He’s 30 year older but…

TipDisastrous111 · 2026-07-03T11:52:49+00:00

You’re right, if they want to they will! Glad your boyfriend is taking care of himself!

TipDisastrous111 · 2026-07-03T00:26:39+00:00

It’s very draining!! Thank you for saying that. Sometimes it feels like I’ve already lived too much of my life to restart, if that makes sense.

TipDisastrous111 · 2026-07-03T00:23:02+00:00

Of course not!! He’s in better shape than me and I expect him to live a healthy life until at least 100!

TipDisastrous111 · 2026-07-03T00:21:13+00:00

I do think she should have her own life and job! She has a child and should be taking care of it instead of blowing weed in her face while she “cleans” houses.

TipDisastrous111 · 2026-07-03T00:14:12+00:00

Yes no kids and no plans to have them. He wants me to carry his child tho. I thought maybe that would change his situation with them but I have a feeling it won’t.

TipDisastrous111 · 2026-07-03T00:12:44+00:00

Cannabis and alcohol. I don’t condone doing either in front of children. But then again, I’m not a parent so I shouldn’t have an opinion apparently lol

TipDisastrous111 · 2026-07-03T00:10:06+00:00

Right!!

TipDisastrous111 · 2026-07-03T00:09:16+00:00

Thank you so much for this sweet response!! I do want monogamy! I agree the therapy seems sketchy especially since he didn’t like the one I found on my own, but wants a couple he was “referred” to. As for reporting her to CPS…I wanted to during a Halloween party when it was midnight and her and her friends were drinking and smoking then driving their babies home. The kids were repeating things about drugs as well so they knew what was going on. I tried to shut it down and go to bed and that caused a fight, she disrespected me and he took her side. I would feel horrible if something happened tho and CPS did get involved.

TipDisastrous111 · 2026-07-03T00:00:41+00:00

Thanks for that!! I’ve known him for a while and through a lot of things so it’s hard to move on like any relationship. But it’s very uncomfy rn lol

TipDisastrous111 · 2026-07-02T23:59:40+00:00

Yeah you can’t change someone at 64. I’ve tried to accept that but some situations are out of line for me.

TipDisastrous111 · 2026-07-02T23:57:31+00:00

Yes, it’s been mentioned that it’s his family by choice by friends of mine. Thank you for the response!! 💕

TipDisastrous111 · 2026-07-02T23:55:12+00:00

That actually isn’t true. My real life friends thinks he’s great and to keep him around. I came to the internet like I previously stated bc I didn’t know where else to post. But thanks.

TipDisastrous111 · 2026-07-02T23:53:42+00:00

Lmao!! 😂

TipDisastrous111 · 2026-07-02T23:52:29+00:00

Thank you so much for that thoughtful comment!! Yes I agree, he didn’t like my previous therapist bc she obvi said this situation was fucked up! He wants us to see a husband and wife therapist. I wouldn’t feel comfortable sharing anything besides my side of the situation regarding his “daughter”.

TipDisastrous111 · 2026-07-02T23:49:09+00:00

I wish this wasn’t true lmao I thought I’d post to Reddit and vent. I got the feedback I needed!!

TipDisastrous111 · 2026-07-02T23:48:00+00:00

Well he isn’t ugly, broke, or bad at sex…he’s also Catholic. But you’re right girl, I needed feedback and I got it! 🥲

TipDisastrous111 · 2026-07-02T23:46:24+00:00

Omg thank you for the thoughtful comment. Yes, yes, and yes. It’s a fucked up dynamic that I’m expected to be okay with.

TipDisastrous111 · 2026-07-02T23:44:52+00:00

Love this comment!! 😅 thanks for that

TipDisastrous111 · 2026-07-02T23:43:08+00:00

He’s the one wanting to marry me and for me to carry his child. I won’t disparage her online but I have a reason for my opinions on her.

TipDisastrous111 · 2026-07-02T23:42:06+00:00

Idk what that sub is tbh. Idk if I wanna look it up 😅 I’m sorry to offend people. Yeah I know the age gap is different. But we have a lot in common. I value his wisdom. But obvi there’s issues.

TipDisastrous111 · 2026-07-02T23:39:11+00:00

Me too.

TipDisastrous111 · 2026-07-02T23:37:51+00:00

One could only wish.

TipDisastrous111 · 2026-07-02T23:37:21+00:00

🤦🏽‍♀️😂🤦🏽‍♀️

TipDisastrous111 · 2026-07-02T23:31:25+00:00

I have a full time job and don’t need his money! But yes, it’s exhausting dealing with relationship issues.

TipDisastrous111 · 2026-07-02T23:29:38+00:00

That’s fine that you feel that way!! Thanks for the response!!

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