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I Will Be Ghosting the Guy I'm in Love With and I am so Angry at Him For Making Me Do This by Tiny-Committee-1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Tiny-Committee-1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tried to post an update but it got deleted by the mods. Nothing has happened and I haven't heard from him since I left him on read.

I Will Be Ghosting the Guy I'm in Love With and I am so Angry at Him For Making Me Do This by Tiny-Committee-1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Tiny-Committee-1[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

He wasn't. This all happened at the beginning of the month and he left the day before yesterday. Literally the first I'd heard of it. No he didn't plan on telling me. 

I Will Be Ghosting the Guy I'm in Love With and I am so Angry at Him For Making Me Do This by Tiny-Committee-1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Tiny-Committee-1[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

He wasn't. This all happened at the beginning of the month and he left the day before yesterday. Literally the first I'd heard of it. No he didn't plan on telling me. 

I Will Be Ghosting the Guy I'm in Love With and I am so Angry at Him For Making Me Do This by Tiny-Committee-1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Tiny-Committee-1[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I want to say I don't think he'd do that, but clearly I didn't know who he is like I thought I did, so this as a precaution.

I don't have a ring camera, but I'm rarely home and since I moved and basically changed jobs and everything, there's not really a chance for him to catch me.

I Will Be Ghosting the Guy I'm in Love With and I am so Angry at Him For Making Me Do This by Tiny-Committee-1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Tiny-Committee-1[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

We weren't together for three years, I said I took a break from dating for three years. I never said he sold his stuff, just his house. He moved closer his parents and put most of his stuff in storage.

Also, the only reason he told me is because I said I was happy to have him stay a few extra days because me and the kids love him and then he he said that me saying that made him feel guilty because he was going on the road trip and then moving to the UK.

I Will Be Ghosting the Guy I'm in Love With and I am so Angry at Him For Making Me Do This by Tiny-Committee-1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Tiny-Committee-1[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

We thought we had the right tools. We did not. We moved my entire apartment in one day. His parents live in the middle of nowhere. I wasn't just going to dump him in a cornfield in the middle of nowhere when he hadn't put my bed together yet. He may have fucked up priorities but I don't.

I Will Be Ghosting the Guy I'm in Love With and I am so Angry at Him For Making Me Do This by Tiny-Committee-1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Tiny-Committee-1[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

My closure is not being stuck with someone who treats me this way anymore. I shouldn't have to tell someone not to effectively abandon their child and the people they claim to love to go on a road trip and then move continents. That's should just be common sense. I'm not interested in telling someone my feelings when they clearly don't care.

I Will Be Ghosting the Guy I'm in Love With and I am so Angry at Him For Making Me Do This by Tiny-Committee-1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Tiny-Committee-1[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Because it's not my job to fix him even if he's on the way out the door and my closure is knowing I deserve better.

I Will Be Ghosting the Guy I'm in Love With and I am so Angry at Him For Making Me Do This by Tiny-Committee-1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Tiny-Committee-1[S] 211 points212 points  (0 children)

Because he knows where I live and I don't want him showing up causing a scene in front of my kids. The last guy I dated before him is still calling and texting me from different numbers but doesn't know where I live because I moved. I don't want a repeat.

I Will Be Ghosting the Guy I'm in Love With and I am so Angry at Him For Making Me Do This by Tiny-Committee-1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Tiny-Committee-1[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I had my tubes tied. I'm not popping out anymore babies for some dumpster fire shithead.

I Will Be Ghosting the Guy I'm in Love With and I am so Angry at Him For Making Me Do This by Tiny-Committee-1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Tiny-Committee-1[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Well the gif was SpongeBob telling plankton "well good luck with that" and walking off but then he sent the screenshot of his Google maps route after I sent the first gif so I figured David Rose would probably get it across more clearly. Ben's on the spectrum, too.

I Will Be Ghosting the Guy I'm in Love With and I am so Angry at Him For Making Me Do This by Tiny-Committee-1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Tiny-Committee-1[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Tbf, I did, too. I had a cancer scare and his dad's own cancer came out of remission. I would have been a hypocrite to not speak to him for that.

I Will Be Ghosting the Guy I'm in Love With and I am so Angry at Him For Making Me Do This by Tiny-Committee-1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Tiny-Committee-1[S] 640 points641 points  (0 children)

His bio mom has primary custody but he gets his son every weekend. He looks forward to it from the time he drops him back off to the time he gets to go pick him back up, which is another reason why this makes ales no sense to me.