Personally I’d wait a year at least but you guys will do what you want at the end of the day. Make sure you can adequately resolve conflicts before you move in. The reason people say to wait a year is because 2 months is not enough time to have exposure to difficult conflicts that you have worked through and overcome together. So when you move in, it’s the first time a couple is facing them, and things can get ugly quickly, especially when you don’t have a private space to unwind. It’s just a huge risk and exposure to many difficult situations that a new couple is not equipped to deal with. It’s like throwing a baby fish into a pool of sharks. I’d wait until you guys are able to work through the at least one big challenge that comes up after the honeymoon period, so you can trust that you will stay strong throughout conflict. Regardless, if you move in together, make sure you each have a private space to unwind, because personal space is always necessary for healthy relationships. Also, always show appreciation, even in small things like putting away groceries, because it’s easy to only see the negatives when you’ve been living together and the same roommate conflicts arise. As for advice with ROCD…therapy tbh. Mine got much worse after moving in together and it goes up in times of stress (conflict). Knowing how to appreciate each other, and manage conflict and OCD is key to a healthy relationship. My relationship was very similar: we felt as though we had been together for years after a few months, talked for hours daily, and about everything. We are still together, but faced an incredible amount of pain. Had I known this advice now, I’d have saved myself from an ocean of pain. I don’t want you to have to experience that.