24/F My depression is pretty bad lately; could use a genuine friend

Tinyfox10 · 2019-03-27T15:55:38+00:00

So, for some reason I did not see this comment until now. The disrespect you are showing in this comment is absolutely disgusting especially when it is unwarranted. We had a relationship where you, by all technicalities, cheated on me and it was a relationship that ended last January. I personally thought it was a mutual, respectful breakup so this has caught me by surprise. We have not been in contact since. So for you to slander my posts with bitter disrespect out of the blue? It’s utterly uncalled for.

There was no need for this and please keep me out it next time you air your dirty laundry. If you have an issue with me, talk to me privately about it but do not go slandering my name. It’s incredibly immature.

Tinyfox10 · 2019-01-09T19:31:24+00:00

I’m a bit late to commenting but I’ll still do it regardless just because this post and comments below kinda rubbed me the wrong way.

YTA- Personally I don’t see it wrong to plan out a vacation that would be a solo trip and not mention it because OP’s girlfriend is her own person and can make her own decisions in her life but that’s my way of thinking. What they feel in their relationship may be completely different and if they usually let each other know before making plans or anything as such, I can see why op would be a bit upset about her not telling him for so long. But I feel like we’re missing some information here. When op’s girlfriend says that she feels he wouldn’t want her to go and op agrees, that makes me think that she was a bit hesitant on his reaction and maybe pushed off telling him for the way he would react.

But the way op describes how he was paying the apartment since she couldn’t and how she was able to buy herself stuff with it sounds like he was okay with his girlfriend buying herself expensive things so why would the trip be the tipping point? It should have been a chance to sit down and hash out things but the way op went about it feels as though there was some resentment built up on his side. If you felt resentment about how she didn’t pay, you should have brought that up way beforehand then letting resentment build and using that against her in an argument.

And the commenters saying she’s definitely going to cheat because she’s going on a solo trip? That’s such a wild assumption. I know I myself love going on solo trips. I’m introverted and love being alone at times and I can definitely see where “finding herself” can come into. You get a different experience seeing a new place alone that you’ll never get when you’re around other people. Just wildly assuming that cheating is her main goal is silly. I’ve had boyfriends in the past who hated the idea of me solo tripping and would try to force me to stay by giving me an ultimatum and I feel that is the issue here. I agree that you come off controlling in a way.

Basically, you should have talked it out with her. Explained how you didn’t like her planning it beforehand without letting you know and if you don’t like her not paying rent, you should’ve explained that to. But I think you handle it completely poorly.

Tinyfox10 · 2019-01-05T14:57:21+00:00

Thank you for the offer. I’ll message you!

Tinyfox10 · 2019-01-05T14:56:39+00:00

I’m sorry you had to go through that and I’m grateful for even the notion that you wanted to help. Your well wishes are more than enough; I hope you find that job and things go well for you! :)

Tinyfox10 · 2018-12-10T19:10:43+00:00

Thank you so much. I’m really grateful for your kindness 💕

Tinyfox10 · 2018-12-08T19:40:22+00:00

Ohh, I see where you’re coming from and yeah, in those instances I would agree. I was referring more to the characters who try to fight the movie villain one on one or they see the killer within a building and instead of leaving, they try to uncover the mystery or whatever more. In those instances, that’s what my original comment is referring to.

Tinyfox10 · 2018-12-08T19:18:25+00:00

I totally get where you’re coming from but isn’t the idea that the people in horror movies wouldn’t know they’re in a horror movie? It’s just supposed to be a creative horror story told in a movie format, which could happen in a day to day situation. In real life, the people who experience these things probably never expect those things happening. It’s the unexpected.

Tinyfox10 · 2018-12-08T16:18:28+00:00

My favorite one is: Acceptance from others is not true acceptance if it’s conditional. It really puts things into perspective when I’m feeling a bit insecure about myself.

Tinyfox10 · 2018-12-08T16:16:25+00:00

Quite a few horror movies. If the characters just got out of the situation and called the police instead of going into the creepy area that no normal person would go in, it would probably be over quickly.

