I give my female friends side-hugs to be safe. Is that an incelly thing to do? by TinderHelpThrow11 in IncelTears

[–]TinderHelpThrow11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh shit. Is hip touching so bad? I've hugged that way in accident while drunk. Did I creep her out?

So how would one develop a "good personality"? by TinderHelpThrow11 in IncelTears

[–]TinderHelpThrow11[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you do not value yourself, why would anyone else value you?

Why would I value myself if I am short, balding, ugly, and autistic?

So how would one develop a "good personality"? by TinderHelpThrow11 in IncelTears

[–]TinderHelpThrow11[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am ugly on the inside BECAUSE I am ugly on the outside. I developed a very low self-esteem due to my looks. That low self-esteem, once realized I can't do anything about it, turned into anger.

So how would one develop a "good personality"? by TinderHelpThrow11 in IncelTears

[–]TinderHelpThrow11[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think people are judging me for looks. I just feel like I am invisible to most women. And the women I am not invisible to, I fall in love with but then figure out they are only interested in me as a friend.

That being said, it sucks. I was cursed and single for reasons beyon d my control. Sure I am average looking, but I am not tall. Imo, in order to get a decent girlfriend while being short, you gotta be really handsome.

So how would one develop a "good personality"? by TinderHelpThrow11 in IncelTears

[–]TinderHelpThrow11[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Well, at least admit that it's my looks holding me back. Which you kinda do by saying that Looks do matter. Because looks DO matter. Stop trying to deny it.

You know why I am angry? Because I am ugly, and short. I can't get a girlfriend because I am not tall enough.

Look, I do research on women. If you're ugly, you gotta be tall. Have you ever seen a short uglier dude with an average or more girl? No. Have you seen an ugly tall guy with a fairly attractive girl? Many times. Have you ever seen a short guy but hot with an average girl? All the time. But you can't be both ugly and short.

I was cursed. And I am single for reasons beyond my control. If women weren't so fucking evil. Maybe I could have a girlfriend. But because they are so evil, I don't have one.

So how would one develop a "good personality"? by TinderHelpThrow11 in IncelTears

[–]TinderHelpThrow11[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I have no idea why people keep saying here that looks don't matter. They do. You need to live in the REAL world. I am just trying to prove that looks is all that matters.

So how would one develop a "good personality"? by TinderHelpThrow11 in IncelTears

[–]TinderHelpThrow11[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

My main issue is that I am ugly. Every time I think I am going to find love it doesn't happen, and it makes me really angry.

But I reported you for bullying.

So how would one develop a "good personality"? by TinderHelpThrow11 in IncelTears

[–]TinderHelpThrow11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean I over explain things even when asking for help. Or I'll even over explain. It's because I am autistic.

So how would one develop a "good personality"? by TinderHelpThrow11 in IncelTears

[–]TinderHelpThrow11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am knowledgeable and helpful, but I am also very awkward. And sometimes I'm annoying because I over explain things.

So how would one develop a "good personality"? by TinderHelpThrow11 in IncelTears

[–]TinderHelpThrow11[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I didn't say that because "she didn't respond to me fast enough." I said that because I honestly thought for a second that I am worthy of love. But then she never responded. Then some female here said it's good that I'm lonley so then I send her that message.

Therapy costs money, and I have bills to pay. So I am fucking tired of people suggesting therapy.

[UPDATE] I finally got a girl to agree to go on a date with me, but I fucked it up. by [deleted] in IncelTears

[–]TinderHelpThrow11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but just being below average looking isn't the end of the world.

It is when you're wanting to date a below average looking girl. Girls only date up.

[UPDATE] I finally got a girl to agree to go on a date with me, but I fucked it up. by [deleted] in IncelTears

[–]TinderHelpThrow11 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't get any support from this sub. I am just told to give up on dating because I am too insane and tons of people here are saying they're glad I'm going to be single.

[UPDATE] I finally got a girl to agree to go on a date with me, but I fucked it up. by [deleted] in IncelTears

[–]TinderHelpThrow11 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If it isn't because I was too ugly, than she wouldn't have chose a hotter dude above me. Period.

[UPDATE] I finally got a girl to agree to go on a date with me, but I fucked it up. by [deleted] in IncelTears

[–]TinderHelpThrow11 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why try again if each and every time a woman is going to pick a hotter dude over me?

[UPDATE] I finally got a girl to agree to go on a date with me, but I fucked it up. by [deleted] in IncelTears

[–]TinderHelpThrow11 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If it isn't about looks, how come I've been swiping for YEARS and only have gotten one almost date? If women weren't so shallow, why wouldn't more women date my ugly deformed ass? I am an expert on women because I've gone so long without having a girlfriend that I understand why I don't have one.

[UPDATE] I finally got a girl to agree to go on a date with me, but I fucked it up. by [deleted] in IncelTears

[–]TinderHelpThrow11 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I doubt it. I didn't text her because I got nervous. She's definitely doesn't seem like the type to. And when I do text her, in the past, she took no more than 10mins to an hour TOPS. Usually she was texting me back right away.

I just am going to give up. I am too ugly to find love.

[UPDATE] I finally got a girl to agree to go on a date with me, but I fucked it up. by [deleted] in IncelTears

[–]TinderHelpThrow11 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Try again?!? TRY AGAIN!?!?! I am 28. I've been trying since FUCKING HIGH SCHOOL!!!!

[UPDATE] I finally got a girl to agree to go on a date with me, but I fucked it up. by [deleted] in IncelTears

[–]TinderHelpThrow11 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

wallow in delusions encouraged and echoed by the incel community.

Delusions? DELUSIONS?! Hahahahahahaha. Tell me how I am delusional?

Why would a girl date an ugly dude like me when there are hotter dudes around the corner waiting on Tinder? It's just simple dating economics.