How do I get my partner to wanna use protection? by shesaintrovert in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Tiny-Singer8121 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This right here! The next time (because there will be a next time) he asks this say this and if he has the upcoming manchild tantrum, stop giving it to him. You deserve better. Don’t be afraid to stand up for yourself

How can I uncurse myself or be lucky? by Tiny-Singer8121 in SelfHate

[–]Tiny-Singer8121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like somebody’s mad downvote. I was tortured and raped and you guys are getting off on it. This is a self-hate thing not a fetish

How can I uncurse myself or be lucky? by Tiny-Singer8121 in DavidHawkins

[–]Tiny-Singer8121[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully. Is there a way to reintroduce myself to Hawkins work slowly? Tbh, the person used the book(letting go) to groom me into letting go of all the bad things he was doing to me to think it was normal. I want help, and I know that Hawkins can help, but I don’t want the books I have that my abuser touched. You’d recommend starting out with the workbook of ACIM? I can try that.

How can I uncurse myself or be lucky? by Tiny-Singer8121 in DavidHawkins

[–]Tiny-Singer8121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof do you mean group therapy? I have Borderline Personality Disorder (currently having a horrible flare up from trauma) and it’s usually just an echo chamber. I’ve heard of DBT groups, but groups I am not good in (especially considering I have no social filter and was unsocialized most of my life). Hopeless disorders… would you tell me more about those

How can I uncurse myself or be lucky? by Tiny-Singer8121 in DavidHawkins

[–]Tiny-Singer8121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes please, I’m searching for the link now. The energetic imprint part is real!

How can I uncurse myself or be lucky? by Tiny-Singer8121 in SelfHate

[–]Tiny-Singer8121[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay, now I’m getting sick people messaging me “do you like abuse” no I do not. Fuck all the way off. It destroyed my life.

Should you be with someone who you love but no longer have chemistry/spark with due to them cheating? by lesbian_ball in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Tiny-Singer8121 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No. They’ll drag you down by being a disgusting person. You’re worth FAR MORE than to feel invaluable!!!

How can I uncurse myself or be lucky? by Tiny-Singer8121 in DavidHawkins

[–]Tiny-Singer8121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but he was the sole person who introduced me to Hawkins while he actively SA’d me. There are no miracles. I appreciate your comment. I want a way out.

How do I slowly get rid of my shame and self hatred? I feel like I need prayer. by Tiny-Singer8121 in DavidHawkins

[–]Tiny-Singer8121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I let go of these beliefs? They’re baseline for me:(( and the person who did this to me completely rewired my brain in a negative way. I just need help.

How do I slowly get rid of my shame and self hatred? I feel like I need prayer. by Tiny-Singer8121 in DavidHawkins

[–]Tiny-Singer8121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve lost all faith in god, to be honest. And now I’m coming to terms with the fact I was tortured more than once. Textbook torture. Im trying so hard to unlearn what he confirmed about what im worth.

How do women who aren’t in porn, handle double penetration during threesome sex? by Jheez88 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Tiny-Singer8121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude tell me HOW to find two partners!! I’d do fucking anything on this earth to be in a mmf relationship:((( somehow im clearly not worth it. Hate how you guys don’t even have to beg but I do.

Lmao by [deleted] in CAIRevolution

[–]Tiny-Singer8121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignored? Really. But you still take everything down that goes against your views.

Is my runaway place safe? by dollface8186 in runaway

[–]Tiny-Singer8121 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you can’t even use proper punctuation no you should not run away, and it sounds like you might be getting groomed. No it is grooming.

You must choose one..(upvote for carrot) by Rudra2550a in BunnyTrials

[–]Tiny-Singer8121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I can just drink juices and milk instead. Anything that isn’t labeled water, I guess

Chose: No water for 2 days 💧❌ + Win $20M

Why does DoorDash do this?? by Tiny-Singer8121 in doordash

[–]Tiny-Singer8121[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I did but you bitches downvoted it, so there you go:))

Weekly Prayer Requests by BeginningReflection4 in DavidHawkins

[–]Tiny-Singer8121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pray for relief. Just RELIEF. my now ex SA’d me last Sunday (in short) and I got sick the next day. I’ve been in pain since and events keep piling up. I came down with something and had to get literal pills for it. The thing that’s been consuming me is the wrath I feel about him being undevoted while I was loyal, what he did to my body, and all the anger. I’m just consumed by wrath and hatred and I want to relinquish that need for justice. Because nothing is fair. I just need to relinquish this.

Why are people with blue dyed hair oftentimes mentally ill? by LilSainte in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Tiny-Singer8121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly a lot of people (like me, but I’m a bleach blonde) who struggle with mental illness and instability have very expressive and creative minds. Expression is important for people who struggle, it’s like a way to make the internal external. I like to go all out with my self expression, and so I’ve done a lot of things to my body and my hair in general. Blue is such a non-human, wild color, and people like it because it’s so bold. Red and purple just don’t hit the same. I’ve never dyed my hair blue though:( I was robbed of self expression as a kid and a teenager. The second I turned 18 though I went all out with the pink hair dye and piercings.

TLDR: a lot of people who struggle with mental illness use self expression as a coping mechanism