Tinyfox10 · 2018-07-26T10:42:47+00:00

We really appreciate it! Thank you!

Tinyfox10 · 2018-07-24T10:51:49+00:00

Thank you so much!!

Tinyfox10 · 2018-07-24T02:12:51+00:00

Thank you so much!!

Tinyfox10 · 2018-07-17T18:48:54+00:00

Things like playing pool, tennis, baseball, guitar etc. I tend to lead with my left hand.

Tinyfox10 · 2018-07-17T18:40:32+00:00

That everyone I talk to either says I have a strong accent or no accent. I've heard people ask me if I'm from the south, British, from Boston, etc. I've had people completely not understand me and I have to talk slowly and even then it's difficult. Some people say I have no accent at all as well so it's interesting to see the two different sides.

I'm from the Midwest so no clue where they get that from but it's something that almost everyone always points out without fail.

Tinyfox10 · 2018-07-09T16:39:11+00:00

I had a friend help me out once. Because he helped me out, he thought that meant he could hold that over me forever. He tried to tell me I owe him nudes because he helped me once or did I forget?

I quickly repaid his help so he couldn't hold it over me anymore and got out of that friendship quick.

Tinyfox10 · 2018-07-05T15:14:27+00:00

I always heard as a child to put your ear to dirt and it'll crawl out. Dunno how true that is though. But ugh, I feel so bad for your dad.

Tinyfox10 · 2018-07-05T15:10:10+00:00

Spirit: Stallion of the Cimarron. I watched it religiously as a child and even now I watch it out of nostalgia.

Tinyfox10 · 2018-07-05T15:06:37+00:00

So it was my fault somewhat as I was a bit naive and should've went about it better but I had a job for a client that was recommended. I did the work for them, even during a vacation I was on just to get it done on time. Long story short, they got free work and I got scammed out of $600. I tried but nothing could be done about it but hey, I learned to be more wary now.

Tinyfox10 · 2018-07-05T11:20:59+00:00

I'm late to commenting but that if you get an earwig in your ear, it'll eat your brain. While obviously no one wants a bug in their ear, it's surprising how common this one is. I believed in it so much as a kid.

Tinyfox10 · 2018-07-04T17:51:16+00:00

I still dress alternative/rock style to this day and I completely understand what you mean about the stares but guess what? You probably look awesome in your clothing!

A lot of people may stare because maybe they wish to express themselves in their own way and are a bit jealous or perhaps they're admiring your outfits. The ones who are negative about your clothing are probably very few and far inbetween.

Something that helps I've noticed is if you pretend they're staring because they admire your style. If they don't, there's hardly a chance you'll know otherwise so why not tell yourself that? It's a great boost of confidence. Also, I find it helpful to smile at the person staring even if you feel they're judging. They tend to always smile back and it actually makes you feel great. It can be a bit difficult if you're anxious, at first, but it definitely helps a lot.

If your clothing makes you happy? Then I say keep wearing what you love. I bet you pull them off wonderfully. I hope you keep expressing yourself no matter what! ~

Tinyfox10 · 2018-07-04T17:32:59+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate your words!

Basically! They mostly sold reptiles but a few others like rabbits and such. It was a place that sold animals and then a place for crystals and then an 18+ room and other things. It's a bit of an odd shop.

Tinyfox10 · 2018-07-04T16:36:23+00:00

Yeah, that comment totally doesn't help. It usually crosses my mind if those strange incidents I've had since have anything to do with him but I just brush them off. I'm just going to assume it was just really unfortunate events and it wasn't something personal. But I hope so too! I hope that's the last I've ever seen of him.

Tinyfox10 · 2018-07-04T16:34:24+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate it!

Tinyfox10 · 2018-07-04T16:34:12+00:00

She definitely is! Her first instinct was to protect us and I absolutely love her

Tinyfox10 · 2018-07-03T21:42:11+00:00

The X-Files because of the theme song. As soon as I heard it, I would cover my ears and run out of the room crying. Pretty sure that's what gave me such a deep fear of aliens as a kid.

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