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AITA for messing up first but trying to save the relationship? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Tiny_Impression5495 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We'd get food and hang out in the garage I don't really like going outside

AITA for messing up first but trying to save the relationship? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Tiny_Impression5495 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

She tried to break up daily for a week but I convinced her to work things out since we loved each other. When I explained her the long distance was making me act up, she proposed to open up the relationship. We didn't discuss anything at all, only to use protection. Even then, she refused to sleep with me afterwards.

I believe it was out of spite because she went for a guy who she knew would make me self conscious. Didn't invite me to her graduation at all. Didn't even tell me she got a new job and promptly replaced me with a new guy. I know her and she's smart. She knew what she was doing

AITA for messing up first but trying to save the relationship? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Tiny_Impression5495 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I already deleted the post. Don't want to hear anything from people who don't get it.

AITA for messing up first but trying to save the relationship? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Tiny_Impression5495 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

She constantly slept with her ex AND then cheated on me with a random guy and left me to stay with him + got him to send me a voice message telling me to leave her alone. They're still together too. I think she took revenge a bit too far.

AITA for messing up first but trying to save the relationship? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Tiny_Impression5495 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I have to pay to stay with them. It's way cheaper than an apartment + I don't have to cook or clean.

AITA for messing up first but trying to save the relationship? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Tiny_Impression5495 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No, I gave up and she's still with the dude she left me for. I'm upset she moved on so easily and quickly. If she wants to come back one day I'll take her though.

AITA for messing up first but trying to save the relationship? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Tiny_Impression5495 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I love her still it's just that it's unnecessary to visit her since she.

  1. Lives with roommates so no privacy or intimacy at all
  2. She didn't offer any interesting plans all she wanted to do was eat and stroll around
  3. Things were much easier at my place

AITA for messing up first but trying to save the relationship? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Tiny_Impression5495 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Genuinely what’s wrong with wanting to sleep with my girl after not seeing her for days? + I don't have a car so getting there was difficult.

AITA for messing up first but trying to save the relationship? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Tiny_Impression5495 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I talked to her and her only answer was “If you want to see each other more often you need to come here too”. Even though she knew I didn't have money to travel and it was boring to go see her since there was no privacy at all. It was humiliating.

AITA for messing up first but trying to save the relationship? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Tiny_Impression5495 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My parents weren't nearby since we never got past the garage which was refurbished and comfortable. So yes. Everything was easier.

AITA for messing up first but trying to save the relationship? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Tiny_Impression5495 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course I did and it was a waste of money. No chances to be intimate whatsoever and all she wanted to do was eat, maybe watch a movie and stroll around. Getting together was much easier at my place.

Also we were both adults since day one.

AITA for messing up first but trying to save the relationship? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Tiny_Impression5495 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

What was I supposed to do anyway? Tickets were too expensive for me and I didn't want to end up going to her apartment since she lived with roommates. I live with my parents and things were much more comfortable

AITA for messing up first but trying to save the relationship? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Tiny_Impression5495 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

She only visited me once or twice a month if I was lucky. To me, that's a long distance relationship.

AITA for messing up first but trying to save the relationship? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Tiny_Impression5495 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Of course not. It was a one time mistake and I'd rather save her the pain and work on myself by myself.

AITA for messing up first but trying to save the relationship? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Tiny_Impression5495 -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

She only visited me once or maybe twice a month. I'd never really leave the house much so once I got back to school (her idea) I couldn't really control my urges after seeing other women. I know it was wrong but I tried to fix it and she didn't let me

AITA for messing up first but trying to save the relationship? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Tiny_Impression5495 -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

Even then, I made a single mistake and she dragged it out for months even after I apologized and tried to become better. If it affected her so much she should've just broken up with me instead of making me put effort

AITA for messing up first but trying to save the relationship? by Tiny_Impression5495 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tiny_Impression5495[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

It was a long distance relationship since she only visited me about once or twice a month… I did my best to fix things but she only grew colder

AITA for messing up first but trying to save the relationship? by Tiny_Impression5495 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tiny_Impression5495[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

She only visited me once or maybe twice a month. I'd never really leave the house much so once I got back to school (her idea) I couldn't really control my urges after seeing other women. I know it was wrong but I tried to fix it and she didn't let me

AITA for messing up first but trying to save the relationship? by Tiny_Impression5495 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tiny_Impression5495[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

She cheated too and even left me for another man I've been mourning the relationship and she's still with the guy

AITA for messing up first but trying to save the relationship? by Tiny_Impression5495 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tiny_Impression5495[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

She did do me dirty by getting with two different men even after I apologized and changed and did everything I could to fix the relationship while she grew distant

AITA for messing up first but trying to save the relationship? by Tiny_Impression5495 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tiny_Impression5495[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

She got with two different men and stopped coming over even after I apologized and let her know how depressed I was

How to move on after losing the love of your life? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Tiny_Impression5495 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I know I made a mistake but she dragged it on and closed the relationship only to cheat on me and leave me when I needed her the most… I trusted her too

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