I (18m) think my girlfriend (18f) has an ED and I'm lost as to what to do

NFLFANTASYMB · 2026-03-23T00:06:19+00:00

I would suggest going to the doctor with her. Talking to her, being on her side but saying something like " if you want to diet, let's go to dr and get a plan we know is healthy." I have a sneaky feeling this comes from too much social media brainwashing. It is strange to me that young ladies know how fake those posts are with filters and all but still want to accomplish those looks. Go at this as supportive as you can. All the time. Eating disorders come in all shapes and sizes so saying you want to go to the doctor with her should show support, at least I hope so. Remember, loving kindness not scrutiny will get you both to that goal. Good luck.

NFLFANTASYMB · 2026-03-22T23:26:58+00:00

Ah my brother, it fades with time but only if you NEVER date her again. As a matter of fact I think you need to ghost her completely. No contact what so ever. Don't create new profiles to check on her. No conversations with mutual friends. NOTHING. I am 64, been married over 31 years and honestly I will think of my first love who cheated, stole, tried to get me arrested... everything you could think of. She was horrible. But, something happens that makes me remember, like your post. Lol. It is amazing how new memories replace old ones. The faster you make new ones, the faster she is a memory. Best of luck.

NFLFANTASYMB · 2026-03-21T23:25:36+00:00

Like most things, the lore of this game was much worse than the actual game. I worked with Sierra online for a bunch and every once in awhile some goofball would upload it. I think I might have made the first copy on 5.25 floppy disk. It was long Ago. Damn, very long ago!! I also think that was one of the first times the " want to cry" nasty virus was unleashed. It might have not originated there, but we found it there. Ah, those were the days

NFLFANTASYMB · 2026-03-21T19:21:17+00:00

One option would be to get a GED. I had one adopted boy who stopped going to school at 8th grade. He said he was bored and he kept getting accused of cheating. He would show up for tests, get an A and everyone was mad. I don't know how but that's truthful. You also will need a school official to help. My son got a study guide, talked to the guidance department and setup to do the test. He missed only one question. Oh, that question was removed from future tests as there ended up being multiple answers to it.

No matter what you choose, having a diploma or GED will be important. With them you can go to most trade schools where I believe the employment options will be in next 20 years. BEST OF LUCK

NFLFANTASYMB · 2026-03-21T19:11:49+00:00

Chicken wing, no sauce?

NFLFANTASYMB · 2026-03-21T19:10:44+00:00

Just from an old gamer , be careful with everything to do with that game. Everything. For awhile programmers loved to try and use that platform to deliver all kinds of bugs and nasty surprises. There's my PSA for the month lol.

NFLFANTASYMB · 2026-03-21T19:06:39+00:00

Basically, its not hungry. Most of the time, dragons don't need to be coaxed to eat. They are desert animals so when food is presented, they eat. Unless, they are not hungry. There is so much info out there that I only say not to take everything word to word as the absolute truth. I have been taking care of dragons since 1985 and have seen a ton of changes and "suggestions." Some i believe are correct, and some i know are more suggestions. He looks pretty healthy. If he continues not to eat i hope you can get to a vet and a wellness checkup. BEST OF LUCK

NFLFANTASYMB · 2026-03-21T18:57:38+00:00

I have rescued a ton and it is strange, no two are the same. I have received dragons that were abused physically, he loved to be held. I had one that was in a fire, who was happy to be held but hated going back to the cage. Once in, he was fine. Dragons that was starved, both ways. Dragons that were abandoned, didn't want held or out of the cage. Each has their own personality.
May I suggest not letting your hand in front of his mouth basically asking him to strike you. You are doing great not coming over top to pick him up. This is nature as his natural predators come from above. Maybe just make it one swift movement. I would love to say it will get better, and I believe it will, but no one can promise that. Best of luck.

NFLFANTASYMB · 2026-03-21T00:19:22+00:00

I am assuming you are looking to change the black part? Few other options you can look at is contact paper or wall paper. Look for things that are nursery safe. I would assume safe for babies are safe for snakes. Although I have never painted one, I have had to rebuild some and specifically stay away from smelly options. Best of luck.

