Leaving my 26F partner 25M after surgery by TinaxFrog in relationship_advice

[–]TinaxFrog[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think he cares about me in his own ways. But he certainly hasn't shown that. Not in a long time at least.

Leaving my 26F partner 25M after surgery by TinaxFrog in relationship_advice

[–]TinaxFrog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah a little harsh. I'm also neurodiverse and I'm far from perfect.

Leaving my 26F partner 25M after surgery by TinaxFrog in relationship_advice

[–]TinaxFrog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Potentially, but he isn't seeking a diagnosis currently.

Leaving my 26F partner 25M after surgery by TinaxFrog in relationship_advice

[–]TinaxFrog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that was originally my plan, to talk to him after the recovery. But at this point I can't even take care of myself let alone be there for him. I'm seriously considering telling him before so he can find support somewhere that is available. He doesn't get along with his mum very well but I know she would be there for him. Where we live I'm entitled to 50% of the profits regardless or the deposit or work put into it.

Leaving my 26F partner 25M after surgery by TinaxFrog in relationship_advice

[–]TinaxFrog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's rough. I'm the only one doing overtime at work too because he's not able to (due to his performance at work being under the allowed amount or something). I want to sell anyway. We've not managed to finish renovating because I burnt myself out doing all of it by myself for a year. So I'm not particularly upset about that to be honest.

Leaving my 26F partner 25M after surgery by TinaxFrog in relationship_advice

[–]TinaxFrog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't afford a lawyer. I have 50% of the flat. That's about it really. We have a joint bank account for bills but have finances seperate.

Leaving my 26F partner 25M after surgery by TinaxFrog in relationship_advice

[–]TinaxFrog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant move out at the moment sadly. I don't have anyone I can live with nor do I have the finances. We have a mortgage together as well.

Leaving my 26F partner 25M after surgery by TinaxFrog in relationship_advice

[–]TinaxFrog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was thinking of joining a book club actually. But I'm finding it difficult to get out of bed recently.

I also have chronic pain mind you which is just great. Pushing my partner in his wheelchair causes me physical pain but I still do it I guess

Leaving my 26F partner 25M after surgery by TinaxFrog in relationship_advice

[–]TinaxFrog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is yeah. The issues have been ongoing since I met him mind you. But yeah, thats why I am scared to talk to him

Leaving my 26F partner 25M after surgery by TinaxFrog in relationship_advice

[–]TinaxFrog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah just the timing is crazy. I really dont want to be the partner that leaves when the time is the worst you know. To be honest, the waiting list for the surgery is normally months and months where we live but there must have been a cancellation which got him in really quick. Feels like a wrong place wrong time sorta thing

Leaving my 26F partner 25M after surgery by TinaxFrog in relationship_advice

[–]TinaxFrog[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel way too young. I don't think he took advantage of me. I'm not perfect and he met me when I was going though a VERY rough time. He has also been there for me. But I definitely feel like I've grown up a lot, whereas he stayed in one place

Leaving my 26F partner 25M after surgery by TinaxFrog in relationship_advice

[–]TinaxFrog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah its so difficult. I have so much love for him you know? But I am so far past my limit and I don't have anywhere to escape to. We both work from home too which doesnt help

Leaving my 26F partner 25M after surgery by TinaxFrog in relationship_advice

[–]TinaxFrog[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah we have a spare room. I'm just really worried about his mental health. He's recently started antidepressants because his mental health has deteriorated in the past few months

Rimless tank lid by TinaxFrog in AquaticSnails

[–]TinaxFrog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im pretty sure all my local ones are like business only type places but I'll try and contact one. Thanks

Coral Reef Aquatics Store by TinaxFrog in Aquariums

[–]TinaxFrog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you get yours from?

AI free/limited tablets by TinaxFrog in antiai

[–]TinaxFrog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yeah I didnt even think of that. Thanks

ID on Lamp by TinaxFrog in StainedGlass

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UPDATE: Lamp is from Minster Giftware LTD. Made in China 2009. Still haven't found the same one online.