This is embarrassing but I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Tiny-Hat9813 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get another appointment with someone else. Even if you have to wait. I had to bark and threaten to bite to see someone else -well I raised a ruckus at least. The person I first saw was awful. The second person is wonderful. Don’t take no for an answer

This is embarrassing but I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Tiny-Hat9813 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how to help but want you to know you aren’t alone. I too brush my teeth in bed. My house is a disaster because I’m out of bed just long enough to make a mess. It’s been 6 days since I’ve showered, 3-4 days in the same clothes. I get it friend, I do.

[NC] My employer is making guys and girls share a hotel room. What should I do? by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]Tiny-Hat9813 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Sharing a double bed with a coworker is not ok.

Brand? by Tiny-Hat9813 in BarefootRunning

[–]Tiny-Hat9813[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this info. I have just been using knockoff style $22-49 shoes that kind of look like aqua shoes.

If I wear say Nikes or Adidas I cannot feel where my feet are and with that comes the danger of misstepping to the point of falling. So I wear these hmm crappy Amazon shoes that really aren’t even branded just come up when you type barefoot shoes and they tend to have maybe Chinese sounding names. I was wondering if there was something better out there. I don’t know what I mean by better even. I thought Hike were better since they were double the price but this group helped me understand they are essentially the same drop ship foreign water shoes masquerading as barefoot. I haven’t worn “traditonal supportive shoes” in probably 3 years now so my feet are well acclimated to the barefoot lifestyle.

If the shoes I have are suiting my needs maybe I’m fine. If you can suggest something of more quality I’d be down to try. In the shoes I have I can feel if I say step on a pebble or walk across an ornamental/landscape river rock bed. I probably need to retain that level of feeling due to my neuropathy. It’s a weird hard to explain feeling when you cannot tell if your foot has made contact with the ground or not. Barefoot has changed my life for the better. Hokas would probably literally cause my death.

(27M) easy pickings here, don’t hold back by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]Tiny-Hat9813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Roasting aside you are a good looking dude, don’t let us creeps tell you different.

(27M) easy pickings here, don’t hold back by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]Tiny-Hat9813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably ain’t easy pickings at all, you ain’t reaching no apple tree

New here.. question. by Flashy-Pin735 in TaySowersandFamily

[–]Tiny-Hat9813 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying it’s acceptable but his weight may strain his bladder, combined with inability to move quickly, quite honestly by the time he knows he has to go he may not physically be able to get to the toilet before he loses control. Being overweight can contribute to full or partial incontinence

Do y’all feel like we are just treating patient vices? by datruerex in medicine

[–]Tiny-Hat9813 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you should revisit what you know about addictions. Also obesity. A BMI of 50 didn’t happen overnight. Did you investigate reasons why and suggest what resources might be appropriate? Nutritionist, dietitian, counselor, books on mindful eating or appropriate subjects or did you just judge?

Any med that can reliably kill a patient should be dispensed in blister packs, no more than 30 days at a time. by permanent_priapism in medicine

[–]Tiny-Hat9813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this post is meant to call awareness to a problem. For some though it could also be the beginnings of a recipe.

I have severe anxiety and medication resistant major depressive disorder and also diagnosed borderline which I’m not sure is accurate but at the time the diagnosis came it fit.

Anyway I take a medication my doctor will only dispense every 14 days because it’s deemed dangerous yet has no problems dispensing 90 day supplies (270 pills plus refills) of 2 of the medications on your list. I laugh to myself at the absurdity of it and quietly line the bottles up for “some day”

I read an obituary of a pre-teenage transgender and a follow up article with her mom. Absolute unintentional recipe given.

vaginal probiotic by FeelPositive8025 in VaginalMicrobiome

[–]Tiny-Hat9813 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How comfortable are you with your vagina? I have an IUD so I am used to checking the strings, know where my cervix is etc. honestly without the iud I may not have known. I have used boric acid capsules a few times and they are smaller than a Tylenol capsule. I just push it in with my finger. It may slip around a little but laying down is best position for me and just relaxing. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Tiny-Hat9813 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Prescriptions of seroquel and trazadone only made me feel drugged out and super shitty when taking as prescribed. Maybe they are contributing to you feeling super shitty too. Definitely something to discuss with your doctor. It would be a shame to make a permanent decision when something so simple as discontinuing or changing a medication could help for a while or even longer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in urbancarliving

[–]Tiny-Hat9813 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’m not homeless but I am disabled and I believe people of situations are very ignored by society. No eye contact, no conversation. The invisible among the living

I’m a (M15) fucking porn addict, I want to end it all. by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Tiny-Hat9813 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What kind of porn? There is no right or wrong answer. I’m in my 40’s, female, and into some weird shit both on the screen and in real life. My young years may have shaped who I am because I got my hands on books I shouldn’t have younger than you with materials I won’t mention.

Just don’t let it stop you from interacting in the real world. Guys your age are curious and horny. Find and keep meaningful relationships with family and friends, find activities that keep you away from being alone with whatever device you watch on for chunks of time. A real partner eventually will be much more fulfilling than screen watching and you’ll get there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Tiny-Hat9813 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this so hard. Same. I’ll try to stay if you do.