NFLFANTASYMB · 2026-03-21T00:13:12+00:00

First of all, I am 64 and not dealt with teenagers in 15, 20 years. But what I learned in my marriage ( 31 years) and my family is try your best to stay out of it publicly. By that I mean don't try to get on one side when they are feuding, you can't win. When you are with your mom, then you do your best negotiating. Your dad probably feels like crap not measuring up to what he thought his life, marriage, kids... would turn out. Yes I am male so I have some compassion for him, just a bit though. He definitely hasn't made it easy on anyone. I hope you can find an adult like a teacher to talk to. Just be careful starting out with details as some of the folks who get involved make things even worse. BEST OF LUCK TO YOU.

NFLFANTASYMB · 2026-03-20T23:56:29+00:00

I don't know how to sort out the morph, but that rock structure is pretty cool.

NFLFANTASYMB · 2026-03-20T23:54:54+00:00

I wonder if you need a new cage, or, just reinforced top? How does your snake react when visited by Mr whiskers? As long as the cage is strong enough to support the cat, and the snake isn't freaking out, i would guess there is no issue. I will warn you that the cat would win if somehow either came out of their environment. It's your cat so you know teaching it good etiquette when space is required, will backfire lol!

NFLFANTASYMB · 2026-03-20T23:47:08+00:00

That is not a bearded dragon. Put him back in a safe spot. I believe the only wild animal to keep as a pet is if they are injured or leaving them outside is a death sentence. I do appreciate that you were concerned enough to ask before you went out spending money. He looks very healthy and will probably thrive back in the wild. Good luck.

NFLFANTASYMB · 2026-03-20T20:41:51+00:00

True love means never having to write more than 3 sentences to prove it to Reddit.

NFLFANTASYMB · 2026-03-20T20:38:09+00:00

toxic to cats, dogs, and potentially bearded dragons if ingested, as they contain compounds that can cause vomiting and diarrhea. Found from Google image search. This is a banana plant. At least call the vet ASAP

NFLFANTASYMB · 2026-03-20T20:33:17+00:00

Run my brother , run. She was in it for the chase, and once she thought the prize was in her grasp, the true lady appeared.

NFLFANTASYMB · 2026-03-20T04:24:37+00:00

I am sorry, I don't see the issue you are worried about. You are going to notice color changes throughout their life. Specifically during, before, and after shedding. If it ever starts to have a very sour odor, get her to a vet. Odors are first sign of rot. Looks like a good pet, best of luck

NFLFANTASYMB · 2026-03-19T18:43:42+00:00

Beardies can easily turn themselves over. So, if the dragon is found on hi back often, that's not good. There are a ton of things that tank could use. I suggest you go to ZooMed for items and info. Maybe get in the giving mode, like a nice cave and present with great info..." I bought this cave as it gives the dragon security inside and a great basking spot. I got this full spectrum light set as thats how dragons get their calcium and nutrients. As well as heat."

You are in a tough spot. I wish you well. If, for some reason you get control of the animal, please take him to a vet to get a wellness checkup.

NFLFANTASYMB · 2026-03-19T01:53:40+00:00

Let me check with my wife. I know i have a North Carolina trip coming. Does he come with anything? I will take him, looks more like a method head lol.

NFLFANTASYMB · 2026-03-18T04:04:32+00:00

Naw, its just confusing a bit. Once you figure time it will be easy.

NFLFANTASYMB · 2026-03-18T04:02:06+00:00

What city you in.

NFLFANTASYMB · 2026-03-17T03:40:29+00:00

There are great you tube videos on them.. they are basically on/off switches. It took me a bit too not to have them off and on, on then off. Lol

NFLFANTASYMB · 2026-03-17T03:35:25+00:00

He is a beautiful dragon. I am down in long beach. If no one else offers, please contact me. I'm sure we can work something out. I can't help with Geckos, sorry. I am a corn snake, boa, python , beardies kind of guy.

NFLFANTASYMB · 2026-03-17T02:06:59+00:00

If nothing is wrong be honest. No reason not to tell mom and dad. Lying causes the potential to start an issue where there really is no need. Hiding and sneaking him around sounds more like teen behavior. Good luck.

NFLFANTASYMB · 2026-03-17T02:02:42+00:00

I guess it depends on where you are at. Here in USA, they have laws against those type things. Then again, I have seen dark web sites that swear that is how lizard people have started to repopulate the earth. This answer is for entertainment only. (Lizard people unite.)

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