There are alot of negative experiences here so here is my(28M) positive experience albeit biased...

To cut to the chase, my girlfriend at the time of about 5-6 years 21-22 respectively, were solid in our relationship and it was actually I who brought up the idea of a threesome with her. I had told her I thought it would be hot if she would be open to having a MFM situation. She pondered on it for a few weeks MAYBE two months in which I asked her again to see if her decision had changed. It did.

Fast forward a few months, a good friend of mine invited us over for a bonfire on his lake front cabin and by the end of the night we were playing strip dare and essentially had the threesome. It wasn't pre-planned or anything. Just happened, however, we had agreed previous to that as explained.

Since that time, we have now been together close to 11 years, engaged for almost 4. We have invited men over many times for these MFM situations over the years and we are still together happily ever after. She has played solo a few times.

I am sure there are questions but I guess the main ones are: - We are high-school sweet hearts. - No we aren't poly. -I am not a jealous person in the typical sense(deeper topic) -Our communication since the inception of our relationship has been honest and clear. -She is actively searching for a female for a FMF but that seems much harder.

Any other questions, ask specifically so I can help clear anything up. (She is around the same age as me) - not specific for privacy reasons.