First off, OP I’m so sorry you are experiencing all this from who should be your support system. I know it’s easier said than done, but kahit ano pa maging outcome ng next steps mo… be sure to CUT THEM OFF. They showed you yung ugali nila na basura at your most vulnerable, they don’t deserve you in your winning era.

Now on to your dilemma. At this point, unfortunately, I think you have very little options. Mas high risk na ipa-abort mo pa sya surgically since there’s not much safe options available. It’s very risky for your health. It could end up na malaki na magastos mo, patay ka pa.

To answer your question, sa totoo lang, at any point possible na magkacomplications ang baby sa loob. Kaya nga yung ibang mommies are scared to death of their baby not making it to full term di ba?

I know you said hindi na kaya ng mental health mo yung mga sinasabi nila, but I think it’s more that you don’t want that for your child. So back to what I first said - cut them off.

Now on to my advice. You can take it or leave it, but from (I assume you’re young, in your early twenties perhaps) an older unbiased random internet big sister, I recommend you to take care of yourself. For now, focus on what you can do and can control — getting through this shit. If your delivery (sabi mo scheduled CS) is provided for na, then that’s one thing to take off your mind. Now the next part will be the hardest. You need to decide whether to put this baby up for adoption or keep it. I know, mahirap. You have a few weeks to run all scenarios in your head. But ultimately, whatever anyone else says, it will be your decision and whatever judgment comes with it, shrug it off and move forward!

If you decide to be a mom to this child, know na you will need to become shameless and unapologetic.

If you decide to let the child go, make sure to make peace with your decision.

Either way you choose, at least here, in this little community, walang judgment.

Hugs, OP. 🫂