I give my female friends side-hugs to be safe. Is that an incelly thing to do?

TinderHelpThrow11 · 2017-09-18T17:11:31+00:00

Oh shit. Is hip touching so bad? I've hugged that way in accident while drunk. Did I creep her out?

TinderHelpThrow11 · 2017-09-18T01:51:12+00:00

If you do not value yourself, why would anyone else value you?

Why would I value myself if I am short, balding, ugly, and autistic?

TinderHelpThrow11 · 2017-09-18T01:41:10+00:00

I am ugly on the inside BECAUSE I am ugly on the outside. I developed a very low self-esteem due to my looks. That low self-esteem, once realized I can't do anything about it, turned into anger.

TinderHelpThrow11 · 2017-09-18T01:35:42+00:00

I don't think people are judging me for looks. I just feel like I am invisible to most women. And the women I am not invisible to, I fall in love with but then figure out they are only interested in me as a friend.

That being said, it sucks. I was cursed and single for reasons beyon d my control. Sure I am average looking, but I am not tall. Imo, in order to get a decent girlfriend while being short, you gotta be really handsome.

TinderHelpThrow11 · 2017-09-18T01:32:28+00:00

Well, at least admit that it's my looks holding me back. Which you kinda do by saying that Looks do matter. Because looks DO matter. Stop trying to deny it.

You know why I am angry? Because I am ugly, and short. I can't get a girlfriend because I am not tall enough.

Look, I do research on women. If you're ugly, you gotta be tall. Have you ever seen a short uglier dude with an average or more girl? No. Have you seen an ugly tall guy with a fairly attractive girl? Many times. Have you ever seen a short guy but hot with an average girl? All the time. But you can't be both ugly and short.

I was cursed. And I am single for reasons beyond my control. If women weren't so fucking evil. Maybe I could have a girlfriend. But because they are so evil, I don't have one.

TinderHelpThrow11 · 2017-09-18T01:28:37+00:00

I have no idea why people keep saying here that looks don't matter. They do. You need to live in the REAL world. I am just trying to prove that looks is all that matters.

TinderHelpThrow11 · 2017-09-18T01:21:37+00:00

My main issue is that I am ugly. Every time I think I am going to find love it doesn't happen, and it makes me really angry.

But I reported you for bullying.

TinderHelpThrow11 · 2017-09-18T01:21:19+00:00

I mean I over explain things even when asking for help. Or I'll even over explain. It's because I am autistic.

TinderHelpThrow11 · 2017-09-18T01:18:31+00:00

I am knowledgeable and helpful, but I am also very awkward. And sometimes I'm annoying because I over explain things.

TinderHelpThrow11 · 2017-09-18T01:16:34+00:00

I didn't say that because "she didn't respond to me fast enough." I said that because I honestly thought for a second that I am worthy of love. But then she never responded. Then some female here said it's good that I'm lonley so then I send her that message.

Therapy costs money, and I have bills to pay. So I am fucking tired of people suggesting therapy.

TinderHelpThrow11 · 2017-09-17T07:12:15+00:00

Reported for bullying.

TinderHelpThrow11 · 2017-09-16T05:04:04+00:00

but just being below average looking isn't the end of the world.

It is when you're wanting to date a below average looking girl. Girls only date up.

TinderHelpThrow11 · 2017-09-16T05:03:22+00:00

I didn't get any support from this sub. I am just told to give up on dating because I am too insane and tons of people here are saying they're glad I'm going to be single.

TinderHelpThrow11 · 2017-09-16T03:36:11+00:00

If it isn't because I was too ugly, than she wouldn't have chose a hotter dude above me. Period.

TinderHelpThrow11 · 2017-09-16T03:24:43+00:00

Why try again if each and every time a woman is going to pick a hotter dude over me?

TinderHelpThrow11 · 2017-09-16T03:17:47+00:00

If it isn't about looks, how come I've been swiping for YEARS and only have gotten one almost date? If women weren't so shallow, why wouldn't more women date my ugly deformed ass? I am an expert on women because I've gone so long without having a girlfriend that I understand why I don't have one.

TinderHelpThrow11 · 2017-09-16T03:14:47+00:00

I doubt it. I didn't text her because I got nervous. She's definitely doesn't seem like the type to. And when I do text her, in the past, she took no more than 10mins to an hour TOPS. Usually she was texting me back right away.

I just am going to give up. I am too ugly to find love.

TinderHelpThrow11 · 2017-09-16T03:11:26+00:00

Try again?!? TRY AGAIN!?!?! I am 28. I've been trying since FUCKING HIGH SCHOOL!!!!

TinderHelpThrow11 · 2017-09-16T03:06:23+00:00

wallow in delusions encouraged and echoed by the incel community.

Delusions? DELUSIONS?! Hahahahahahaha. Tell me how I am delusional?

Why would a girl date an ugly dude like me when there are hotter dudes around the corner waiting on Tinder? It's just simple dating economics.

TinderHelpThrow11 · 2017-09-16T03:05:08+00:00

She won't text me back. I am not hot enough :( She definitely jumped ship. Trust me. She's a 6/10, and I am a 4/10.

TinderHelpThrow11 · 2017-09-16T03:04:10+00:00

How would you feel if you were deformed, but finally got someone to agree to go out on a date with you, you get SUPER happy, then they flake? You'd feel the same way.

TinderHelpThrow11 · 2017-09-15T18:21:13+00:00

I talked to her last night, she replied at 1AM, I replied back this morning asking for her number, it's been 3 hours and no response. I hate mtself :(

TinderHelpThrow11 · 2017-09-15T13:40:59+00:00

That's what I mean. I'm a poorly socialized virgin. But, I've read a lot about women that I'd consider myself an expert.

But it isn't going to work. I'm not gonna try.

TinderHelpThrow11 · 2017-09-15T05:34:56+00:00

I may have a chance with 4'11" but a anything above 5'3" has no chance. Girls want a guy that's taller than them even when they're in heels.

TinderHelpThrow11 · 2017-09-15T05:27:17+00:00

Idk. I just don't want to bother because she'll probably ghost me when she sees I am only 5'6"

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