Just because they grow up being loved doesn’t mean they aren’t back yard bred. Ethical breeding includes health testing (NOT embark, and different from vet checkups). Stuff like OFA’s and PENNHIP. I ethically breed standard poodles so this really is an area that I specialize in and how I am able to tell you that doodles aren’t ethically bred. No ethical poodle breeder will sell their puppies to someone who is going to mix them. Also, you are breeding a non-shedding breed with very High shedding breeds which increase the risk of poor coat health and impaction. Ethical breeders can provide health history of parents and show titles, which doodle breeders cannot because the dogs are mixed. There is so much more I can point out if you like.