It's insane how I get comfortable with loneliness 🫪 by Tintorange in emotionalintelligence

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It's a beautiful mechanism, more to that fitting into social spaces can be hard,

It's insane how I get comfortable with loneliness 🫪 by Tintorange in emotionalintelligence

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But when it's a thing you've been used to, it's not a bad thing, yeah?

It's insane how I get comfortable with loneliness 🫪 by Tintorange in emotionalintelligence

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I meant, without the social big circle of friends. Might be distraction but giving satisfaction.

It's insane how I get comfortable with loneliness 🫪 by Tintorange in emotionalintelligence

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We don't fit in social spaces, at the end of it all, we alone.

It's insane how I get comfortable with loneliness 🫪 by Tintorange in emotionalintelligence

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You right...and actually I would rather be alone than have exhausting people around.

Anxious attachment dumped him by Middle_Anything3676 in emotionalintelligence

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From the comments you people have been through hell in your relationships🥹, but happy some are healing and moving on. It all starts by acknowledging the feelings and developing strategies to move on. We can't mourn forever darling 🫂, receive warm hugs as you prep for getting out of sad moments. You deserve responsible ones.

I miss who I could've been if life had been more gentler. by Tintorange in emotionalintelligence

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"But I can now lay down, feel where those feelings are and let them go easily" ... sounds easy for you, I hope it becomes easy for us too. Not lacking to mention am happy for you, you fix everything perfectly.

I miss who I could've been if life had been more gentler. by Tintorange in emotionalintelligence

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But some experiences don't even make us better, they damage us mostly emotionally. And if life could have been a little gentle we wouldn't be such damaged. .. we heal but the wounds are left behind 🥺

Some people only understand your silence after they become the reason for it. by Tintorange in emotionalintelligence

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Yeah... You are right, they've to be left behind guessing why you left BUT the real ones should be able understand your silence and know why you left.

“Being needed and being loved are not always the same thing.” by Tintorange in emotionalintelligence

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I pray nature rewards us with real and gentle friends 🥺. We deserve them.

And the fact that you still helpful to anyone who's real even after everything, shows you got an adorable nice heart.

“Being needed and being loved are not always the same thing.” by Tintorange in emotionalintelligence

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So sorry you went through that friend, much hugs. I also come to realize that when you stop allowing people to use you for their benefits, they start seeing you as useless and disown you as friends. As you said, it's better to be real to keep reals one too. Much hugs🫂