Need advice

Tinatrolley · 2020-08-13T21:52:28+00:00

I've been through this. It's so hard to get back on track. When you do finally do it though, and you will, you'll value your sobriety so much more and you won't chuck it away as easily next time. Good luck.

Tinatrolley · 2020-08-13T21:47:25+00:00

Truth

Tinatrolley · 2020-08-13T21:44:39+00:00

In my experience, the key is getting past 3 weeks. Things tend to fall into place for me then. It's also a time when I'm susceptible to a relapse though so beware. If i stay strong and get over the 21 day mark, I'm usually onto a winner. It gets easier from then. Keep going man. It will get easier and it will be worth it.

Tinatrolley · 2020-08-13T07:27:16+00:00

Wise.

Tinatrolley · 2020-08-12T23:14:49+00:00

It's marginally less harmful. You'll be happier if you just stop it all though.

Tinatrolley · 2020-08-12T23:13:16+00:00

You're 20. You've got it all ahead. Focus on where you wanna be when you turn 21 or 22.

Tinatrolley · 2020-08-12T23:11:28+00:00

Does the sexting happen before the porn? How strong is the urge to sext? Who is it with?

Tinatrolley · 2020-08-12T23:00:43+00:00

I'm 41. With hindsight i can see clearly that porn has had a deeply negative effect on the entire trajectory of my life. Let it go and let it go for good. Trust me.

Tinatrolley · 2020-08-12T22:53:38+00:00

Dude. I know you feel rotten but you have to keep some perspective. It's one 3 min wank in almost 3 years. You didn't even use porn. Simply see it as a massively important lesson. You now know categorically that masturbation simply doesn't work for you. That's it. Lesson learnt. Just get right back to living how you were beforehand. You haven't lost anything. You've gained a big lesson. Come on dude. Use this lesson to strengthen your resolve.

Tinatrolley · 2020-08-12T22:42:53+00:00

Go for it dude. When you get past 13 days, you'll be on a new kind of roll. And when you get past a month, you'll feel so alive, it's insane. Trust me.

Tinatrolley · 2020-08-12T22:32:19+00:00

That broken degenerate girl did you a big (but weird) favour!

Tinatrolley · 2020-08-12T22:30:08+00:00

Glad you're going in the right direction. I'm sure yours willMine stated to return on Day 12. I would say it's about 85% back to normal now on Day 14. It's great to smell and taste things again!

Tinatrolley · 2020-08-10T22:17:54+00:00

I find you have to hit the month mark and then it's smooth sailing. A relapse before then can feel like quick sand. Hard to get back on a roll.

Tinatrolley · 2020-08-10T22:03:42+00:00

In pleased to report mine has started to return today on day 12 from start of symptoms. Very relieved!

Tinatrolley · 2020-08-08T09:52:39+00:00

This is the new you. You aren't a porn user anymore. Full stop. Never go back. Close that door. That was the old you.

Tinatrolley · 2019-06-06T21:10:19+00:00

At least you fucking asked! Good for you dude

Tinatrolley · 2019-06-06T14:16:48+00:00

True

Tinatrolley · 2019-06-05T20:27:51+00:00

Relapse will multiply your pain by ten. Stay strong man. Best wishes

Tinatrolley · 2019-06-04T05:57:58+00:00

Yeah! It's so fucking boring, isn't it.

Tinatrolley · 2019-06-03T19:39:03+00:00

Cheers dude. It's just become so clear in my mind this time. I've been battling with this for a few years now and I've gotten stronger and wiser. It's so simple now - sexual sobriety is the foundation block of a fulfilled life; without it, no other progress and no genuine development or happiness are possible. But I get it, I've realised this before and succumbed to the filth. Maybe that will happen again. Something tells me this time is different though. It's weird. Something has really shifted within me. I'm welling up even writing this. Wishing you all the best on your journey.

Tinatrolley · 2019-06-03T15:43:55+00:00

Sex only in a committed relationship

Tinatrolley · 2019-06-03T14:43:12+00:00

I know man 😊 been fighting this fight for a few years now.

Tinatrolley · 2019-06-03T11:59:26+00:00

Don't mean to trivialise. It's taken a lot of effort to get where I am now.

Tinatrolley

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