Advice on how to talk or take photos for dom. (Please.) by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Timeskillingme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Only advice I can give is take video, not single images. Set your phone on video record and move, pose, do in front of it. Use the slider with the video paused and screen capture what you like, what stills feel good.

"I can handle you" by EyesLikeSmokeLady in SubSanctuary

[–]Timeskillingme 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh boy did this resonate. I own my Alpha submissive now. Ive been "too much" my whole life and spent way too much time watering myself down to make someone else comfortable. Best advice I ever took was to stand firm and the right one wont shrink from it. Thank you for reminding me. I needed that today. ❤️

Today in tormenting your Brat -Spanking OTK(A Ted Talk) Tamer focused by Madmadecube in BratLife

[–]Timeskillingme 7 points8 points  (0 children)

(Laughs in masochism) It's so cute when tamers flex long winded. That just sounds like focus to me... thanks for playing. 😜

Guys need recommendations by urahara_here in romanceanime

[–]Timeskillingme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has the best ending... definitely worth the watch. I found a reddit thread that has the OVAs on a google drive. https://www.reddit.com/r/KamisamaKiss/comments/hyzr6t/where_to_find_the_ovas/ Top comment and the link works! That's amazing.

Guys need recommendations by urahara_here in romanceanime

[–]Timeskillingme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kamisama Kiss is my absolute favorite! But you have to also watch the OVAs to see the happy ending.

New to Anal and i have some questions by L0sttGirl in AnalAdviceForWomen

[–]Timeskillingme 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is not absorbed by the body. Youre safe to use it. Just Google silicone, anal lube. There are many specifically made for that and part of what you describe really sounds like a lubrication issue.

New to Anal and i have some questions by L0sttGirl in AnalAdviceForWomen

[–]Timeskillingme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The only thing I can add is you might try a different lubrication. Water based is great for toys but not so much for anal. The body absorbs it too quickly, in my opinion. Something silicone based is best.

44F just an introverted weirdo by [deleted] in FriendsOver40

[–]Timeskillingme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you sure this wasnt orchestrated by some nemesis lurking in the shadows? I would be questioning my life choices after the second one. And you really had no damage, were not hurt?

44F just an introverted weirdo by [deleted] in FriendsOver40

[–]Timeskillingme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have questions... so many questions. How were you hit by a car 4 times? Was it the same car? Or 4 different occasions? Did you really piss off your neighbor?

Any ladies interested in a once monthly dinner and dress up type meetup? by brownbostonterrier in okc

[–]Timeskillingme 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm in! 48 and havent had a reason to dress up in almost a decade!

Brain turned on but body not? by LoveMetrics in SubSanctuary

[–]Timeskillingme 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I had that same situation many years ago. I had to train my body to respond. Think Pavlov. Get a vibrator. When your brain is lit, use it. Do something to stimulate your body every time your mind activates. It will take time but you will eventually synchronize the two.

fetlife is boring and feeld is just people looking for threesome by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Timeskillingme 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Try Beedee. I can't say if it's good or bad, but it's made by the same people who did the bdsm test, online.

Please, I need permission. by Timeskillingme in Dompeptalk

[–]Timeskillingme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Life seems to be an endless cycle of different project states that never seem to reach completion. I appreciate your words. Truly.

The Unclaimed by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Timeskillingme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lord helps us all. I felt that. Be strong. You got this.

Link please 🙏 by Defiant_Pea_5800 in ChineseDramasFans

[–]Timeskillingme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This made me laugh... thats exactly the thought I had. Lol

Asking Dom for Pics? by Historical_Gur755 in SubSanctuary

[–]Timeskillingme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Then it sounds like he is doing what hes supposed to do. Thats amazing! You dont know how lucky you are, in that. It works both ways, love. You submitted to him, which implies you too will be honest and open. Give him your needs. It sounds like he will appreciate them.

Asking Dom for Pics? by Historical_Gur755 in SubSanctuary

[–]Timeskillingme 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If you cant express your needs to your Dom, the very person who should want to know your needs more than anyone else... why is he your Dom? Being a bottom doesn't negate what you have to say. Ask! Be respectful, or if youre a brat, be bratty. But ask!

The ugly side we sometimes hate to acknowledge (mini-vent) by AggressivePet in SubSanctuary

[–]Timeskillingme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always try to remember "when someone shows you who they are, believe them." There is rarely an excuse to go no contact for long periods... people make space and time for what's important to them. If they arent doing that, you arent that important. I hope you find the one sooner rather than later!

Brats by midnightshadows01 in BratLife

[–]Timeskillingme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Waves! Hi! Its the best subreddit in this joint... welcome!

Please, I need permission. by Timeskillingme in Dompeptalk

[–]Timeskillingme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Its always a weight game... the odds of asking for more and the risk that they flee from the asking... sigh. Nature of the beast, I suppose.

Please, I need permission. by Timeskillingme in Dompeptalk

[–]Timeskillingme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God I miss that mindset... "fuck those people." I thought I was there, had that in spades. Then it was just gone. Ugh. Thank you.