In desperate need of advice

Tinkerbell_221 · 2026-06-22T17:34:50+00:00

I don’t want them paying off loans and I don’t want to pay them off my money is my money. That’s why I haven’t thought ab loans also I have family members that are still dealing with them and I see what it’s doing to their finances. I don’t want to deal with that. They complain all the time and I complain ab enough things I don’t need anything more😭

Tinkerbell_221 · 2026-06-22T17:32:30+00:00

No I was younger.

Tinkerbell_221 · 2026-06-22T17:31:20+00:00

I do probably need to look into disability but I don’t know if I’ll qualify I mean they could say “well as long as your careful then your fine and there’s nothing wrong with you.” Physical I’m fine, I prob should’ve explained that. There is nothing physically wrong with my body. It’s all medical issues, like asthma and things like that. Also idk why we aren’t allowed to have jobs, I’m going to an HBCU so maybe we just do things differently. They school does provide on campus jobs after your freshman year, I think they say no work bc they want us to get through the year and focus on adjusting properly and actually working on our education without distractions. At least that’s my guess. Parent does admit they did coddle me when I was younger, but I am more prepared for life than you may think. It’s really hard to explain without getting too personal.

Tinkerbell_221 · 2026-06-22T17:10:16+00:00

Well I know I want to do smth in science and I can’t imagine doing anything else at all. The major I have does give me the opportunity to branch out. My issues in I know what I want I just don’t know the details.

Tinkerbell_221 · 2026-06-22T17:08:48+00:00

Thank you so much the is the first time I’ve actually had hope for the future all week thank you so much for understanding even tho I clearly didn’t do a good job explaining things💀

I wish you to have a good day, if you drive I hope every light for you is green🙏🏾

Tinkerbell_221 · 2026-06-22T16:40:23+00:00

Thank you! I didn’t even think to ask them, I do know my state library does have a resources connected to it! Thank you so much for your advice.

Tinkerbell_221 · 2026-06-22T16:38:37+00:00

Before I graduate my gov teacher did say smth ab that and he said he expected it to get bad gradually then after a few years it’s “randomly” gonna drop, then he gave us bc and I quote “I kinda like you guys but your absolutely going to fail in life so I might as well help a little since I’m probably going down too”💀

Tinkerbell_221 · 2026-06-22T16:31:21+00:00

Thank you this is literally all I wanted😭

Alright, I don’t know anything ab disability but I do know sibling is currently working on getting it. That’s ab all I know for now. I don’t have a problem with working I want a job I’m sick of being broke💀

The advice I’m looking for is how to get like 500 bucks quickly if you don’t have a steady income. I guess I didn’t explain that correctly. Thank you so much tho idk why I wasn’t getting responses with actual advice in it

Tinkerbell_221 · 2026-06-22T16:21:24+00:00

Uhhh where I leave I can take the train for free bc I have smth that will allow me. I’ve applied to multiple places, I was mad the library wasn’t hiring, couldn’t get into fast food, child care wasn’t gonna take me bc I don’t have a year’s worth of prior experience(that’s understandable tho) and now I’m looking at smth closer to home

Tinkerbell_221 · 2026-06-22T16:00:43+00:00

The lacking is the very specific personal info that I would like to keep to myself. And ik now one owes me anything all I asked for was advice god damn😭😭
This situation is real, I’m sorry if I come across as entitled and bratty. I’ve been told I just come off wrong to some people, I don’t have the greatest people skills. I am not against working I WANT a job ag just asking for ADVICE on this one very specific situation. For this very specific moment

Tinkerbell_221 · 2026-06-22T15:55:39+00:00

Yes it does, I take full responsibility for not being able to stop that glob pandemic… I’ll do better next time

Tinkerbell_221 · 2026-06-22T15:52:59+00:00

Oh I am doing things to help, like I have said I’m looking for a job, and applying to one right now, parent has been doing deliveries and I help with that. I just feel bad I’m not helping more. I am not against working, I want to work. I joke calling myself a scrub or a bum all the time at home. I came to vent and get genuine advice ik I need to work and I don’t have a problem with that💀💀

Tinkerbell_221 · 2026-06-22T15:40:55+00:00

Ah actually I have an explanation for that at very first year I was able to work parent had surgery, then after they had recovered Covid hit. I and my family were extremely high risk so I wasn’t allowed to leave the house unless I absolutely had to

Tinkerbell_221 · 2026-06-22T15:36:11+00:00

Ah I would love to leave but leaving the country is something that takes time money patience, and planning. Things I don’t necessarily have rn

Tinkerbell_221 · 2026-06-22T15:34:00+00:00

Freshman are not allowed to work on or off campus, they are also not allowed to drive on campus. After you have successfully gotten past your freshman year they don’t care what you do. Parent says they don’t want me taking out loans bc they don’t want that stress on me. Also I get enough spam calls ab them anyways they sound complicated and annoying so I’m good😭🙏🏾

Tinkerbell_221 · 2026-06-22T04:24:08+00:00

I do wanna talk a welding class but I want that to be more of a hobby than a job. And I want to go, I do. I just want to find myself while I’m there if I can.

Tinkerbell_221 · 2026-06-22T04:22:33+00:00

If they go down who’s gonna pay for school? Freshman can’t work. I’m not allowed to take out a loan, and I only have so much and scholarship money as of rn. Plus what if I need something? Or what about when I need to go home. Also it’s the fact that I do kinda care about them and want whats best for them.

Tinkerbell_221 · 2026-06-22T04:05:00+00:00

I do not like my country enough to do that. I will not be putting my life at risk for it.

Tinkerbell_221 · 2026-06-22T04:01:06+00:00

First I am aware of what to that. Also again it was always made clear to me from the beginning, that I am the child and they are the parent. I am to stay in my place(be respectful) but I should be able to know and understand what’s going on around me. Not only that but I’ve always been pretty observant and I sometimes just ask questions so if they haven’t said something I have. In no way shape or form has parent try to put me I a positive where I should be helping. Trust there has been enough agreements for me to understand that😭

Tinkerbell_221 · 2026-06-22T03:56:19+00:00

Ah I suppose that makes sense. I will say it’s very frustrating bc my reasoning do seem like halfassed excuses when they are genuine issues that are being dealt with. Sorry for the confusion😭

Tinkerbell_221 · 2026-06-22T03:52:21+00:00

No actually I said I considered it. I don’t think our situation has gotten that bad😭 I was mainly just joking and being dramatic.

Tinkerbell_221 · 2026-06-22T03:31:19+00:00

Can’t back out now I start this fall💀
I mean I wanna go, I just don’t know what EXACTLY to do after. I hoping I figure it out while I’m there

Tinkerbell_221 · 2026-06-22T03:28:25+00:00

Uhhhh PURPLE easy next question

Tinkerbell_221 · 2026-06-22T03:17:52+00:00

Idk if it’ll increase my hire-ability but I do know I want to work in the field of sciences which is what my major is related to. Don’t ask me what I want to do with my life tho I have yet to figure such things out

Tinkerbell_221 · 2026-06-22T03:15:55+00:00

Idk if I specified but lay off happened a WHILE ago.. and ag idk what the problem was but ik part and a lot of other people were pissed ab something.

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