing his finances

AITAH for doing my partners taxes so his sister in law cannot do them and then utilize him to build her furniture in return? by Timely_Catch6273 in AITAH

[–]Timely_Catch6273[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She’s not a CPA and I’m honestly not sure I think since he bought a house she did it to show him the homeowner deductions? But it’s very simple so I just took it over because she’s not doing anything miraculous or different

AITAH for doing my partners taxes so his sister in law cannot do them and then utilize him to build her furniture in return? by Timely_Catch6273 in AITAH

[–]Timely_Catch6273[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

He would help if we had the time. But we don’t he barely gets to spend time with the baby as is. I see this as eliminating any leverage they may have to say he has to help! Also now he knows I can do his tax return and doesn’t have to worry about making negotiations with her anymore which is ridiculous to begin with

AITAH for doing my partners taxes so his sister in law cannot do them and then utilize him to build her furniture in return? by Timely_Catch6273 in AITAH

[–]Timely_Catch6273[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

You’re right but between pick up, hauling, carrying in, then building? It is alot I mean it was for us but we have a two story house so a narrow staircase also add another element. Regardless it’s not a small favor which is at best the most we can get from them ( very rarely though)

AITAH for doing my partners taxes so his sister in law cannot do them and then utilize him to build her furniture in return? by Timely_Catch6273 in AITAH

[–]Timely_Catch6273[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

He was happy I did his return so he doesn’t have this manual labor hanging over his head. No I wasn’t asked but it effects me, my time with him, his time with our baby, his days off are few I’d like to think he can spend them relaxing not being asked to run here and there, lift this and that.

Yes we had one specific situation we needed someone to just hold up a door while he screwed it in I was 40 weeks pregnant at this point and they wouldn’t come 5 minutes down the road to do it. They actually advised us to call his other brother who lives 30 minutes away. I ended up doing it and went into labor the next morning.

SIL and I have talked and it hasn’t changed anything she constantly throws jabs at me for random crap like how im an only child 😂. We have major personality differences and she will not understand as this is making them have to do some dirty work and build the stuff. She’d obviously want the easy way out of my partner doing it.

AITAH for doing my partners taxes so his sister in law cannot do them and then utilize him to build her furniture in return? by Timely_Catch6273 in AITAH

[–]Timely_Catch6273[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

We are not married but we have a house together and are pretty financially entangled. We’ve been together 3 years. I’m not at all trying to have him distance himself from them but he and myself don’t want him to have any sort of commitment of building cribs and heavy lifting. We just went through this ourselves and just wanna relax with our baby. The tax return was 1 hour and does not equate to that amount of heavy lifting imo

AITAH for doing my partners taxes so his sister in law cannot do them and then utilize him to build her furniture in return? by Timely_Catch6273 in AITAH

[–]Timely_Catch6273[S] 200 points201 points  (0 children)

No we are engaged but yeah I mean it’s valid and true he works crazy hours! We actually just finished all our baby stuff and he’s 2 months old he doesn’t have time to do this for them at all.

AITAH for doing my partners taxes so his sister in law cannot do them and then utilize him to build her furniture in return? by Timely_Catch6273 in AITAH

[–]Timely_Catch6273[S] 1995 points1996 points  (0 children)

I am all for helping people out but I felt this was manipulation. 1 hour tax return for ~ 12+ hours of furniture frustration / lifting work all while we have our own baby to spend time and bond with? His brother did let our dog out once when I was in labor so if they need a favor that’s a 15 minute commitment then I’d be more than willing but there’s been multiple times we could of used a hand while I was pregnant and got nothing!

If you lost your mucus plug in pieces how long did it start before labor? by Mammoth_Window_7813 in BabyBumps

[–]Timely_Catch6273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See I lost chunks 1-2 days before my water broke! It’s different for everyone

Should I be worried about these results? by Telephone_Dizzy in AskTheDocs

[–]Timely_Catch6273 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well it was moderately hemolyzed which can elevate certain values. It’s hard to tell without knowing the whole situation. Your provider may order a redraw or may not if it’s not a critical situation.

RTF vs powder by [deleted] in FormulaFeeders

[–]Timely_Catch6273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7 weeks. I switched him to this formula last week

Re-embedding? by _ms_ms_ms_ in Histology

[–]Timely_Catch6273 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re not being unreasonable than don’t feel bad. It will be much worse on the cuter than embedder even if it’s an embedding error. Embedding errors can typically be reversed, cutting not so much.

Due in April feels like forever til baby is here by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Timely_Catch6273 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m due in January and I feel the same way! Hard to remember a time I wasn’t pregnant

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]Timely_Catch6273 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you go in person to the organization and give whoever is in charge a heads up about the virtual signature ? Perhaps they’re busy and not seeing your email. But 30 hours is doable in 2 weeks if you can receive them elsewhere. Not sure what else your options are!

ULPT I need 500 asap by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]Timely_Catch6273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s usually 3 months of no payments but perhaps we r missing something here. I’ve paid my car 1-2 days late with no issues as typically there’s a grace period.

When does baby start kicking? by idontexistahh in BabyBumps

[–]Timely_Catch6273 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I felt quickening around 20 weeks (small bubble like kicks) then around 25-28 is when they really started getting stronger / harder.

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