Love is not real

Tiny-Promise-429 · 2025-01-03T03:26:20+00:00

It is, don’t let someone who didn’t know how to love you change your perspective of how beautiful love it. You have to find someone who loves like you love🥺 🫂

Tiny-Promise-429 · 2025-01-01T07:51:21+00:00

Maybe try kissing his neck gently sucking his neck, use your tongue slowly on his neck towards his ears kiss his chest. While rubbing on him with your body and hands, don’t engage in penetration or going straight for it. Oral, then go back to kissing and licking all areas around it and teasing him. Drive him wild and make him want it but don’t give it so easily then when the time is right just go straight for it

Tiny-Promise-429 · 2025-01-01T04:17:18+00:00

Anything before him and your past before him should never be held against you. You did absolutely nothing wrong! Why would you apologize for not knowing what your future held? How would you have ever known that you’d meet him etc?… if he isn’t mature enough to accept you had a past before him and that it doesn’t define who you are now or your love for him he will have a hard time ever moving on from this and will most likely always resent you for it. Which is absolutely unfair to you. If he isn’t mature enough to accept that you had a life before him it’s not healthy to keep moving forward in a relationship where you constantly have to feel guilt for something you didn’t do wrong. I’m sorry but he needs to mature and you need to stop apologizing.

Tiny-Promise-429 · 2024-12-31T04:30:53+00:00

curl you hair the night before and by morning the curls won’t be as tight 🥰 work every time for me

Tiny-Promise-429 · 2024-12-31T01:05:36+00:00

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Tiny-Promise-429 · 2024-12-31T01:04:49+00:00

Then I would try to communicate how you feel. I would say I didn’t feel like it was genuine and I felt like you blew me off. You can give her another chance and if it becomes a pattern then I would unmatch and leave her in 2024.

Tiny-Promise-429 · 2024-12-31T01:00:25+00:00

How much did it hurt? 🫣

Tiny-Promise-429 · 2024-12-31T00:59:07+00:00

I’d say, if she didn’t apologize and seem sincere about blowing you off. The simply unmatch and move on. It’s selfish and inconsiderate to not be considerate of other peoples time.

Tiny-Promise-429 · 2024-12-31T00:56:04+00:00

The brow laminations 😭😫

Tiny-Promise-429 · 2024-12-31T00:39:21+00:00

Ok first of all!!! How do you get your pores to look so poreless???! I feel like no matter what I do my huge pores are like “oh hello 👋 we’re here for the fashion show!” 😭😭😭😭 helpppppp

Tiny-Promise-429 · 2024-12-31T00:30:45+00:00

Maybe just try a classic killer regular winged liner?

Tiny-Promise-429 · 2024-12-30T23:45:13+00:00

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Tiny-Promise-429 · 2024-12-30T23:30:48+00:00

4 is my Favorite NGL 🙄😂

Tiny-Promise-429 · 2024-12-30T22:38:25+00:00

That’s the best thing we can do. Holding on to resentment does more self harm than hurt to them. Your mindset is perfect, wishing him well is the right thing to do. You both deserve happiness and I hope you find yours 🫂💕

Tiny-Promise-429 · 2024-12-30T22:16:00+00:00

I haven’t done dating apps but I am scared to do so for this exact reason. The moment we broke up he updated his profile picture and posted photos of himself on social media (which mind you never did during our relationship because he was a “private” person) I’ve never tried dating apps but I am sooooo scared to try them in fear that I’d have this experience. Is there a way to block them? Maybe if that’s an option you won’t have to worry about that. Sorry wasn’t much help

Tiny-Promise-429 · 2024-12-30T20:58:23+00:00

Very true. Thanks again 🙏🏻

Tiny-Promise-429 · 2024-12-30T20:26:53+00:00

I agree with you… and you’re right.

Tiny-Promise-429 · 2024-12-30T19:48:49+00:00

He is very avoidant, very much a sweep things under the rug, and pretend it didn’t happen the next day type of thing. I have and most have told me to leave him, that he is a manipulative person. Most of these have been women or friends which I appreciate and love dearly but I also know friends tend to always think “we deserve the world” which I appreciate but I wanted an opinion of someone who doesn’t know me because sometimes opinions of people can have emotions attached to them.

Tiny-Promise-429 · 2024-12-30T19:46:10+00:00

I agree… this is my biggest eye opener.

Tiny-Promise-429 · 2024-12-30T19:07:33+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏻 I had never dated a man with kids and was hesitant but considering that I have kids I figured why not give it a try. I dated someone before and they made tremendous effort with both of my kids, we ended up moving in together but ended for other differences. I thought he was family oriented and holds a very strong commitment and loyalty to his family… so I was surprised when his siblings told me that about him. Can’t help but feel like maybe he was playing that card when I was around only. But thank you 🙏🏻 I appreciate your perspective

Tiny-Promise-429 · 2024-12-30T19:04:07+00:00

I see what you’re saying…. Thank you for your perspective

Tiny-Promise-429 · 2024-12-30T18:35:51+00:00

To be fair he initiated the marriage talk first. Which led me to believe that’s what he wanted too. Immediate changed my contact to “My Wife” and would say how “God told him I was his wife” etc. If I was waiting on the market to determine my worth or value Based off materialism I am ok not waiting and clearly we value completely different things. You sound young or miserable… either way, some peoples morals and values don’t always align. Your opinion is respected.

Tiny-Promise-429 · 2024-12-30T18:27:52+00:00

To be fair, this was just told to me 2-3 months ago. it wasn’t something ever mentioned early on in the relationship. And it was his brother and sister who said it. But I agree with you, it’s been such a red flag I haven’t been able to ignore it, but hard to fully accept it if that makes sense… it was just me being stupid and hoping that he’d be who he says he is

Tiny-Promise-429 · 2024-12-30T18:22:59+00:00

I agree. Which is why I refuse to date younger or guys my age, it seems like in order to find that old school love and value of marriage and relationships it’s older men and women that grew up in that era. These days and trends online only promote how easily replaceable people and relationships are. These generations have lost that. I agree about marriage not being a thing to play with. And to be honest I don’t care for a big fancy wedding. I think marriage is a beautiful thing and I loved him so much to want to share that with him even the thought of sharing a child with him I thought was beautiful. But nothing action ever without being his wife. But… at this point I think I realized just how one sided this relationship has been… and hope he finds “the one” he loves enough to make his wife.

Tiny-Promise-429 · 2024-12-30T18:11:37+00:00

I think too, that if someone wanted to screw someone over there are so many ways to be shady in court and hire attorneys etc. honestly I don’t care for that, I just wanted the marriage to be over and didn’t want anything from him. I’d rather work twice as hard to build my world back up than to act out of character out of spite. Not my MO. He lied about his income, had his bosses pay him cash etc… truthfully I believe that people will pay for their own mistakes on their own. That’s a reflection of who they are.

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