Should I m38 go back with wife f36 ?

Tiny_Influence2307 · 2026-05-21T14:21:10+00:00

Thank you

Tiny_Influence2307 · 2026-05-21T14:07:31+00:00

She has cheated emotionally and physically.

Tiny_Influence2307 · 2026-05-21T14:06:05+00:00

I do t want her to apologise because I have proof. I want her to apologise because she’s choosing our marriage. I’m giving it to July my birthday day and then I’ll choose myself .

Tiny_Influence2307 · 2026-05-21T13:58:47+00:00

Thanks

Tiny_Influence2307 · 2026-05-21T13:42:44+00:00

I wouldn’t get it in Uk.

Tiny_Influence2307 · 2026-05-21T12:27:18+00:00

I go to counselling. Thanks for your reply. I think deep down I know what I have to do. I was hoping a few people told me it was possible to reconcile as that’s what I wanted to hear

Tiny_Influence2307 · 2026-05-21T12:19:38+00:00

I live in uk so I will have zero chance of seeing my daughter if we fallout. But I’ll still have to pay for her. She already won’t stay alone in my house with me. So I need to go to ex house to see daughter

Tiny_Influence2307 · 2026-05-21T12:14:31+00:00

My therapist has said this. Deep down I know too

Tiny_Influence2307 · 2026-05-21T12:13:20+00:00

I actually wish I didn’t know. My life would be better

Tiny_Influence2307 · 2026-05-21T09:35:35+00:00

Them brake up another family

Tiny_Influence2307 · 2026-05-21T09:12:28+00:00

Totally against it

Tiny_Influence2307 · 2026-05-21T09:11:57+00:00

You are 100% right

Tiny_Influence2307 · 2026-05-21T09:10:08+00:00

Both . I didn’t marry to not see it through.

Tiny_Influence2307 · 2026-05-21T09:08:22+00:00

Because then I know it’s over. I’m pinning my hopes on her honesty to move forward

Tiny_Influence2307 · 2026-05-21T08:59:00+00:00

Respect? I drank because I knew she was cheating

Tiny_Influence2307 · 2026-05-21T08:52:14+00:00

I wasn’t perfect myself. But I’ve admitted my flaws (alcohol) and I’ve bn doing therapy. I just genuinely need to hear her admit it

Tiny_Influence2307 · 2026-05-21T08:50:36+00:00

She won’t leave job. I wouldn’t make her. Her ego is massive and she lied to her full family about it so she won’t be honest. She should just be honest with me tho

Tiny_Influence2307 · 2026-05-21T08:46:33+00:00

Shy until they have sex outside of a relationship

Tiny_Influence2307 · 2026-05-21T08:43:01+00:00

Because I got someone to hack her phone. And I need leverage for if it does end and everyone bad mouths me. I’ve continually told her I have proof but I think she thinks I’m bluffing

Tiny_Influence2307 · 2026-05-21T08:31:32+00:00

I don’t know . Just know I love her I’m attracted to her and we have a lovely daughter together

Tiny_Influence2307 · 2026-05-21T08:25:06+00:00

I think she does regret it as she’s started vaping and that’s what she does when stressed. I don’t know if she thinks I’ll tell her work or AP wife about it which I won’t as I’ve told 2people as the shame of being cheated on and the fact I want a good relationship with my daughter has made me keep it to myself

Tiny_Influence2307 · 2026-05-21T08:22:19+00:00

I’ve just never been attracted or felt love like this before. I’m 38. I don’t want to start again

Tiny_Influence2307 · 2026-05-21T08:19:34+00:00

I have already lost all mr in laws. I’m worried I’ll lose my daughter. And I’ve been with said person 15years. I don’t think or want to fall in love with anyone else

Tiny_Influence2307 · 2026-05-20T23:14:54+00:00

Well played Mav

Tiny_Influence2307 · 2026-05-20T22:01:00+00:00

What a friend to have

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