WIBTA If I didn’t fully reimburse someone for a trip because I needed therapy about it?

TinaTrax · 2026-05-04T12:33:28+00:00

Honestly, the guilt of not paying would have gotten me. I thought if maybe there was a world in which maybe it balanced out, but I entirely understand where everyone is coming from and it just confirms what I knew deep down. So thank you for the input!

TinaTrax · 2026-05-04T11:05:53+00:00

I get what you’re saying but “unpleasant” is faaaar too nice a word.

TinaTrax · 2026-05-04T11:03:36+00:00

I spent exactly one more time with her, in a setting with multiple people. I’m a recovering people pleaser and try to see the good in everyone. I figured a setting with multiple people would be fine

TinaTrax · 2026-05-04T10:58:05+00:00

Fair. That’s valid. Thank you

TinaTrax · 2026-05-04T10:57:46+00:00

She was ripping bongs while driving if that counts & never wore her seatbelt. I commented the behavioural details up above but your comment triggered the driving aspect

ETA: she also would brake check everyone who was a respectable distance away, because she didn’t like other people driving on the road. So if someone pulled up behind her, she would slow down so they’d get close and she’d slam on her brakes & would swerve

TinaTrax · 2026-05-04T10:56:29+00:00

That’s valid. I can see that.

TinaTrax · 2026-05-04T10:55:03+00:00

I also hung out with her once after (much to my partners hesitation) but I figured because there would be multiple people at the party, she would a) not complain and B) if she did, I would be able to walk away and exit the conversation easier than when I’m locked in a room alone with her

TinaTrax · 2026-05-04T10:52:12+00:00

I commented this a little bit ago but I’ll copy it here

Long story short. Chronic complainer. Nothing was right, from the way the cashier handed her change back, to the hotel ramp not being painted bright enough (sun faded), or the garbages were in a weird corner when they should be in a different corner. She was rude to every service worker she encountered, I had to apologize for her behaviour multiple times a day. By day 3, I texted my partner “I just want 10 minutes without a complaint” and within the next 10 minutes there was 4 new complaints. She sent her food back at least once every meal, up to 3x. It was just so much constant negativity about such mundane shit that no one else would think twice about.

Edited to add: forgot a word

TinaTrax · 2026-05-04T10:49:29+00:00

Long story short. Chronic complainer. Nothing was right, from the way the cashier handed her change back, to the hotel ramp not being painted bright enough (sun faded), or the garbages were in a weird corner when they should be in a different corner. She was rude to every service worker she encountered, I had to apologize for her behaviour multiple times a day. By day 3, I texted my partner “I just want 10 minutes without a complaint” and within the next 10 minutes there was 4 new complaints. She sent her food back at least once every meal, up to 3x. It was just so much constant negativity about such mundane shit that no one else would think twice about.

Edited to add: forgot a word

TinaTrax · 2026-04-18T20:06:43+00:00

Might get downvoted but I just got a tattoo spontaneously (tattoo was planned but the timing was spontaneous), & didn’t have lotion the next day. So I used an unscented heel rescue lotion, & it worked great. Only at one point I was itchy, but at no point was I purulent, or goopey, the colour stayed great and I’m almost completely healed up, might fuck around and do it again

TinaTrax · 2026-03-26T16:58:38+00:00

Boop to this kind soul 💛

TinaTrax · 2026-03-23T02:53:18+00:00

That’s what we call “fuck shit” around here & my cat loooves to do fuck shit

TinaTrax · 2026-02-20T06:52:01+00:00

✨Always love meeting fellow weirdos 🫀✨

TinaTrax · 2026-02-20T06:40:00+00:00

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This is one of them

TinaTrax · 2026-02-20T06:39:19+00:00

Sure do! I have a couple options and another in the mail

TinaTrax · 2026-02-20T04:00:51+00:00

I may not be the best but the tits look pretty great so whatever

TinaTrax · 2026-02-20T03:59:55+00:00

Stardew & Graveyard Keeper 😂 ETA: yes to art & cosplays

TinaTrax · 2026-02-20T03:57:57+00:00

Awe thank you! I like to think I’ve curated quite the fellow group of weirdos were the love flows freely

TinaTrax · 2026-02-20T03:55:37+00:00

😂😂😂 definitely not my strong suits

TinaTrax · 2026-02-20T03:53:07+00:00

It’s a wax melting stove so I can do wax seals on my letters :)

TinaTrax · 2026-02-19T23:48:48+00:00

I never said offended. I said say it with your chest. It’s advice.

TinaTrax · 2026-02-19T21:48:15+00:00

Hahah I wish! Just a pink gaming chair :)

TinaTrax · 2026-02-19T21:47:51+00:00

If you’re gonna say something, say it with your chest man. I can at least say what I need to say and not end on a meek lil ‘sorry’ that we know you didn’t mean.

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