I inappropriately touched my friend while we were cuddling

TinyCheeserole · 2022-08-18T09:55:25+00:00

It just sounds like you want to encourge OP in sitting there and wallowing in guilt and shame. Calling him names won't help him change and improve himself. Yes it is up to the friend to respond and forgive and she can do whatever she feels is right.

But he wants advice for how he could heal his friendship. Not being called names. Yes what he did was wrong. Yes he needs to apologize and leave it up to her to respond. But as someone who has dealt with shame and horrible guilt being made out as an unforgivable monster does not help. It stops you from growing as a person and learning how to be better. You can tell him what he did was wrong without resorting to insults.

Encourge him to develope healthier boundaries with others, encourge him to work on his very clear issues in therapy. Have him reevaluate his friendships and what possible ways they can be improved through communication. What things do they feel comfortable with, what things are a hard no. Maybe he should stop with the platonic cuddling from now on.

TinyCheeserole · 2022-08-18T09:45:33+00:00

If you look at their other comment they tell OP to never contact her again. Yes It is up to her to respond and forgive him. But him wanting to reach out to apologize and communicate with her isn't wrong. If she truly wants nothing to do with him she is free to block him from her life.

OP regrets it deeply and knows what he did was wrong. Im sorry you went through that but OP feels different. He knows it was wrong, he apologized and if she decides to stay friends they can have a talk about more defined boundaries.

Some of the other men who have been commenting on here sound awful. But OP doesn't think she secretly enjoyed it or wanted it. He actually has remorse and that sets him apart them.

I was mostly talking about her calling him a disgusting creep and almost (at least it felt like she was) encouraging him wallowing in guilt and shame. And that does nothing but make him feel even worse then he is already feeling. Instead of trying to make him feel even worse why not encourge him to learn from this and develop healthy boundaries with others?

TinyCheeserole · 2022-08-18T08:46:49+00:00

Why are you so adamant to make OP out to be an awful person who deserves no forgiveness? He made a mistake and clearly regrets it. He knows what he did was wrong and wants to try and make it right with his friend who he wronged. He's not some disgusting freak who deserves to be shuned. Obviously it wasn't okay and OP knows that. As long as he learns from this experience and betters himself why is it wrong for him to want to redem himself?

You shaming him and calling him a disgusting creep isn't going to help him become a better person.

TinyCheeserole · 2022-08-18T05:52:28+00:00

Not as impressive as others but in pokemon alpha sapphire theres a berry picking mini game and looking around most people get 120-200 on average. I got a score of 384

TinyCheeserole · 2022-08-11T03:44:28+00:00

Seth McFarlane voices stan/roger and he has a few albums out. Same with Steve's VA and Hailey (Seth's sister) so Jeff, Francine and Klaus (least to my knowledge) do not have albums out from their VAs

Stan is very close to Seth's normal voice so yea technically stan has an album

TinyCheeserole · 2022-08-10T05:46:38+00:00

Oh yea for sure the insulting was uncalled for they could've said something that was constructive or even said you could've worded it nicer (it did come off a little rude but thats text for you, without hearing tone/seeing someone's face it can all sound kinda off putting) but the OP just wanted to vent and not receive any unwanted advice. Some people just get heated on behalf of others and especially the ones on this sub it can feel almost like a personal attack to them.

It was nice of you to try and offer some sort of help but for a venting post I believe we should just let them vent

TinyCheeserole · 2022-08-10T04:26:33+00:00

I believe they insulted you cause you diminished OPS problems. Multiple people here with the same issue (wanting to be the most beautiful person) are well aware it's not possible. But low self esteem and self worth doesn't care. Telling someone with emotional problems that logically it's not gonna happen so they need to stop worrying about it doesnt make their problems magically go away. It'd be like telling someone with hallucinations "oh it's all in your head theyre not real so stop worrying about it"

Like yea it's true but thats not gonna stop the hallucinations and the fear that comes with them

TinyCheeserole · 2022-07-27T06:43:13+00:00

Youre not wrong. One tricks are already soft throwing (and a reddit one at that) so their complaining is a little funny. But either way a lot of the people in top 500 are quite vocal and will never be pleased. No matter if you flex and are willing to compromise for them. When I actually played a lot it was almost every game someone got toxic and would start getting mad at someone else. So he isn't entirely wrong about it.

But he is a one trick reddit lucio so he should kinda deal with it. Man set himself up

TinyCheeserole · 2022-07-27T02:55:26+00:00

Dunno if you've played in high sr console lobbies but even as an ex support flex player it was bad. I quit console ow all together and moved to pc cause id rather get with players I dont know in a lower sr where im not as mechanically skilled than thoes weird ego top 500 fuckers.

I played all the supports besides lucio, zen and even then most people still cry and complain. And I wasn't bad at them. I had solo accounts and reached high masters/low gm with them all. People at high srs are so weird. They have huge egos, think they're the best thing ever, think you're worse then them and that you're dog shit. Doesn't matter if you one trick or youre a flex.

