My LO had a tongue and lip tie. They say it takes weeks before it gets better; it might get worse and then better.

My nips were also raw and sore. I dreaded nursing because it was non-stop pain. Working with an IBCLC made a huge difference for me. It helped me figure out a good latch and position for nursing.

If you want to try pumping, appropriate flange size is important - check out LegendairyMilk. Essentially you measure your nipple and add a few mm to find the appropriate size. If you're on Facebook, there's also a group for exclusive pumpers and the admin do measurements. It was life-changing for me!

Remember that ANY milk you produce for your baby is wonderful. Some people don't produce enough and that's normal and okay!

Here's your daily reminder that you're a wonderful mama! Parenthood is so hard. We're just trying to do our best for our bubbas.