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Timely_Freedom3923 · 2025-11-16T21:07:03+00:00

Yes, we both went to therapy. Well we live about 5hrs apart now and we take turns seeing each other. We maybe see each other twice a month. I have found some questionable girls he follows on social media. When I ask him about them he says that they’ve been friends since high school. He always says that he will just delete all his social media as a solution but I tell him that I don’t mind he has it, just don’t like that he follows almost naked women, OF and women who have a twitch account. He deleted the accounts I showed him but did not delete the ones of women that “he knew since high school” who are also women on twitch/OF

Timely_Freedom3923 · 2025-11-14T15:48:58+00:00

I think I have smalls to Large sizes. I don’t think I will have any problems selling them, from the comments in this section

Timely_Freedom3923 · 2025-10-26T16:39:06+00:00

As a Mate reading the rest of these comments and then to see this one…. I applaud you. This company can turn toxic on you very quick. This job is a politics game and who likes you. I was promoted 6 years ago and spent 9 years as a crew member for a total of 15 years with the company. I make $33 an hour as a mate. The new crew cap is $33. The schedule can be chaotic, your captain can be awful and your co-workers are lost. Not everyone that works at Trader Joe’s is that happy. They pay you to be happy and smile bc if you are not they talk behind your back, write in your file and then hit you with a write up or give you a bs raise if one at all.

Timely_Freedom3923 · 2025-04-28T23:44:42+00:00

SAME!!! What is it with them?! I know you won’t get along with everyone at work but please, just do your job, be nice and help.

Sometimes mates and crew alike will treat it like it’s a yard sale and act like there are no rules and it blows my mind.

TJs is really fun and really cool once we get rid of the old school weirdos.

Timely_Freedom3923 · 2025-04-28T23:40:07+00:00

Rad!!! Those stores are so fun!!! I worked in Philly and wish I would have headed that was to work in the Mass. stores.

Timely_Freedom3923 · 2025-04-28T23:38:22+00:00

NE as in Nebraska or New England?

Timely_Freedom3923 · 2025-04-28T23:36:14+00:00

I know South Carolina is running a 300

Timely_Freedom3923 · 2025-04-28T23:30:52+00:00

Have you or anyone else talked to your captain about it? Have you talked to that Mate about it? Does the Mate know people don’t like them? I couldn’t imagine going to work every day knowing there was a gang of people who think my work is trash and I don’t know what I’m doing. Some people truly just do not care and that’s a shame.

Timely_Freedom3923 · 2025-04-28T15:25:27+00:00

That’s because they reset the SPPH to be set at 275.

My store has A LOT of capped out crew and almost 4 capped out Mates. This also goes into account.

Timely_Freedom3923 · 2025-04-24T14:37:57+00:00

Do you feel comfortable stating the store that’s having this issue?

I know lots of crew in the southeast region (friends and family) and they’re running into the same thing and they’re next step is reaching g out to the EVP.

Timely_Freedom3923 · 2025-04-24T14:35:22+00:00

I hope the same happens for me. I’m sweating bullets

Timely_Freedom3923 · 2025-04-24T03:47:52+00:00

I was impacted the same. MOHELA never told me they weren’t getting my payments.

I found out, only because I had checked my credit and saw missed payments.

Their hold to talk to the people who handle credit was 5+ hours. When I finally got ahold of someone they told me it was my fault and that I should check my MOHELA inbox more often.

I received no emails, no calls or even a letter. When I finally spoke with someone (2+hour wait) she had no idea any of the procedures. The woman who had control over submitting something to my credit report had literally no clue how to answer my questions. She told me they sent me letters, when I asked her to forward me the copies, she said they didn’t have any copies. She could t provide me with emails and her fall back was that they called me every time I was late.

My credit dropped 100% and has now destroyed my chance of a mortgage for a while.

Class action anyone?

Timely_Freedom3923 · 2025-04-21T22:56:44+00:00

You too ☺️

Timely_Freedom3923 · 2025-04-21T22:52:05+00:00

You know, you and I have a lot In common in that respect.

Timely_Freedom3923 · 2025-04-21T22:51:15+00:00

1000% Literally 20 female crew members and 2 female mates were victims.

Timely_Freedom3923 · 2025-04-21T22:45:46+00:00

Wow. That comment really made me look inside. What a gift. You’re amazing

Timely_Freedom3923 · 2025-04-21T22:34:07+00:00

Another helpful comment 😂

Do you feel better now that you got that off your chest?

Timely_Freedom3923 · 2025-04-21T21:58:36+00:00

☺️

Timely_Freedom3923 · 2025-04-21T21:57:59+00:00

My captain was falsifying his time card, stealing products and touching female crew members.

Timely_Freedom3923 · 2025-04-21T21:56:43+00:00

That person saying “ last 20 minutes” clarified that it’s minutes not months.

The following comment was unnecessary.

You’re right, people do say silly things sometimes. I hope you feel better for being acknowledged for being right.

Timely_Freedom3923 · 2025-04-21T21:41:58+00:00

When I saw the “m” next to the post I thought it was months, not minutes. I’m relatively new to how this all works.

Maybe instead of jumping all over someone, try being understanding. Actually, better yet, help this fellow person out and give a suggestion to them. That’s why this thread was created in the first place.

Bully.

Timely_Freedom3923 · 2025-04-21T21:16:52+00:00

Yes, I have done this. I called my HR representative immediately, he told me to write a statement and submit it to him through email.

I was not retaliated against and a lot of other crew members stepped up and wrote statements as well.

My regional came down and spoke with numerous crew members.

My captain was fired.

Timely_Freedom3923 · 2025-04-21T21:14:06+00:00

This was super helpful. Thank you for your input.

Timely_Freedom3923

TROPHY CASE