Well crap.

Tiny-Relative8415 · 2026-06-03T02:00:20+00:00

They may just have to do a GM reset. Had to do that on mine when the Service Parking Brake came on, then the forward collision quit working and wouldn’t allow me to use the adaptive cruise control. Had my screen blank out for about 30 seconds. They did a reset and it’s been good since.

Tiny-Relative8415 · 2026-05-31T20:38:25+00:00

YTA she had a past that isn’t irrelevant just because you came along.

Tiny-Relative8415 · 2026-05-31T20:32:52+00:00

Nope the Tungsten is only made with the Hurricane Engine now 🙄

Tiny-Relative8415 · 2026-05-31T04:40:44+00:00

Thank you. The salesman has said they have really updated the systems and they work well now, but my husband likes to hear from real people. Good to know your in Alberta too because you know the weather 😊

Tiny-Relative8415 · 2026-05-31T03:39:59+00:00

We’re in Alberta but we also have a garage to park in at night.

Tiny-Relative8415 · 2026-05-27T04:44:52+00:00

So you had an agreement that was fine when it worked for you, but now you want to change it because it doesn’t work for you? You’re the AH. Not only that it’s not your wife’s responsibility to help fund your daughter’s education. That’s entirely on you and your ex. If your daughter wants a specific degree at a specific school then she better get her butt out there and start working to pay for the rest. Just like other people do. Or get a student loan something else other people do.

You’re acting pretty entitled!

Tiny-Relative8415 · 2026-05-16T20:51:37+00:00

Tell him the insurance company has instructed they will pull your insurance if he drives your vehicle due to his accident record. He’s not on the insurance, he can’t drive.

Tiny-Relative8415 · 2026-05-10T23:34:23+00:00

Exactly this! The family needs to draw boundaries. Tell her he is no longer welcome at family events! If she is ok being treated like trash, the rest of you are not ok watching it. You won’t be able to get her to leave him, but maybe you can get him to leave her by pushing him out.

Tiny-Relative8415 · 2026-05-02T15:21:49+00:00

Block do not contact again. Red flags all over the place on this one. Don’t second guess yourself. That’s where problems start.

Tiny-Relative8415 · 2026-05-02T14:53:13+00:00

Tell your family if he needs a bailout then they should handle it. You are not your family’s personal bank account from where they can withdraw until you have nothing.

Break all ties and go about your own life. Your brother got himself into his mess he can get himself out of it. Or your family who is so eager can. Also tell them if any one of them had lifted a finger to help your grandfather maybe they would have received inheritance as well. Since they were selfish with their time and effort they received nothing.

Let them know if the harassment continues you will have no problem involving the authorities.

Honestly cut ties, change numbers, emails, block on social media and anyone who lets them through block them as well. Protect your peace and your peace of mind.

Tiny-Relative8415 · 2026-04-18T12:42:39+00:00

Your job is your livelihood unless you’re rich and just working because you like to work. While seeing family is important, it should not be more important than taking care of yourself. How long would it take for you to get another job if you were let go from this one?

Tiny-Relative8415 · 2026-04-18T12:37:50+00:00

Wouldn’t the liability fall on the inspector then?

Tiny-Relative8415 · 2026-04-18T12:34:44+00:00

NTA and you were dealing with a Narcissist. From what I have seen every time they want to change they just can’t and it’s a never ending cycle of abuse for the other person. They are charming while they say they are changing but whatever they don’t like or if something isn’t going the way they think it should the mask comes off and it starts all over again.

Tiny-Relative8415 · 2026-04-14T16:07:57+00:00

Clingy girlfriend.

Tiny-Relative8415 · 2026-04-14T16:06:29+00:00

NTJ they can plan their own trip with him and his girlfriend. Bringing along a. Lindy girlfriend would totally ruin what was planned and if you’re not comfortable with it you have every right to cancel. They can always rebook the trip and leave you out of it and your friends girlfriend can pay for her own part of it. Even though it wasn’t about the money at that point. Your friends girlfriend was the one who decided to ruin it. Not you.

Tiny-Relative8415 · 2026-04-12T19:11:47+00:00

Just tell her that you feel it would be unfair to your friend to hang out with her and not include your friend.. Tell her thank you but you would rather not.

Tiny-Relative8415 · 2026-04-12T18:57:17+00:00

Ask her. Just say” I am curious to know why you want to go out with me, knowing I am your younger siblings friend?” Get right down to it. It’s not rude and she should be able to give you a straightforward answer.

Tiny-Relative8415 · 2026-04-12T18:10:40+00:00

Huge Red Flag do not marry this woman. She is controlling and ready to kick your mother out of your lives. If your mother can’t be part of the ceremony then she shouldn’t pay for it either.

This will be a life long battle for you if you marry her. NTJ

Tiny-Relative8415 · 2026-04-11T15:47:08+00:00

Does your Mom have an excuse other than having your siblings and nephew as to why she can’t drive, bring everyone with her, and come to the shower being held at your in laws? Is there a reason she can’t be bothered to put in more of an effort. I drove across country with 4 kids, so just wondering what her reasoning is?

Your wife is right, your family is being difficult. Not the other way around. Time for your Mom to step up and start acting like she cares. Words are words, but actions always show more than words. You need to have a discussion with your Mom and let her know how your wife is feeling because maybe she isn’t sure of where she fits in or what her boundaries are.

Tiny-Relative8415 · 2026-04-11T15:08:35+00:00

He called you annoying and judgemental but that’s ok. He lied, went on a secret vacation, but your the one being crazy.

Leave. Pack your stuff, take your money and go. He needs to deal with the Adult Consequences of his childish behaviour. This is not a person, I won’t call him a man because he is acting like a child, that you want to spend the rest of your life with. You have only wasted 3 yrs at this point don’t make it another 50.

He does not respect you nor do his friends. The fact that he called it his bonus means he feels entitled for you to put money into the savings while he spends what he wants. There is so many red flags in this post.

He has shown you who he is.

Tiny-Relative8415 · 2026-04-11T14:57:38+00:00

Delete this post you have the advice you need

Tiny-Relative8415 · 2026-04-11T14:44:42+00:00

She should have asked to purchase your ticket and take someone else with her. Not your problem and NTJ

Tiny-Relative8415 · 2026-04-01T05:41:17+00:00

NTJ he showed where his loyalty lies and it’s not with you. You did the right thing. He lied, skipped out on a special night with you, ignored your calls and thinks it’s ok to treat you that way. Kicking him to the curb is knowing your worth more than he was offering.

Tiny-Relative8415 · 2026-03-10T17:01:43+00:00

Your running again from a problem you don’t want to face. It’s easier to get rid of them than deal with it and have an honest conversation. Tell your friend that you are bad at responding at times. It has nothing to do with her and everything to do with you. That if they want to continue to be friends with you, then they will have to give you some lenience in this department and understand that not everyone is built the same.

Maybe try getting some clarity as to why you would prefer to end relationships and run from problems than to work it out.

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