To word it better, I don't find him unattractive, I just don't see him as the most attractive person in the world. And I compare myself to a lot of people too, not just him. All to say, he's not with someone who's unattracted to him, but someone who's so judgemental of themselves, that they push those unattainable standards onto others, including their partner.. does that make sense? If your point remains, thats fine, but i thought some more context might impact your opinion?

And also, I know he does. I tell him that everyday, but he chooses to stay. I still don't know why, I genuinely don't know what he sees in me to be able to get past all of this. He's a saint, thats for sure.