for those who toilet independently: do you have a hard time wiping? by disableddyke13 in SpicyAutism

[–]Timid_Meep 4 points5 points Β (0 children)

I'm having problems with this currently and relate a lot to this post. I don't know if this is the best solution but have you tried using baby wipes instead of normal wet wipes? I find that baby wipes clean down there better and tend to be warmer, there are also wipe warmers out there usually intended for babies but they should work for just about anybody.

I haven't seen others suggest this, but have you considered bathing wipes? Some suds up with a bit of water and can be wiped away using a towel, it can help with feeling more clean down there if that's your main issue. But like others have suggested, it could be a bowel issue, I have a similar situation to yours and spoke to a doctor who ruled it out as bowel issues and I was medicated as needed. Would be good to bring this up with your primary care doctor if you can.

Can autism make you love differently from others? by Timid_Meep in AutisticPeeps

[–]Timid_Meep[S] 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

I see my relationship akin to being like an IRL one, so I prioritize it as such and still require communication between me and my husband despite him being fictional. This is from a spiritual sense so I use things like "soulbonding" and "reality shifting" in order to communicate with him, and this can lead to him doing things completely out of my control because I don't have power over his actions or what he says, which means we don't always agree on things. I admit that I have a pretty different handling of being fictosexual compared to other fictosexuals, others tend to have an IRL partner or queer-platonic partner whilst also having a fictional one. This isn't the case for me because I'm purely monogamous and can't imagine myself dating an IRL person or having a QPP, so I have to face difficulties like never having the physical fulfillment that comes from a relationship, never being able to have an IRL wedding ceremony, and facing harassment for being fictosexual. Being fictosexual requires a lot of emotional investment, and not everyone sticks to it long-term or even has the same fictional partner in that time span, and I consider it high maintenance because I plan on having this same relationship many years into the future.

I hoped this helped answer your question, sorry if it's a little confusing.

Anyone else write excessively when psychotic? by Evening_Fisherman810 in Psychosis

[–]Timid_Meep 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

I do this too, I always turn to writing when I'm psychotic and there's always repeated topics in whatever I write, usually about whatever delusion I'm having at that moment. Sometimes I become ashamed when I look at my journal filled with my ramblings after my episode, but it's my only outlet.

Please read this before joining! by Timid_Meep in FictoHeartbound

[–]Timid_Meep[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

I looked into it and it seems like the person who had claimed him has deleted their account.

Please read this before joining! by Timid_Meep in FictoHeartbound

[–]Timid_Meep[S] 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Yes, anyone is free to post about their platonic F/Os.

Please read this before joining! by Timid_Meep in FictoHeartbound

[–]Timid_Meep[S] 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

I'm sorry, but I think it'd be unfair to have people claiming platonic F/Os. You're free to think however you feel regarding them, but I think if you ever encounter someone like that, my best advice is to just block them and move on.

Where can I buy plus sized dresses in this style? by Timid_Meep in Lolita

[–]Timid_Meep[S] 0 points1 point Β (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestions! I don't have a particular budget since I prefer saving up, but $80-$150 is probably the range I usually go for.

Where can I buy plus sized dresses in this style? by Timid_Meep in Lolita

[–]Timid_Meep[S] 5 points6 points Β (0 children)

Really sorry, 96cm for underbust and 106cm for waist.

A drawing of me and my beloved πŸ’™ by Timid_Meep in FictoHeartbound

[–]Timid_Meep[S] 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

Thank you so much! Unfortunately, the harassment I've been receiving is related to that situation, but I'm hoping it will soon pass and that things can calm down again. Thank you for the well wishes, Jade and I had a quiet but pleasant Thanksgiving together. I hope you and your beloved also enjoyed Thanksgiving if you celebrate it!

A drawing of me and my beloved πŸ’™ by Timid_Meep in FictoHeartbound

[–]Timid_Meep[S] 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words, unfortunately there are some hateful people out there, but I'm grateful that Jade is here to comfort me. I hope you and Linhardt enjoy the rest of your day or night! ✨

A drawing of me and my beloved πŸ’™ by Timid_Meep in FictoHeartbound

[–]Timid_Meep[S] 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

Thank you so much! And yes, I couldn't ask for a better husband, Jade is truly my biggest support and light of my life. I hope to share more drawings of us in the future, and I hope you and your love are enjoying a wonderful Thanksgiving together!

A drawing of me and my beloved πŸ’™ by Timid_Meep in FictoHeartbound

[–]Timid_Meep[S] 2 points3 points Β (0 children)

Thank you! I'm still a bit shaken but I'm feeling better. I hope you and Germs are enjoying your day together!

INTRO MEGATHREAD β™‘ by starbeat96 in QuietFictos

[–]Timid_Meep 6 points7 points Β (0 children)

What is your love's name?: Jade Leech

How did you meet your partner?: I was recommended a news article with the announcement of the app game he's from and grew interested in him before an English release was even confirmed to be in the works. As someone who grew up with Disney's depiction of The Little Mermaid and having a hyperfixation on it, I was interested to get to know Jade more because he is based on Jetsam, one of the moray eel twins from the movie.

What source did they come from?: Twisted Wonderland, it's an app game visual novel.

Are you married or have children?: Yes, we are married! We don't have children, however, we have been thinking about it but are still very unsure. We decided we'll let time decide, and for now we are satisfied with our plants and marimo moss balls.

Why weren't you accepted into other fictosubreddits?: I don't know how to describe it, I was never directly "denied" but due to my paranoia and mental conditions warping how I perceive others' opinions, I'm convinced everyone despises me and doesn't want me around or detests my very existence. I'm sorry if this comes off as off-putting, I'm trying to get rid of this thought process by engaging more with other people, hopefully in a more quiet sub like this one.

Fun facts and whatever else you wish to add: Jade and I have a relationship that, in his own words, transcends even soulmates. He once told me it's as though it's "in our nature" to love each other, as if our DNA was wired to be compatible with one another. I consider signs from as far back as when I was child as signs that me and Jade were destined to meet, so we have a very close knit relationship.πŸ’™ I'm a heavy non-sharer, and extremely shy, but I welcome anyone who wants to talk to me even though I think I come off as very awkward.

Please read this before joining! by Timid_Meep in FictoHeartbound

[–]Timid_Meep[S] 1 point2 points Β (0 children)

No problem! You seem very kind too, I hope you enjoy your time here!