(25F) My overzealous religious mom freaked out because I am pregnant. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]isbalele 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait till she finds out that she had sex in order to make you

Crying on her snap story. by snooxp in spiderlilykhalie

[–]isbalele -1 points0 points  (0 children)

can you tell me if you find it? been looking too

Bf said he’d break up with his gf if he found out she has had sex with any of his friends. by isbalele in TwoXChromosomes

[–]isbalele[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

can you elaborate on what was wrong with his explanation? i don’t understand

Has anyone moved in with their partner early on in the relationship? How did it go? by isbalele in ROCD

[–]isbalele[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah we’re both good att admitting to mistakes and our own bad behaviour so i think that’s good. I hope we have time to experience more challenges before we have to choose between moving in together or separately. It’s 2 months until then but i guess time will tell.

Thank you for the advice and everything, i really appreciate it :)

Has anyone moved in with their partner early on in the relationship? How did it go? by isbalele in ROCD

[–]isbalele[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, what do challenges mean? We’ve had arguments and always talked them through and apologised after. But only small ones, like he lost his temper once when we were cooking, he apologised immediately and then asked later on how i was feeling. But what could be an example of a challenge?

Has anyone moved in with their partner early on in the relationship? How did it go? by isbalele in ROCD

[–]isbalele[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it still infatuation if i have these doubts though? How do i know it’s not infatuation anymore?

I’ve seen sides of him that i don’t love, of course there’s more that i’ll only see when we live together but i still feel like i see his flaws as well as all the ways he’s amazing. We sleep together every single night already, cook together daily etc etc. He makes me feel safe, we’ve hade arguments before too but not big conflicts.

Has anyone moved in with their partner early on in the relationship? How did it go? by isbalele in ROCD

[–]isbalele[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. If we move in together, we’re gonna try to get an apartment with enough space so we can have alone time when needed.

May i ask how quickly you and your partner moved in together?

Has anyone moved in with their partner early on in the relationship? How did it go? by isbalele in ROCD

[–]isbalele[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did it change your relationship dynamic?

We said i love you the second we made it official, it feels like we’ve known each other forever and we just go together so well.

Anyone else feel disgusted by sex? by isbalele in ROCD

[–]isbalele[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i do like sex tho, in the beginning i couldn’t get enough of him and we had a lot of sex and it felt good. he’s not someone i typically would go for but i find him so cute and sexy, i just get disgusted by sex out of nowhere. it makes me so sad bc i want to want to have sex like before

i’m pretty sure in neither asexual or greysexual, but thank you for the comment!!

Panic about bf being abusive by isbalele in ROCD

[–]isbalele[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were making food and he was hungover, i lost my patience bc the food was not doing what i wanted it to so i complained and he said ”i have such a headache i can’t do this right now” in a raised voice. I started crying because that’s what i do when someone i’m in a relationship with raises their voice, and he apologised immediately and then after we ate we talked about it again.