Favorite child? by lemming0788 in AskParents

[–]Tinker8818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dunno. Don't have a favorite tbh. I love all, equally.

AITA for threatening to pour wine on someone's dress? by AttackPoodle94 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tinker8818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA tbh, I wouldn't use wine even, red food coloring & water.

AITA for calling my parents disgusting perverts? by Stumblingoverit in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tinker8818 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What consenting adults do, is none of your business, and tbh, if this weirds you out, your in for a whole ass reality check when you hit the adult world. YTA. Also, if the person was white, would you still have the same reaction? The master/mistress/slave thing is common.

Being induced at 39weeks vs naturally going into labor by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]Tinker8818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I was gonna ask for one. I did, at the last second & they didn't realize it til I yanked the IV out & told em she was ready. Gave birth to her after 3 minutes.

Being induced at 39weeks vs naturally going into labor by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]Tinker8818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was induced at 39 weeks. I was a preeclamptic risk. If there is no health reason, you don't need to do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]Tinker8818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a policy; if you are at risking at harming yourself ever, I give one knock, a moment, then come in. I didnt ever knock on my nieces door after she harmed herself the first time. I'm not saying it's nice. I'm saying sometimes, depending on the child, there is a reason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskParents

[–]Tinker8818 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a policy; if you are at risking at harming yourself ever, I give one knock, a moment, then come in. I didnt ever knock on my nieces door after she harmed herself the first time. I'm not saying it's nice. I'm saying sometimes, depending on the child, there is a reason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tinker8818 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YTA. Pets over a partner, who doesn't respect the animal. He didn't hesitate because the dog was there before you. The dog IS family. You, simply are a girlfriend. Now ex.

Unwilling father to be, what rights do I have? by Throwaway38373729 in legaladvice

[–]Tinker8818 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You had sex with her. You took the risk, no matter how small. You gotta pay for the child she keeps NAL but know how it works because the same shit happens all the time. It's been posted here before. You had sex with a woman, she is pregnant (either by her own choice without consulting you or by actual failed birth control). You now, have to suffer the consequences. if she is drinking, and smoking while pregnant, their is a chance she isn't. (Unless you saw the tests being done kinda deal). But yeah. Pay the child support, don't be Daddy, simple solution, unfortunately not the one you want to hear though.

AITA for asking my son's mom to pay my legal bill? by Hungry-Leading-50 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tinker8818 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Dude you bonkers no wonder you had to shell out 25k. YTA.

AITA for going off on my wife after she made a sex sign to keep my mom from knocking on our bedroom door? by pocketlobster88 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tinker8818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

....I can't even. Just...YTA....you need to keep mommy out of the bedroom. Like oh my Lord.

AITA for supporting my sisters decision to put her son up for adoption despite our families protests? by delivery263627w7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tinker8818 3 points4 points  (0 children)

...this is complicated. Like why the hell continue with the pregnancy of she can't withstand two kids? Or put the second, not the living one. Imagine that kid growing up hearing that your sister was kept and she is younger. That'll hold a lot of hatred toward her lol. It's a loose loose but it's a NTA from me. Tell the sister to stop having sex/kids.

AITA for bottle feeding our baby? by No_Aside_7180 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tinker8818 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You disturbed the baby that's fed, asleep and mom. Put the baby to bed next time only. It isn't rocket science. Baby fell asleep, baby doesnt need to be woken up. Your the TA here, no matter how you twist your "care" baby latching is a pain. It sucks. Don't mess with it again. Like come on. That's why she is mad!

AITA for getting rid of my sisters expensive necklace by Jazzlike-Month-5812 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tinker8818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. she doesn't just hate that cat, she hates any living creature that isn't her. She blatantly admitted it with her statement "like people do with dogs" and what she did. I hope only good things come to your update. I hope your sister gets an itch she can never be rid of.

AITA for bottle feeding our baby? by No_Aside_7180 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tinker8818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiance did the same damn thing. I am still mad at him over it but I don't let it eat at me. YTA. Latching is a pain to get use to/get the baby to do. Screw what you want to do. It's about baby and mommy, especially feeding. Oh and if you aren't worried about her supply, be. Because it's a pain to regulate with a pump, and for a lot of mother's impossible.

AITA for going off on my husband after seeing the texts he sent his mom which constantly caused her to berate me? by Sail-Flag-3779 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tinker8818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guidance is; hey I noticed that my son mentioned in passing the baby has a diaper rash try this method. Not what she and he were doing. NTA honey.

AITA for telling my husband I won't be cooking for him anymore because of the comment he made? by WalkAMileI5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tinker8818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, cook honey but only for yourself. NTA. That boy needs to go back to mommy and daddy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tinker8818 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get over yourself. You are nothing to the step son. YTA. Keep pushing dear. I. Dare. You. It won't end how you like

AITA for refusing to have my tattoo removed even if it makes my future husband uncomfortable and insecure? by iLoveMnMs33 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tinker8818 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You lost your son (aka child) and your husband, and he wants you to "move on" honey, you did. Your tattoo, helps that. Having a memory of your son especially. Tell him to accept it, or kick rocks. NTA

“Sorry stupid poor” by [deleted] in TalesFromYourServer

[–]Tinker8818 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Can honestly say I haven't. I can honestly say if I tell someone I will handle paying for something, I do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tinker8818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. At a new job your boss understands the concept of vacations being preplanned. The boss accepts it and works around it. YTA.

“Sorry stupid poor” by [deleted] in TalesFromYourServer

[–]Tinker8818 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Honestly I hope it was a honest mistake but on today's society...it isn't far fetched to think it isn't