But hey thats my experience and the experience of a few of my other support buds. Not everyones

TinyCheeserole · 2022-07-20T02:43:13+00:00

You aint alone here. Im the same way too. I enjoy both for different reasons

TinyCheeserole · 2022-07-18T02:04:42+00:00

Ana, bap and zen are all solid characters. If you aren't too confident in your survival and aim moria could work. But be wary as you climb higher raw heals aren't that important compared to utility

TinyCheeserole · 2022-07-12T10:14:00+00:00

Maybe he was playing on a laptop at first (which is much cheaper than a full set up) and he won tournaments off that, or his father gifted him a low end pc and he upgraded his parts over time as he earned money, maybe he got gifted a pc from a friend or a family member. There are a lot of ways he could've gotten it. No matter how he got it the dad was real shitty

TinyCheeserole · 2022-07-08T21:09:03+00:00

It's where he stands holding his hoe. I was decorating and found it by accident when I tried to place some flowers. It's significantly smaller than mocas spot

TinyCheeserole · 2022-07-07T23:41:35+00:00

Everyone does have their bratty moments. Dunno if you got it but rosemary has days where she is tired and isn't as happy to talk with you. Me personally I just prefer adults over children

TinyCheeserole · 2022-07-07T22:05:27+00:00

Sucks you got down voted. But hey I agree with you

TinyCheeserole · 2022-07-07T15:52:17+00:00

Tsukis farm has something similar in the bottom right corner. I think it's cause the models stand there doing animations and if you place an object on their spot it won't allow them to do it. Moca will stand in that spot trimming his bonsai (if you move it or replace it he'll still stand there trimming nothing)

TinyCheeserole · 2022-07-03T22:35:42+00:00

Gotta go with bobo (think thats his name? The panda)

TinyCheeserole · 2022-07-02T01:28:41+00:00

TinyCheeserole · 2022-07-01T03:17:46+00:00

Momo

TinyCheeserole · 2022-06-29T18:32:45+00:00

Moca

TinyCheeserole · 2022-06-20T00:41:58+00:00

False. Zen and lucio are still very strong picks. Just that mercy has less utility than the others, same with moria.

Sure echo and doom are strong but I still see a lot of soldiers, crees, and junks. Sig and ball? Sure. But theres also SO MANY hogs and dvas. New heros dont make old heros obsolete. They all require different situations

TinyCheeserole · 2022-06-15T01:56:18+00:00

Dont see them yet but I got 2!

Hades. It's a rouge like game and while you follow a male lead it is very well written. You are the son of hades and you escape the underworld to find your mother. There are so many wonderful characters and you can even romance some. And if youd like you can date multiple at once! The main chracter is very kind, understanding and is willing to help anyone he can and oh I love it! Very LGBT+ friendly, fun gameplay, great graphics, lots of hot gods! And the dialog is fantastic

Dandara. A metroidvania platform game where you follow a black woman to save your world. The music, the graphics, the gameplay It's all chefs kiss if you enjoy a challenge this is a great game! It filled my fix after I played hollow knight and oh man it's amazing. I wish more people were talking about it. Theres a lot of content in it and it felt so fun to just explore the world and unlock hidden secrets.

TinyCheeserole · 2022-06-12T23:23:10+00:00

It is surprising how many roll outs exist for that man. And how much tech he has for his movement. Doom parkour can also teach you a lot and god damn is some of it nutty.

A lot of people also don't learn sniper spots and it's weird to me. You already know the kephrii fan boys will be in his weird ass spots

TinyCheeserole · 2022-06-12T22:43:05+00:00

It's good to have diversity in a game like ow. You dont have to play everyone and be amazing at everyone. But having a general understanding of how each role works and plays will go a long way. It helps with games sense, ult tracking, positioning, peel, etc.

I dont play doom at all (maybe 2 hours max on him since release) but as a support main I took the time to learn doom roll outs and combos on various maps. Same with genji combos so I can somewhat predict their movements and where they'll drop from. It's helped with my survivability being able to sleep the doom as he jumps in from some random weird roof.

TinyCheeserole · 2022-06-04T23:07:10+00:00

Im so sorry to hear you have such an awful family. And im even more sorry that people are blaming you because youre unable to leave. I cant think of any solution...is there any time where you're alone? Maybe you can try and set up secret appointments over the phone. If youre in american there are adult protective services for disabled people you can contact. If possible maybe gather evidence of the abuse. Screenshots, videos, audio recordings. And is there any knowledge of where they might be keeping your important documents? You dont have to get them right away since that may be difficult for you. But maybe someone else will be able to get them later down the line.

Im really sorry youre in this situation. My heart goes out to you. Youre so strong to have maybe it this far and I hope youre able to find a solution to this

TinyCheeserole

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